acceptance is way for being okay....

One has no other way to live life but accepting anything that you come across. But even with that truth, that does not mean that one can't move around certain obstacles and use those to your advantage. For example in making money...the poor people who believed that the rich should be punished, some hundred years ago, is made and passed to become a law and became income tax to each and everyone of us in the present time. But the rich remained rich because they've found a way to go around the law which does not involve lawyers bending rules and some other crappy illegal stuff. What came out to be as punishment for a certain number of people merely backfired to those who voted for it. What was that word called again? Oh! "Karma" for those "poor" who wish to bring down the "rich". In life one needs his/her own wits to create options for oneself. The more options one has, the better. Pain, Sadness, Despair are merely emotions that teaches a person what he/she should know. It is how life is pushing one around to learn something out of life. I strongly believe, that life is not a great chessboard where you lose, you really lose. But that life is a very big learning field that would teach a person the necessary wisdom to live life as it is meant to be. Happy MyLotting!

I would think that a lot of people here wouldn't settle for acceptance. I'm sure people would say to fight for what you want. To struggle through so that you may get what you want, or get to where you want to be. But I agree that sometimes you've just got to step back. And accept the things that you don't have any control over. That way you may live your life stress-free.

I agree with you. Sometimes in life, things happen whether we want to or not, whether we understand it or not. We cannot control everything, so the best way to be okay is to accept that fact, that we cannot control everything. Then, we have to accept it, and find a way to make it work for us. Everything happens for a reason after all.

Well, to overcome certain things, acceptance will not work. Time on the other hand, heals all wounds. Now, there are some things in my life that happened to me that I will never forgive and never accept. So, that theory is shot.

imagine the life with full of happiness!!such life would ultimately lead to decreasing the value of happiness.you see this world is two sided just like a coin. the wrong things in our life account for experience.whatever happens is for good.so acceptance is absolutely necessary.just keep on ejoying life,its damm sexy!! wish you a happy new year.

I've been through a lot in life and I had accepted some of the things that had happen in my life. It still didnt stop the pain. What have stop the pain is acceptaning that theres a storm and dancing in it. Life is full of good times and bad times. Just as we dance when were happy we have to dance even more when were sad.

Yes you are right acceptance is the best thing we can do coz if one thing has happened we have nothing to do but to let it passed and we are remain standing and accept the truth. It is hard to accept the truth coz its the reality. You know the most difficult to accept is if we are left by our love one. If they gone and we know that they are not coming back. And especially if they saw another girl that replaced to us. All i know and the best thing we could do is to accept.

hi asliah, to this world we need to accept whatever what happen, even your right or wrong, this is to learn our mistakes, sometimes acceptance is good for us to know our error in life and accept whatever problems and trials, for human like us acceptance to all is not big deal, so dont be sad if you accept accept accept.Godbless :-)