why girls are so emotional?

India
December 27, 2011 6:02am CST
every time i look into the eyes of my girlfriend their are always surplus emotions and ready to flow out. once i was reading in the library i found a psychological fact associated with it, the fact says in emotions if the first tear comes form right eyes then it denotes the tear of happiness and if it came from the left eye then it would be of sadness....true or not..girls can answer.
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@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
Hi jai, I have no idea that there is an explanation of our tears. I also don't know whether which side my tears comes out too. When I cry I feel like both my eyes have tears.
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• India
27 Dec 11
the fact i discussed indeed correct it is study based which i am sharing with you beacause i have read about this, i will say next time if anyone cry infront of you just looks towards their eyes, and yes do make them smile too, otherwise she will thing you are bit rude with them,,,hahahahah.
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@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
en Starting today- observe where your tears fall down first
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@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
jai I'll keep a mirror with me always
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@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
hello jai Sorry- but I cannot get use to address you with my username (lolz) Well,I don't know why girls are so emotional -hmnn? Yah, I am not emotional so, I don't know the reason. Yes- I am not emotional- but super emotional I want to tell you a secret- never let the other know okay (promised me, this is just between you and me -hahahaa) The reason why girls are so emotional - is- because- .....??? That is their way to melt every man's heart
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@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
jai Now I know the secret why I am also super emotional please don't tell our secret jaiguy (^_^)
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@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
en We should make jaiguy promise that this secret should not be revealed
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
yup jai I think we really should... so where is jaiguy now? Oh and suddenly our avatars' back
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• India
29 Dec 11
girls are emotonal because it is the way we say they expresses themselves. they cry because they are sensitives towards the things, they expects that world will remains in peace they wants everything be just perfect and when they see everything not in its place they just spur up.
• India
29 Dec 11
girls are emotional they do not hold their emotional for longs it may be good or bad for them. i personally like emotional girls more because thats how we can cartegorise them. a girls in emotions are like a beautiful portraits.
• India
30 Dec 11
but contrary to you i do not like girls with emotions, i been so difficult for me to get control their tears because i an too a shy kind of person and a introvert too, but on some occassion i am to behaves like an ambivart.
• India
1 Jan 12
hey nizam we are not here finding bride for you.so that you will have to choose to who would like to sir.
@cearn25 (3460)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
Girls are really emotional! But I haven't thought of that what it could possibly mean which eyes the first tears fall. I will try to see which is which the next time my tears will fall. I am curious now.
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• India
27 Dec 11
Me too! I don't think I can do it because we do not think about it when we are filled with emotions. What do you think ?
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• India
27 Dec 11
thewonderboy, nice name, i to think the same as you are. i mean a person is crying who would have time to notice which tears comes first, we are friend we have to just notice the how can we stop those tears, but its only for the psychological fact given by a psychological experts. beacasue he too has a point that why he is saying all this.
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@mohkanari (1957)
• India
27 Dec 11
By creation itself of nature, females are more sensitive than males. It may be due to the purpose of nature that females are mothers in future and have to be so sentimental with babies.
• India
27 Dec 11
hahaha, some thing to be funny about the answer but yes they are sensitive towards everything either mentally or physically, and yes that is the formost reason that god has choose themselves for babies not beacuse of their sentimental nature, its the different story, and being sentimental never be the reason for being mother. if so that means if anyone wants to be a good mother then she has to be sentimental. no no no.
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• India
27 Dec 11
please answer sunny, the phrase i use "only girl can answer" because of a fact that girls may understand girls thinking, we are here to comment and discussion is open up for everyone.
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• United States
28 Dec 11
Two words: Hormones and Estrogen. Men have hormones, but they don't produce nearly as many as women do, and women are the only ones who produce Estrogen which also has something to do with our emotions. I try not to be so emotional, but sometimes, it just comes out. Part of it comes from that fact that I am bipolar and sometimes, I just can't control my emotions, but the other part is that I might be thinking about someone that I lost many years ago, and all of the sudden the emotions will come out.
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• India
28 Dec 11
hey rogue13xmen13, probably the best answer i am reading on my discussion, thanks for sharing, and yes mens too have some sort of estrogen inside them thats why they are too emotional, but the confusing question is that some mens are more emotional than womens is that mean they have more estrogen than women, if so then why they cannot be count among the womens....give a thought.
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@vandana7 (62447)
• India
27 Dec 11
I think ..and this is something for which I will get negged..bad boy.. Well..I think girls are conditioned to think that they are suffering and that boys have a better deal. For whatever it is worth stories in many religions also portray suffering woman as a great woman. So girls do get into martyr syndrome sort of..they yearn to portray themselves as sufferers in any relationship as if it were a display of graduation or postgraduation. Tears are a part of that scenario. To be happy is a choice, and it can be made at whichever age. I recently did it. So I can say everybody should be able to do it. Yeah, to get angry about the past is natural, to feel bad about some injustices is also natural. But to remain forever in them is not. As simple as that.
