Overcoming Stress

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Living in harmony is not the monopoly of those who are lucky , priviledged or rich alone. If we seek peace and harmony, we have to work for it. There is a proverb "The one who created you cannot save you without you". Some people may have parents siblings or someone in the family with a charismatic personality to influence over the others. In the presence of such persons, there will be a cool atmosphere. Even those who live in conflict will calm down in their presence. It is like a cruel lion acting like a lamb. Such is the power of magnetic personality. We might have heard people saying - his or her one word is enough and everything goes all right. Some will never say a word, their one look is enough all will calm down. Some will barm, yell and mourn for hours but no one will pay attention. People will get used to such persons. They keep quiet but will not change their attitude. When there are persons with magnetic personality, it is a great asset to the family and to the society. But the normal people cannot be the victims of their character or temperament. They have to be aware of themselves. They must accept with serenity their positive and negative drives. They have to work daily and constantly to tame their character. It is not enough to give the reasons for getting provoked. If we do not take care of ourselves, ultimately it we who suffer. From the beginning of our awareness stage, the parents must allow that the child gains confidence with someone to share, to get consoled and to listen to their help. In life we do need someone to support us. We have to render ourselves acceptable to others. We have to learn to trust someone and get guidance.