hard to find a boyfriend

United States
January 29, 2012 8:48am CST
how come is it so hard to find a boyfriend that will take your kid also i had so many guys tell me that they wont date me at all for having a baby
9 responses
@NailTech (6890)
• United States
7 Feb 12
Perhaps you're not looking in the right place. But in the meantime why not just concentrate on the type of person who is helping you like his brother. Maybe it's his brother whose really interested in you? I would give it a thought at least. Is his brother available? Maybe drops some hints that you like him and it will go from there. You don't want a guy who won't accept you and your child both as you are. There is alot of real men out there who will, just have to be in the right place at the right time, or maybe it's just right in front of you and can't see it yet. Love is blind,sometimes.
• United States
13 Feb 12
i know but he won;t talk to me know after we got in to a huge fight becuase he told me to quit being so pretty everyday and u told him that all i do is wear what i have and he says it makes him horney when i wear tight jeans but that is how most of pants are help me plz you ccan email me at this email (leeannahewiit51@yahoo.com)
@arjunm (439)
• India
30 Jan 12
I think you should wait for someone who really love you.. If anu one really love you then he must care of your baby...
• United States
30 Jan 12
well lets just say my ex's brother really cares for my baby and me he says my baby is his daughter also
@5mahi05 (667)
• India
29 Jan 12
Hello friend, I guess you shouldn't go looking for one! Rather, I would suggest you to wait for someone who will accept you the way you are along with your kid. Good luck:)
• United States
29 Jan 12
thanks myex's brother has went out and bought me and my baby girl stuff that we need and i told him that i don't know how to really thank him but he tol me that he wanted to help me
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
19 Feb 12
so maybe you need a time for it trust me someday there are a man who accept your situation
@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
30 Jan 12
hey there lee anna hewitt21, I guess guys are just picky nowadays they want no obligation whatsoever and worst part is that they actually only wanna date your for there pleasure, so i guess mister right is not yet around but don't he will come around one day.
@deodavid (4150)
• Philippines
30 Jan 12
hey there lee anna hewitt21, I guess guys are just picky nowadays they want no obligation whatsoever and worst part is that they actually only wanna date your for there pleasure, so i guess mister right is not yet around but don't he will come around one day.
@maezee (31497)
• United States
29 Jan 12
I guess maybe for some guys who aren't mature enough, having a kid can be a deal-breaker when they are looking for a girlfriend. Don't give up though. There's got to be a guy out there for you...Maybe you could try some online dating (safely, of course) where you can meet a more broad amount of people - maybe even a single dad! That would be perfect! lol. I've been single for quite some time too..I don't have a kid, and it's still really hard to find a decent guy these days - so I know what you mean....
@yanzalong (10151)
• Indonesia
29 Jan 12
Boyfriends now play hard to get. They know that the number of girls are greater than girls. What's more you have a kid (Am I right?). This will make you harder to find one unless you are patient enouugh to wait. So, don't give up.
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
why do you say that? maybe you are just blinded by your own standards? maybe someone near just waiting or already give him his "support" but unlucky was not seen as boyfriend to be... Simple things in life are the one's that gives greater joy... good luck for that person you have been waiting...