getting married?? or be single??
By daniel_chang
@daniel_chang (75)
Philippines
February 3, 2012 12:08pm CST
Getting married before should have many qualifications before you actually perform it. You have to see bunch counseling sessions and fill up many forms as much as the ink of your pen can stand. you still have to go to a dressmaker for your own personalized gown and so on and so fort.
Nowadays marrying the man of your lifelong-lifelonglife (whatever that is?) is let's just say the love boat seldom pass by your street. Now you found the man of your dreams, you got married, had kids, with a beautiful house and a dog. you lived for quiet some years then before you knew it your both filing for annulment.
hish!!! what a waste of time, effort and money.
here is the point, are you going to marry the man of your dreams end up with unexpected things in life together?
Or be single, control your own life, be with whoever, be whatever and wherever you want to be, alone and worry free?
4 responses
@myg2012 (28)
• Philippines
7 Feb 12
Both questions are good but the answer differs in each individual. If, you think that marrying will make you happy and contented in life then go for it, make sure that you will enjoy spending the rest of your life with him/her regardless of what he is, or stay single if you think your better off being that way. For me, I prefer to be married, have kids, enjoy life through its ups and down. If God permits...I really wish to grow old with the person I love, who in return loves me truly.
@cyclopz (251)
• Sydney, Australia
4 Feb 12
I think one reason for that is that we always don't have total control with what happens in our life. I have also thought about this for quite some time and i think sometimes life does not work the way we want to although how much we have sacrificed to make it it because sometimes we also need luck. Sometimes i think i would rather stay single than to be cheated or be with the wrong person for the rest of my life. Some people i think are quite lucky to meet the right one at a young age and some also dont. Sometimes i also wonder if there are also people who never met the right one for them when they reach old age.
@craziestqueenever (1819)
• Philippines
3 Feb 12
I want to get married in the near future and build my own family. I don't want to be single for the rest of my life. I do believe that perfect one for me ( The man that I wanted to get married ) is just there. As of this moment I'm just enjoying the life of being single.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
3 Feb 12
It is really very hard to understand what you are talking about.
No matter if you are married or have an other relationship (living together or apart or every night someone else) you always invest. If you have contact with other people you invest in that person if you like it or not.
If a relationship/friendship ends you can see it as a waste of time, energy, good money or see it as it is. A certain period in your life that ends. You had fun, you are richer of experiences, all kinds of, you develloped yourself and it's time to go on with the journey of your life.
A dog (or two), beautiful house and kids you can also have without being married.
I think the decision of being married or stay single will be mostly made because of other reasons as the one you paint in your picture.