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• India
28 Dec 11
yes , as simple it is, a good portrayl vandana. they are seems to have complete graduation and postgraduation iin this aspects. and i do not thing the same way as you they are not conditioned in any way to thing in this way, its comes natural as i said womens have some surplus river inside them which is all set to flow out all the time.
@indi15 (883)
• India
27 Dec 11
Yes girls are emotional , i am also one of them But tears from right or left eye according to happiness or sadness is something i never thought of. when we cry because of various feelings , we do not realize that tear is coming out of which eye first.
• India
27 Dec 11
infact no one does notice, its a fact that i like to share, wondering if anyone is intrested in psychology.
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@Dominique25 (9476)
• United States
27 Dec 11
I'm not sure if the tear thing is true or not. But I do know that women are emotional.I think it has a lot to do with our makeup. We are a lot more sensitive than men. But we can try and balance our emotions by trying not to be overly emotional.
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• India
27 Dec 11
the psychological fact i have mentioned is also true, you would have look out that too. and yes, only a women can tell the grief another women is having.
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• India
27 Dec 11
I think there is nothing so! I don't think know ones notes from which eyes does the tear comes from . So how can I answer to this. A person used to cry when he have intensive emotions from his eyes. The high emotions are give out as tears. So can a person note it ?
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• India
27 Dec 11
only for the psychological shakes up. for examples if a boy is boys you would have to look out the trait with which you can carectogorise him as a boy. in the same manner to know the fact of psychology you would have look out that too. ryt wonderboy.
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• United States
28 Dec 11
I see it this way, Women are more emotional Because They can be. Since childhood, men, then boys, are taught Not to cry , Never show emotion. And yet Girls are Never told this. So by the time we are adults, Women can cry And do often and men rarely do. As for the tear thing, I am not sure it is correct. I have never noticed.
• India
28 Dec 11
sarahruthbeth22 , you have written a funny answer even i can not stop myself laughing. lol. beacuse no person has ever been taught in life that you have to become emotional and you are not. taughting something to someone is different. and lets come to the psychological fact, if you will pay attention to the fact, you will surely come to a conclusion. all you need to do is whenever someone cry in front of you next time do notice.
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• United States
29 Dec 11
If someone is crying in front of me I won't stop to see what eye they are crying from. And sorry you find it funny but Many are told Never to show Any emotion, Sadly most are boys.
• India
29 Dec 11
in fact no one will ever seen up anyone crying instead they all will go and try to wipe out all tears. this fact i have given is for the shake of knowledge.you have nice temprament towards life as you cannot see crying others.
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• United States
28 Dec 11
Wow what a weird psychological Statement because I cannot believe it is a fact....I am a female and when I cry tears come from both eyes.
• India
29 Dec 11
this in not weird thought whiteheather39, it is fact and is study based. and i am not saying that tear will only comeup with left or right one, the fact is saying that if anyone start cying then notice that from which eye the first tear is coming. from lef or right and on the basis of that then become conclusive. and you have not mention you are emotional or not.
• United States
29 Dec 11
I am very emotional and I still start to cry with both eyes!
• India
1 Jan 12
all people are emotional in some ways. and all cry with both eyes both one tear come first and another comes second.
@jdyrj777 (6558)
• United States
28 Dec 11
Right or left i do not know. Never heard that before. I think its because from a very young age male children are told 'big boys dont cry'. So they learn to hold it all in. Thats a bad thing for anyone to hold it all in. Bad for health. Personally i would rather have a male that shows his feelings.
• India
28 Dec 11
you have never heard it before because it is written on the book of god that you will come to know about this fact in mylots and see that what is happening. all written. and its harmones as i mentioned in the previous articles that harmones made girls cry more.
@jdyrj777 (6558)
• United States
29 Dec 11
By you saying the book of God. Im guessing you mean the Bible. If so please share the scripture. O really would like to read that. And yes im also aware its because of hormones. But males have hormones too. But they are taught not to show enotions.
• India
1 Jan 12
no body can taught emotion, its a driving force which comes into plays seldome. and most prominent in womens. and i love to describe the bible here but they do not have boxex to fill a entire tetament...you need to learn by yourself.
@savak03 (6681)
• United States
1 Jan 12
I have no idea but I find it highly suspect. I don't think you can measure happiness or sadness by which eye cries first. It has been known that one eye can have tear ducts that are partially occluded and that would mean the other eye would water first and would have nothing to do with which emotion the tears were caused by.
• India
1 Jan 12
hey, its study based psychological fact. now we can only comment on it cannot deny.
@savak03 (6681)
• United States
2 Jan 12
If the study did not factor in all the possible variables then the results will be suspect. Do you really believe everything you are told? I know many scientific theory's that have not been proven but are still accepted as fact just because they were published.
