Marriage : a mylotter and a friend.
By shibham
@shibham (16977)
India
December 4, 2011 6:06am CST
Hi everyone.
Today is a marriage ceremony of a mylotter. Do you know, who? She is vijiboopathy. Lets send wishes to her. She sent the invitation card to me but it was too late that i received. Thats why i am unable to attend her marriage.
Today is a marriage ceremony of my close friend Ritu. We met each other on University in 1999. He had a g/f then who is no more now. Everyone thought that we were involved in a triangle love for our endearment and closeness. Ritu and me are spending our time separately now due to job and seldom meet each other. Regarding phone, i had to call more, he rarely.
He was in love again (sad that i was not informed earlier) and came here days ago to invite me to his marriage with her. Today, i have not gone. On 7th, he has arranged the party. I am thinking what to do. Should i go? Please tell me.
Thanks in advance.
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15 responses
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
Congrats on the marriage of your friends. I think it would be better to go the wedding, presence of friends are appreciated on such special occasion.
Still have 2 days to prepare for it.
Still have 2 days to prepare for it.1 person likes this
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
4 Dec 11
I think I remember that... similar to a King's suit..?
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@viji_v2 (727)
• India
25 May 12
Thanks for this post, Shibha. I got many wishes without my knowledge for my life.
I think you would have met your friend after the marriage or in party. Even you have lost contact with him, at least he gave you invitation.
Now Happy Married life for you. :-)
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@vandana7 (98927)
• India
5 Dec 11
Now you tell me. Its a great news about viji. Was kind of missing her. Of course, we wish her well. :)
I think you should. If he has called you, it is right to go. If you all can find your old bonding then there is nothing like it. If not, you at least know that a friend has truly become just an acquaintance.
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Have a nice time.
@shibham (16977)
• India
6 Dec 11
mamu, i did not know that she has closed her account earlier. After reading you i searched and yes, you are right. I dont know why? Hope she will get us very soon.
Well, Ritu followed me each and everywhere on his university life. He even copied my notes and got a good result to be a professor like me. Later he forgot everything and became self centered. Yet, i went to his sister's marriage and he too came here on same occasion. But this time i am thinking.
have a nice time.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
5 Dec 11
hi shiby,
That is a good news Best Wishes to them.
I think if this person is really your friend there is no reason for you not to attend the wedding .
happy mylotting
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happy mylotting
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
4 Dec 11
Hi shibham, it is good that you started this discussion regarding viji's marriage.She has invited me on the facebook and I wish I was somewhere closer to her so that I could have attended her wedding...I wish her and her hubby the very best in their married life...
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
5 Dec 11
Best Wishes to them...
Make sure to attend and be here when I get married 
@akp100 (13640)
• India
5 Dec 11
Hi
Surely you should attend his party. Go for nice get to gather. As you mentioned you both were close friend, so why not ??
About viji.. Just two days before I tried to open her account here but its no more. I don't know why she deleted account here. Hope she will back with the new one. I didn't know today is the special day for her.. My Best wishes for her.
Surely you should attend his party. Go for nice get to gather. As you mentioned you both were close friend, so why not ??
About viji.. Just two days before I tried to open her account here but its no more. I don't know why she deleted account here. Hope she will back with the new one. I didn't know today is the special day for her.. My Best wishes for her.1 person likes this
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
5 Dec 11
hi, Viji is in my friend list too. But i don't understand why she closed her my lot account. is marriage the issue to leave such beautiful place / site? Or may be she'll be back later once the honeymoon days are over!! Best wishes to her.
And your case... why you are still thinking to attend the party? After all he's your friend.. attend and rock on!
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@rollylolly (2843)
• India
4 Dec 11
Thanks for the good news . Please covey my congratulations and wishes to vijiboopathy on her marriage . May she be blessed with all the happiness and joy .
Good wishes to your friend Ritu as well . I have also been in close touch with some of university friends and I feel proud that it has been possible because of my efforts as seldom they call me although we are in touch in the facebook . It happens with time we get engaged with our own work and forget or feel the urge to socialize . I don't blame them . I think you should leave behind everything and attend his reception ceremony . It will make both you and your friend happy . Trust me it will be the most precious time of your life .
Good wishes 
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@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
4 Dec 11
hi shibham, by all means you should attend the party of your
friend..sometimes people get caught up in their own issues
and being that your guys did not communicate on a regular is
probably the reason you recieved your invited so late..
But if thats your real friend then go to the party and wish
them well..Stuff do happen but thats not reason to not attend
your friends party and let him know that your are his friend
and support him no matter what. GO HAVE FUN....
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have a nice time.
@ShyBear88 (59288)
• Sterling, Virginia
5 Dec 11
Send beat wish to the bride and groom. I hope they have a wonderful happy marriage for many years. I hope that you can try tofind the time to go if not send them a little gift to show you were thinking about them.
