What should i do to forget about him?

Well there isn't a way to just 'forget about him'. This is why I would advise you to be very careful about only dating people you really honestly want a future with, and believe they are interested in a future with you. By future, I mean have a marriage, and family, and so on. See, when you get into a mentally attached relationship, it's difficult to break up, and yet if your relationship isn't heading toward marriage, I can promise you it will end. Further, the more times you get mentally attached to someone, and then break apart, the more difficult it will be when you finally do find someone you want to spend your life with. I know that doesn't sound logical, but it is true. I've seen it. My experience is this, Long time ago, there was a girl that was interested in me. I honestly wasn't interested in her. But... I was not mature enough at the time to understand that. We hung out, and played around and such, but there was no... um... I don't know what you would call it. Spark? Connection? However you wish to describe it, it wasn't there. The moment I knew that I was not interested in this girl, when I realized that there was nothing between us no matter how interested she was in me... I broke off the relationship. It was the best move I made. Did it hurt? Yes to some extent it did. But, this was the best for both of us. She could go find someone who really was interested in her, and I was no longer stringing her along unintentionally. So what is the deal with this guy? Well it could be a number of things. It could simply be that he knows this is the right move, but it still hurts to lose. Or it could be like many guys, that he had taken you for granted, and now that you are gone, he's finally seeing what he lost. Of course it could also be that he simply feels bad for hurting you. Only he knows what the answer is for sure. However, I do have one bit of advice for you. I've heard this from dozens of people, in dozens of places. I believe this advice is very good, and I highly recommend it. It's actually what to NOT do. Do *NOT* jump into another relationship. I would recommend you to not date for about a year, or at least 6 months. No dating. No relationships. No meeting guys and flirting around. Why? Because you were in a relationship and it broke apart, and now you are hurting. Whether you realize it, whether it is a lot, or a little, you are hurt. When people get hurt, they tend to find anything they can to dull the pain. ...And in walks this guy who says some sweet things to you, and it feels good, and makes you forget about ol whats-his-face, and all of sudden you jump into a relationship that otherwise you would never have done. And trust me, many guys can sense that pain, and they know what to say to get what they want. And you know what I mean. They'll use you, and lose you. But even those that are not trying to use you, even if their intentions are good, you'll still be making a mistake. It's kind of like being lost at sea in a little boat. And you have no water. And you are soooo thirsty, that the pain goes to your core. Then you take a sip of sea water, and it tastes so good on your dry throat, that you drink more and more, and what happens? The salt kills you. After you are hurt from a broken relationship, your reaction to the pain is to jump on the first relationship the comes buy. Even if the other person means wells, it's likely to be a mistake, and you won't see it until it's too late. Wait at least 6 month, and up to a year. Wait, and heal, and get back in your right mind. Make a wise choice the next time you date. And don't give your heart away until you can actually see a long married future with the other person.

I think you should just get back out there and meet new people and find someone new, I look at life as chapters in a book, maybe this is a new chapter in your book of life, so its up to you to do some interesting things to add to your book of life,I wish you well

I would say take time for yourself since he was your first. Take time learn more about yourself and things you enjoy. In time your heart will heal. I took about a year before I started dating again.

dear, i didn't know he actually occupied so much in your heart that till now u still remember him... sigh, but i can't help much but do remember i'm always by your side to hear u out n be there too... smiles =)