Dating a friend ex-girlfriend.
By lovetmyou
@lovetmyou (111)
Philippines
December 12, 2011 12:04pm CST
There's is so much guilt in me. I even feel guilty about feeling guilty. my friends this message is about John, a friend of my who had a girlfriend. I ran a cross her at the Mall, and we start talking. John is seen another girl and I am seen John x girlfriend. How can I certain that John will forgive me? I thank if John was a true friend he would get over it and we can all be happy. Am I wrong for dating this young lady? Yes! I feel guilty because we were friend for a long times and I also love the company of this lady. How can I be friend with John again? She said to me let on with our new life and in times John forgive us. I love John company but I love her more. Have this happen to anyone?
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10 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
12 Dec 11
What exactly is the problem?
You are dating the ex girlfriend of your friend?
Why is that wrong if you both like/love each other?
Doesn't she deserve someone new? Don't you deserve someone?
Did you ask your friend how he feels about it? And why should he care if he had someone new already? Ex should be exit. If you start a new relationship you should be over the old one. If not, you are not ready for a new relationship at all.
To my opinion there is nothing to feel quilty about and nobody needs to forgive you.
@darapmonsta (653)
• India
12 Dec 11
I think, John, your friend, will don't mind if you date with his ex girl friend. Because he is already dating someone else. But still it will be good for you if you have words with him about this.
@lovetmyou (111)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
We have not talk yet, but a friend of a friend said John is fine and loving it up with his new girl. I am in Asia and he's in the USA. Think! you are the first to say go on and be happy. This is why I left that other site, because you can be your self here and express how you think, what's on your mind and get help in a lot of different ways. MYLOT is an answer Prayer for me. The say you can't teach an old dog new trick. Well, I think you never too old to start over or learn something new. I love going around the world meeting new friends and thanking for moving on.
@conquer2012 (324)
• China
13 Dec 11
This did not happen to me before, however, I think it is not good to date with your friend's girlfriend while it is not wrong to date with a girl who is a bachelor and has any relations with your friend. so you may not feel guilty. Do it if both of you love each other.
@gkslight (65)
• India
12 Dec 11
Well Did you talk to John about your situation, If not you are not his real friend. Think about this.
@lovetmyou (111)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
It went like this. I ask John how was his new love life with his new girl? Answer, I like her and moving on. What was the problem, we didn't talk about that. Some guy wants talk about there love life. Was I a real friend? from these comments I was a disgrace so they say. What is a friend, Someone you trust with your car, lend a large amount of money, Trust with your wife or girlfriend. There is in old saying. If it's good to you, it will better to someone else. Why? Because they didn't have to work for it or her. See for me, she was nice and I already know about her. I would see her around in the past. Easy catch with no hard work.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
She is already John's ex right?
So,whats wrong.
I don't think you are betraying your friend John, since the lady is already John's ex.
Why feel that guilty?...talk with John and tell him everything.
@Andyvil (793)
• Philippines
13 Dec 11
This is actually not an issue if John has gotten over her or if John knows that your dating his ex. I wouldn't mind if my friend is going to date my ex as long as he was not dating my ex while we were still together. Anyway all you need to do is tell your friend about it. You don't need to feel guilty if you did nothing wrong.
@bashabasha (400)
• Philippines
12 Dec 11
Its really hard to choose about friendship and love. Well, If you really love the girl fight for it. Remember True Love only knock once. First, talk to you friend man to man and explain everything. Of how ,when and why that feeling is happen. If he truly cherished you as a real friend. He will understand you more . Tell him that you can't help it to let her go. And lastly, ask for his permission. If he will agree for it. Then that's great but if not ,you can only choose one. And what it would be ?
