why there's some people who is so envy with what others have?

January 22, 2012 12:11am CST
i feel so mad with the envy person...Sometimes i feel so incmplete with my self. i am still searching for something to complete my happiness.. i hope that smoeday i can feel fully happiness....but i did not envy with other people to what they have...
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@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
22 Jan 12
It's one of the negative traits of all human beings. As much as we only wanted to have the positive traits, we cannot get rid of this things. And of course, envy is one of the 7 deadly sins in the bible. I do envy a lot of things in this world. But I use this feeling as a tool to strive and reach something that I don't have. And, it should come from my own without hurting other people on the process.
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22 Jan 12
Oh yes that true.. envy is on the 7 deadly sins that we should fight for it... what ever happens we should think what God good words. so that we have a happy life..
@alicia812 (646)
• Australia
22 Jan 12
Hi myn3wlif3. It's good that despite your search for happiness and things to complete you, you don't feel envious of others. That is a very good attitude that you should be proud of yourself. I will give you a sisterly advice though: Look at every little things you have in life...like clothes, shelter, a family, food on the table, good friends. education and even just some coins in your pocket...Then think of others who do not have them...Sometimes, we look and search for the bigger and grandiose things in life that we experience unhappiness. The secret to happiness is gratitude for every little things that we have in life. God bless.
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22 Jan 12
wow .. i love your message.. that's true the happiness is really found in simple way. if you open your heart.. not only your eyes... thank you for the response..
@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
26 Jan 12
Feeling envy is natural as human. I feel envy with others' achievement and life. But I take that as motivation for me to become better in life. Most of my friends came from the same background as I am and they managed to be who they are today from doing their best in life. I will achieve the same if I work my best too.
13 Feb 12
oh yes that's right... its natural because we are human.. its up to us to control it and make that for good....envy to others we can make that as inspiration if you look it for good thing..
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
14 Feb 12
It is impossible not to be in every trace of envy. Not because we want, but we can not stop this feeling. However, it can be fleeting and constructive. Feelings, impressions appear, and they do not make us necessarily to be worse or better. Just our way of dealing with them, and to behave with others - that we label, ultimately.
@alquizar (480)
• Philippines
22 Jan 12
I think some people are envy to other people because they are not contented on what they had even if it is just a simple thing.People who are insecured are losers because they envy to other people that would make them always unhappy where they should be happy and contented on what they had and to work out on what they want.
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
22 Jan 12
You should not feel mad but feel pity for the envy person. I can't say why so many people envy someone else. Even if there is no reason for it since mostly we only see what we like to see and not the whole picture. Try to enjoy your life! Be happy wich your own succes no matter how small it is. Invest in people who give you positive energy. And stay away from those who love to break you down. So what I advice you is: get (more) focused on yourself and people who are happy for you.
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