Are you willing to take the pain no matter how hard the situation?

Philippines
February 5, 2012 4:54am CST
Sometimes we don't expect things that happened,and we try to escape it but we can't do it.. We only try to solve,and sometimes the easy things to solve problems are only to accept it,find a away and pray for it.. There is no way to escape the pain but only to felt it ,and cry for it.. I think acceptance is better so will lesser the situation..
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@wittynet (4132)
• Philippines
5 Feb 12
Hello! I am not willing to, but I have no choice. In times like this, what we need is strength. We need to be stronger so that we can always find solutions to our problems. If there is no solution, yes, we need to face the consequences no matter what. No one wants pains, but they come and go. Faith in God is also very important. If we believe in God, we also believe in ourselves. We believe that we can always survive in this crazy world.
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• Philippines
5 Feb 12
Hi there!Yes true,there are times we are not willing to accept because of our human nature.. But we can go for it with God's help no matter how hard the situation or painful. There is no escape but our choice is to face it..
@shylade (3138)
• Philippines
6 Feb 12
you have to deal with the pain no matter how painful it will be. after this, it will make you a much better person. Sometimes, God put us to a test not to hurt us but to remind us that He is there. Prayers always work best for those who are hurting. Remember also, that success comes not from another success but from a failure.
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@WakeUpKitty (8709)
• Netherlands
5 Feb 12
I think fighting is the best way. To make a plan how to fight and how to win and most of all: how to survive. This will make you stronger and for the next time you know you will survive! You are a winner and not a loser. That is what will help you next time. The knowledge you can find a way. Cry won't help, acceptance is way easier to say as to do (good there are so many doctors, shrinks, meds).
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• United States
5 Feb 12
It depends on the situation. But when the pain gets enough, I shut down. Completely. It's just my way of protecting myself. That's only in extreme circumstances though - I'm assuming you mean emotional/mental pain and not physical. Though all three have the same reaction for me. The more hurt I get, the angrier I get until I close down. I'm a bit of a wimp though. So the situation may not be 'that' bad.
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@megamatt (14332)
• United States
5 Feb 12
I think that there are going to be sometimes where I feel like i need to figure how to fight through the pain. To press forward, to really move right through a lot of things in life. Pain is a part of life, hopefully not often, but sadly very often for more times often than others. There are just going to be times where we are going to have to shake it off, move on. So I think that I am willing to take up the challenge with the pain. However, there are just going to be times where there is only going to be so much that I am going to take. I am only human after all. I do have a lot of limits, many limits to tell you the truth. Still I try and press forward, try to move forward, try to get the absolute most that I can out of life, despite the pain.
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@yahnee (1250)
• Philippines
5 Feb 12
Yes, acceptance seems the only way out. I don't know how to ease the pain but prayers do help a lot. It is my only solace when I am helpless to face the pain. I am facing right now a very complicated situation where I have opened myself to pain more than I can ever bear. However, it is all my fault because I opened myself to this situation.
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• Philippines
5 Feb 12
Sometimes we have no other choice but to face and accept it though of course no one want to bear the pain but we cant avoid it. sometimes even if we accept we still feel bad for it though it takes time for us to fully accept and forget the pain.
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@sayo13 (414)
• India
5 Feb 12
hello befrindwithme, i think pain is a part of everyone's living. as you have happiness in your life, i think you have pain too. there is no way of escaping from pain and if you escape for the time being some way or the other it will come back to you again. so i find it more justified to take life as it comes and to face all the challenges it put forth towards me. and i also believe that within living your pain you can not value the happiness when you will receive it in life. take care
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