A weekend without the kids. What to do?

@CRIVAS (1815)
Canada
January 18, 2012 1:22pm CST
I am very excited. This weekend my daughters have a ballet class in the early afternoon, and then my sister is taking them for the night. It has been some time since my husband and I had time to ourselves and we definately need it. The trouble is that we don't have a lot of money to spend, but we still want to do something fun. I decided that since my friends here on mylot are usually full of good advice, I would turn to you all here. So, what do you think that we could do that would be a fun way to spend the early evening? We already know that we are going to spend the night cuddling up together and just enjoying being alone together, but I still would like to find something to do until then. I hope to hear some good suggestions, I am really stumped this time. Thanks everyone.
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@sumatix (257)
• United Arab Emirates
21 Jan 12
First of all just gather up out of your memories what your husband likes the most then try and do that for him..Like if he likes to eat you can cook some favourite recipie of his and you both can have a cosy candle light dinner together, or if he likes to watch movie you both can have watch some good movie having popcorns and sitting close to eachother or just you both can spend dome good time in some tranquil place hand in hand..remembering the days of sweet old memories..
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
20 Jan 12
i think it`s good news for both of you maybe visit the place when you and him meet in the first time
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@LLWolf (119)
• United States
19 Jan 12
Well, hubby and I pop some popcorn stash it in zip lock bags, make some drinks and head out to the drive in but I'm not sure you could do that this time of year where you are. Maybe cook a candlelight dinner? Or recreate your first date?
• China
19 Jan 12
Is it really eager to want to have the time for you and your husband since you have kids? if it's ture, my wife and me should be to treasure ourselves time more, as we will soon meet our soon-to-be-borned baby, by then, maybe as you said, we will be hard to have oursevels time alone. Anyway, thank you for your remind!
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• United States
18 Jan 12
My wife and I don't get a lot of chances to spend time with each other without the baby around either. Then, once we pay for a sitter we can't afford to go out! It's easier to send the baby off somewhere and then stay home and do things together. One of our favorite activities when we have a night at home is to make a nice dinner together. For example, we'll buy all the pieces necessary for sushi and make it ourselves at home. It's never as nice looking as at a restaurant, but it's a fun thing to do together. We've also invested in an inexpensive fondue pot, and sometimes we'll do chocolate or cheese fondue on these nights together. I think our best night was the lobsters, but that was only possible because we had some grocery store gift cards. Nice dinners are much less expensive if you make them yourself. If you and your husband cook together, it's a fun activity and a nice meal! My wife and I will also sometimes be old-fashioned and play board games together. It might not seem like an exciting thing to do, but it's a lot of fun. You end up laughing and interacting in ways that movies or video games don't allow.
19 Jan 12
Head out to a nice restaurant, have a GREAT dinner, then head home and cuddle up on the lounge with a movie or 2... Its a rare occasion to go to a restaurant and just be calm... especially with kids! :P
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
18 Jan 12
what about getting some movies from the library? hubby and i are in the same boat at the end of Feb. as both of our daughters are going to a winter retreat with our church. can't wait!
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
18 Jan 12
Go out, have fun, enjoy eachother. Might be it's not what you expect from it since when you are used to children you keep "hearing" them.
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