kalav56 responded to a discussion called It is comforting to know that the love and compassion still exist in human minds in life.
6 days ago
Strangely, this compassionate mind is seen a lot more in people of lesser means Bala.I have always felt that some poor people are more generous than their "so called ' better counterparts.I can well identify with that feeling.I would have felt the same joy and admiration for that kind soul if I were in your place.

kalav56 responded to a discussion called Do you get offended easily by the words and deeds of others? in life.
4 days ago
Yes Bala.I used to, am still sensitive and the sadder thing in this is that I have a pretty transparent face that shows feelings on my face.I wish to change, develop a sterner and harder attitude.I am still hopeful that I would achieve a bit of nenjuram some day.I allow myself to be hurt[Am working against this.] and I wholeheartedly agree with the statement of the great soul.

kalav56 responded to a discussion called Confusion about life in life.
3 days ago
Thankfully I do not think too much in these lines.We cannot understand why certain things happen and why certain things do not. So I do not bother too much about it.I can do nothing to alleviate the suffering of good souls . ANd this would all be too complex for me.But it is sad to see these good souls who are struggling[due to no fault of their own].As far as the other aspect of bad people e...

kalav56 responded to a discussion called Do you get agitated when you hear negative things about your country? in questions & answers.
3 days ago
I am also proud of my country and I accept the fact that every individual has a right to be pride of one's own country.It is a feeling of belonging and one of pride that constitute this patriotic verve.I do not believe that one needs to feel superior or inferior of anything.We have done precious nothing to be born of some parents or some great country.IT is sheer chance and I feel just great an...

kalav56 responded to a discussion called Do you have comfort clothes, which you cannot do without? in people.
3 days ago
I do. This is a nightie[ in fact there are few of them] which are made of soft cotton and I feel most comfortable in them .I have now developed this habit of being unable to sleep if I am not wearing some cotton night wear or other[I do wear a cotton saree if I am in someone else's place].AT HOME, this would be favourite cotton night dress[much to the eye sore of my husband and son who keep say...

kalav56 responded to a discussion called Should the British celebrate Thanksgiving? in life.
3 days ago
Well, basically the concept of thanksgiving appeals to me. In our country we do not have this sort[the one you have spoken of] but there are other festivals that are very interesting.THere is one harvest festival in the month of January--this basically is the harvest season in certain regions and people invoke Nature and thank her for Her countless Blessings.We thank the Sun and NATURE, feed ...

kalav56 responded to a discussion called MyLot IS a scam! tell everyone! in mylot.com.
3 days ago
Very nice.Initially, the title of the discussion shocked me and that too because it was from a seasoned my lot member.However, I was glad to read what you had written. I have not found a more friendly forum than this and I hope to stay here for long.[em]thumbup[/em][em]thumbup[/em]to mylot!

kalav56 commented in a discussion called Warning -I received a counterfeit currency note in a bank![for Rs five hundred in sharing of new ideas &knowledge.
3 days ago
tHAT IS TRUE.My husband also told me after I came back thta it would have made sense to get thousands especially when there is massive shopping.I did not think of it at that time.Anyhow we always pay some price for learning.I put it down to that.

kalav56 commented in a discussion called Do you get offended easily by the words and deeds of others? in life.
3 days ago
Absolutely true.It takes a lot of grit to be tough and stern when people say unjustified things. And as you had said, harbouring these things ultimately ruins our own peace of mind thereby affecting our health.Now I have learnt to view things ina more dispassionate way.

kalav56 commented in a discussion called Do you get agitated when you hear negative things about your country? in questions & answers.
3 days ago
I overlooked the main question.I do not fancy hearing our own people talking negatively of our country.Whatever country one lives in, it is likely to have good qualities and bad.And so I wish to only look at the good qualities.