Too Demanding!

United States
February 13, 2012 5:48pm CST
Last year, a friend gave me the chance to move to Florida. I did not then because he was talking about Power Of Attorney and that to me was and is a major turn off. Now, I am seeing someone, working online and in my own place. This guy is still on me to move down to Florida. He has made unnecessary comments when he does not know my friends. How can anyone make comments about someone's life when the past is the past and the future is yet to come? That is making judgments when you don't know what is going on in someone's life. It is tempting to move. I have so many things going on here to even move there. I am doing things here that cannot be done in Florida.
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4 responses
@sid556 (31006)
• United States
14 Feb 12
Hi Desertrose, I'm not sure I follow what your relationship is with this man. Is he looking for a romantic relationship?? I think it sounds sketchy from what you say here. I wouldn't trust it and it doesn't sound the least bit tempting.
• United States
14 Feb 12
He is a friend on tagged. His intentions were good till he started talking about power of attorney and getting too demanding and controlling. I won't say what else he said, but nothing stays the same.
@sid556 (31006)
• United States
14 Feb 12
sounds pretty creepy. hope you stay away from him.
@yanzalong (10151)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 12
You are very right. Different people different ways of doing things. Sometimes he/she made unnecessary comments on someone else's life, which he shouldn't be involved in. As a man I am not much of that nosy parker into others' business.
@SimpleBB (1332)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Hi desertrose. As you said, it is your friend that gave you the chance to move in Florida but you decline. And this guy you're seeing is so demanding based on your statements. I can relate to your feelings. Yes there are people who are very vocal being judgemental or let say voicing out what's on their mind. I would suggest to let them know how their comments affects you. BEsides, we never know, maybe they may just like to give their views and opinions, or maybe it's not their intention to make you feel the pressure. so it would also be fine if you will tell them the reason of not wanting, as of the time being,moving to Florida for you still have unsettled things need to be done. You could also open to them your views and opinions so it would not affect you that much. Voicing out what you want in life is not bad, holding the pressure and your emotions is what hinders you to appreciate their motives, if ever there is. This is just my opinion, but of course, you're still the one know the people or friends around you. We have our decisions and whatever other people have telling or suggesting to us is just like an options to choose from. But definitely we are the decision maker of what we want to do in life. Happy mylotting.
@NailTech (6890)
• United States
14 Feb 12
I would stay right where you are, the change might just make you resent him if you can't do some of the things you're doing in your current state.