Too bad, I can't fall in love with her

United States
February 15, 2012 8:00pm CST
There are some girls I can't fall in love with, because they are already belong to someone. A girl I know, in my heart, I really like her, and ever try to ask her out. But she was seeing someone already, and I knew that I can't do that. We talk a lot every time I see her. We talk about her family, her trip on a cruise to Bahamas and Mexico. Her son, and her family. Her gripe against her co - workers and even to other people she seeing daily. I also told her about my stuff, my things too. Those are great time, but we can only be friends I knew clearly. Maybe that is life, you know your limit, and you just can't cross the line.
8 responses
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
did she tell you whom she liked or i mean love? there are times we ladies are comfortable w/ someone that we can tell everything but it doesn't mean we already liked that person.but there are also times that because we like that person we're comfortable w/ him.if she's already committed,the girl you like,then just be a good friend to her.that's what you can do for now.
• United States
16 Feb 12
I knew that she has boyfriend at the moment, and I just can't wreck someone's good relationship like that. That just not what I meant to be.
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
good that you think that way.you really like her.just continue your friendship with her.maybe it'll be a lot better if you're just friends.
• United States
17 Feb 12
dude calm down there are plenty of fish in the see, you have a severe case of oneitis.
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
yeah king that's life,sometimes we fell in love for the wrong person ..but did you ask her if she has feelings for you too?because in my own opinion,a girl won't tell her secrets,problems or whatever if she don't have feelings for you.
• United States
16 Feb 12
Dont cross the line at all thats for sure. She has a kid and is happy where she is with her family. Stay safe and just be freinds with her dont make her do something that she might regret later down the road too thats for sure. Now there are alot of nice girls and nice looking girls all around the world so dont rely on just one girl make yourself noticeable and go out with other friends so your not living your life trying to be with one person you cant even be with its kind of a waste of time as i see it.
@TrvlArrngr (4045)
• United States
16 Feb 12
It happens and you are right to not cross the line or you might lose a friend. Stay close by in case she is single again soonn.
@anncherry (406)
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
That is really good for you--to know what is okay and to know what just won't cut it. And it takes a lot of bravery to admit that kind of heavy fact. Most people would just ignore it and give in for their own desires without considering the feelings of the people involved. But you, you are doing a great job in handling the feelings that can either make, or break you. And with this post, I'd say, you made it. :) So don't sweat. With the kind of morals you have, you'll find (or get found by) the right one in no time. :)
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
16 Feb 12
awww.. that is life my friend. maybe you are better off as friends..
@yanzalong (18982)
• Indonesia
16 Feb 12
Hi bro, there's a lot of fish in the sea. Don't give up. Try and try again. One day you'll have what you've been dreaming of.