Why would they say its gay

@stuckonu (726)
Philippines
January 5, 2012 12:15am CST
I personally wouldn't mind urinating in the urinals or in the toilet bowl because, you know, as long as I was able to do my thing, that's fine with me. But I overheard some of my office mates teasing each other that it's gay urinating in a toilet bowl. I mean, why? Just because the gay people doesn't want to use the urinals doesn't mean that all guys who uses the toilet bowl to urinate doesn't make them gay. LOL! I just thought of posting it just for the sake of it. I cannot think of a significant topic as of yet.
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8 responses
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
5 Jan 12
Well my friend, even if it's the toilet bowl that you are using to urinate, you still stand to urinate right? So what makes them say that you are gay?
@stuckonu (726)
• Philippines
6 Jan 12
Yes I'm still standing up even if I use the toilet bowl. They're not teasing me directly as gay but since they are stereotyping people who uses the toilet bowl as gays, and I'm using it to urinate, then, they are accusing me of being a gay indirectly. But that's fine, I know who I am and I am not a gay.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
6 Jan 12
Correct my friend. As long as you know who you are really, then they could tease as much as they want.
@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
I share the same sentiment's when it going blank on discussions well anyway, I thinks there is nothing wrong with urinating in toilet bowls a guy cannot be called gay if he does that, if someone prefers to urinate that way then let him be, and anyway if i was the guy being talked about, im not sure if heads will not roll...
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
6 Jan 12
Well, you know stereotyped guys. What the girls do, only the girls should do. And what the guys do, only the guys should do. If a guy does something that a girl only does, then he is considered gay. This thinking is a product of society's stereotyping. I mean, it's just the society that dictated all these stuffs since time immemorial. We were given birth and grew up with these kinds of "beliefs" and they've been implanted in our minds. It's hard to change something like this.
5 Jan 12
Sounds like your colleagues are teenagers and have picked up the rather stupid habit of referring to things as "gay" when they actually mean "daft" or "not cool". Personally, I'd ignore them until they grow up a bit.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
5 Jan 12
I doubt it is gay but they must think it is more of a man those that urinate in a urinol and not in a toilet bowl. It really doesnt even make sense, you relieve you body to somewhere that it is supossed to anyways.
@Tibor1450 (207)
• Hungary
5 Jan 12
Only people who are mentally challenged say such things. It's ridiculous and I usually get pretty angry when someone says I'm gay just because I do something in a completely different way. Everyone should grow up and learn being tolerant towards others let it be an annoying habbit/outer looks or anything else.
@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
5 Jan 12
Hello stuckonu, This is not the reason for someone to say someone a gay.Its personal choice to use toilet bowl to urinate or not and no one should corelate it to that. I never heard that gays don't use toilet bowls.
@Mashnn (4501)
5 Jan 12
Right, we don't have urinals in houses for men to urinate and instead they do use toilet bowl instead. I would not connect being a gay and use of toilet bowl. It all depends on what one finds comfortable to use.