Imaginations About Partner.... :)

I haven't really imagined yet what I want my partner could be in the future. It is too early. I don't want to make things fast. Also I have a boyfriend. Maybe he is the one. What is important and I look into a partner is the one who loves me with all of his life. That's all.

Hi Dasso, I think it's great that you envisage you future partner! That way you will recognise him when he comes! Don't be afraid to add all the qualities YOU want in him - it's your choice. Of course - you have to be all the things you want him to be as well - but I'm sure you know that already. MC

Well, before when me and my hubby are not together, I would imagine someone who understand me, who can accept me for who I am and will love my family and friends.. I wish before that I can have someone who is stable enough.. but then I found the one person whom I can say that I wanted for the rest of my life.. all the things that I like for a partner, God gave me that.. I'm just so lucky..

I want an extremely simple girl for me, who likes me for who I am. I should enjoy my time with her. She should be good looking in a simple way (Without all the make up and hi fi clothes). The list would be endless, and I guess that's why I'm still single!

I did not ever think about it and this this discussion had made me to do it When I thought about it I was having many imaginations. First one was she must have a cute smile. SO that she can have overcome any situations. Secondly we must have mutual understanding which include the family values,love,care,kids and all others. I love you my dream girl Hope I will find you soon !

Great topic. I dream about a girl who will be understanding and educated. By educated I dont mean a girl with a huge degree but I mean a girl who are educated with the knowledge of how to behave properly with others. And the last thing, she must have a beautiful mind.

I imagine my future husband to be the one I am with now. My boyfriend is very loving, caring and most of all, loyal. I hope he won't change now that he is working abroad and we are far from each other.

Whether it is an arrange or love marriage, we cannot predict our partners nature and character without living them for a period of time. And after getting married, we will come to know about the other person how she/he is. If we are in love, we can understand by time and most of the couples would prefer to be good with each other and so that it is not necessary that to evaluate the other person at the time of loving. In general, most people are good with their partner for the intital times and when time passes and we all get involved with our own problems and real life, love become secondary and other matters comes in between as issues and problems. As being an Indian and above the age of 20, you may be well aware of all these things. Only best what we can do is, act and behave nicely and lovely as much possible and hope that we will also cared in such a way. No body is perfect and error free and we should be consious of it. You and me are having personal problems and issues, but maintain and balancing them with our present living conditions is the best way to handle them. Whoever comes in your life for the rest of life, consider him as the best suit and try to make a happy life with what we have. First of all, we need to understand our position and our levels, accordingly search for your partner, I am sure that you will get the perfect match. Wealth, education, property, health etc also needs to be taken care of, becuase all these are mandatory for a better life. So, I am not insisting on religion or cast culture etc, but if you need to make happy to your family, you need to consder all the factors before juming into for a perfect match. However, if this is applicable to me, I will prefer a good and nice looking girl, and all the rest I can make good for her in future. Regards, Thank-s

i hope she is educated , romantic. she enjoy life, or maybe she can lead me to a happy life trip. it would be nice if she is cute.

When i was still single, i don't have an ideal for my future man, except that he should have a job and that we love each other. And each time i have a boyfriend, i don't yet consider him to be the man to whom i will spend my life with, until i met my husband. After a year of being her girlfriend, i already felt that he is the man that i would like to spend my life with.

When I looked for a partner for my daughter -- we were particular about family background, educational qualification, being a teetotaller, etc.

Hi Dassodils. This is very interesting topic especially who is seek or wanna choice her life partner. The worst thing is to find a good matching life partner is more difficult than others. For me i just wanna find a girl who understanding and caring dot.

I know every person have its own imagination about his/her partner. but it is also the universal truth that every person is not hundred percent perfect everyone has atleast one minus point. So if we love or like a person dont only see his/her negative things majorily but see what are the positive things are present in him/her. when we see his/her positive things we will already start ignoring the negative things. So all the best and understand your partner deeply and positively.

I hope my girl have a lovely smile

Before I married, I want, understanding partner, accept me as I am, dear family, and responsible. But, now I've married. I accept my husband, it is my husband.

Well, I've been married for going on eight years now and I've been with my husband for the last ten years (as of this weekend). However, before I met him there were a lot of characteristics that I hoped that I would be able to find in a man. I wanted a partner that was compassionate, a hard worker, honest and also stable in his life. These are all characteristics that I was able to find in my husband, but honestly those that were the most important to me were that he would be compassionate and honest.

Hi Dassodils: That's a really interesting question. In my case, when I think about a future partner, the idea of someone with good sense of humour, intelectual and that helps me to find my way and to succeed comes to my mind. Of course, there must be a physical attraction, but these internal values are the ones who attract me the most. ALVARO

hi, actually every time i woke up in the morning i always dream,and sometimes this imagining of my future partner sometimes came to my mind,of course i imagine the man i like and its tall dark and handsome,with cute eyes and nose also a rich one.

Be prepared for my very long explanation of my ideal future partner He would be a Christian and have the same ideals and values as I. He would be around my age so we shared the same experiences/pop culture when growing up. We would have such similar hobbies and interests it would look like a copy & paste situation -- that said, he would love anime, comedy shows, foreign films, animals, nature. He wouldn't like parties or dancing. I dislike cooking & he would understand that, or preferably, he would love cooking and prepare our meals. He would be sweet, considerate, respectful of me and others, patient, doesn't get angry or annoyed easily, non-confrontational but assertive when necessary, and kind. He would also have to share my choice to not have any children or adopt. He would be ready to have a vasectomy or have already had it done because he realizes that me getting my tubes "tied" is a bigger medical procedure than his. And he wouldn't feel like any less of a man for having it done. And being extra greedy, I'd also like my future partner to be very handy around the house. If something is broken, he'll fix it and do a terrific job. A-n-d...he would be financially well off and not be a spender, but not too much of a penny-pincher. And that, is my imaginations about my future husband

i would want my partner to love me truly, deeply, genuinely and madly.other things are managable.true love is hard to find!