@Triple0 (1907)
• Australia
28 Dec 11
Really! I never knew that a tear that comes out the left eye first means the person is sad! Is this really true? I should test this out! I'm a girl and I am quite emotional, very emotional actually I may not appear like the type of person who is very sensitive as I am the most emotionally stable in my group of female friends from school. My friends from school can't handle very tough and emotional situations. A friend of mine would cry if her best friend got angry at her and won't talk to her. She thought it was like the end of the world and she couldn't stop getting all emotional about it even though their little friendship fight wasn't that serious and it wasn't her fault. I tend to over think things a little too much too and this gets me pretty emotional. But I hate it when others see me crying, I don't like to be comforted and have others pity me. So I tend to let out the tears when no one is looking. Crying actually helps get rid of all that emotion building up, it actually makes you feel after. From friends, they say guys have no emotional sense. Once a girl was crying and her guy friend just stood there and watched her not knowing what to do I guess girls are more sensitive and are very expressive but guys tend to hide that soft side.
• India
28 Dec 11
hey Triple0, i know you are a girl and yes you are emotional too that i can sense in the article you have created, being emotinal is one of the aesthetics womems are having and that separates them amongs mens. the moments you have discussed in your article of school days have enormous feelings and a girl can only express them.girls are really sensitive towards things because they looks towards the things more deeply. and the pstychological fact i have discussed is real and a study based you can serch it on the web too and story behind the fact. the next time keep refrain on it.
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@Triple0 (1907)
• Australia
28 Dec 11
Guess I wrote a whole life story there, it's as long as an article. My responses tend to be long so that I can talk about more. Like you said, girls are psychologically more sensitive than men and tend to express themselves more freely to let others know what they're truly feel. I think men tend to keep it locked inside rather than show it and of course society perceive men to be tough on the inside but really some men can get pretty emotional too.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
28 Dec 11
Nature meant for us to be that way. :)
• India
28 Dec 11
nature which is build by following the long journey of the thoughts. and person in present is by what he has thoughts in his past.
@djbtol (5500)
• United States
28 Dec 11
You are correct. The differences between men and women are all for the good, and differing emotions is one of those differences.
@djbtol (5500)
• United States
27 Dec 11
I don't know about the right and left thing, but the female gender is often driven by emotion. It is a challenge for them to control these emotions, especially when enhanced by hormonal changes. Most women learn how to recognize and control the emotional factors when they are mature adults, but not all. That is why not every woman should be considered for leadership positions.
• India
28 Dec 11
even i do not know the right and left one, its because i have read about this in my library books, i will read some more fact about this so that i can come to a solution and explore the facts with you guys too ,that a second thing. the first one on being emotional you have given a funny comment that i have not control myself laughing out"it is challange for them to control these emotions, nice one, may be correct to some extent. and yes , i have also read about harmonal control of emotion may be by the womens harmone the oestrogen. do not know to what extent it is correct. and one thing for which i cannot support you for that they are not considered for leadership. they are infact being emotion can bring advantage for them to play the leadership ship role. beacause the person who is emotion is the one one who can took the decisions with calm head.
@djbtol (5500)
• United States
28 Dec 11
Maybe I don't know what I am talking about, but I will say that when emotion is pointed in the right direction it can lead to passion and that is an important quality for a leader.
@bjcelyn (108)
• Philippines
2 Jan 12
Girls are complex creatures that will take a lot of patience to understand. Basically, girls are more emotional than guys because we show our emotions more often than males. Girls worry more than guys. We worry on a lot of things like family issues, jobs, relationships, future, etc. With regards to tears, I've also read and heard about it! I think it's true. I've been observing myself and indeed happy tears comes from the right eye first. :)
• India
4 Jan 12
so peoples who are complez they understands better, then enistine has complex mind and he is more practical than emotional. does i have a point.
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
29 Dec 11
I notice about it, my friend but I don't know the real reason with this. It maybe due to the creation because girl is created dominate by man...
• India
29 Dec 11
domination is not the real reason for having their emotinal nature aerous. it is because of the immense count of estrogen found inside the body of womens thats make them emotion and made them cry, they are sensitive too, which you can feel if you really going to understands your mother.
@kingparker (9698)
• United States
29 Dec 11
That is something too deep to understand. I don't know if that is a truth or not. I never follow those books anyway, nor I am a female subject for you to study. All I knew is most girls are emotional and moody. They can give you million of answers, but majority of them are spur of the moment responses. They will change another answer later on. So, don't trust them on it.
• India
29 Dec 11
majorty of them are spur, the moment they response. thats what my all discussion is all about and see you have done the discussion complete. i am not here to study anyone nither male nor female, i am here is to put discussion on the board and needs you wise peoples to participate and proliferates the discussion. and male or female ever one are emotional less or more. because emotion have relationship with the harmones and both males and female have those harmones inside their bodies