be happy in our life

@utopia96 (640)
Indonesia
February 22, 2012 3:38am CST
every person who lives in the world want to be happy and successful in life,but sometimes what happens in life does not work right. -how we can be happy in life?
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
22 Feb 12
Happiness is a state of mind which needs to be tuned in to the 'chords' of life that produce 'good music'. All of us are endowed with some 'chords' that produce 'good music'. One needs to put in some effort and search for those 'chords'!
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• Philippines
22 Feb 12
and that is a sound of music too.....:) needs to have a good rhythm in order to have a balance :)
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
22 Feb 12
Once you find the chords rhythm will fall in place!
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• Philippines
23 Feb 12
mmm...agree with you on that :0)
@vt689586 (584)
• India
22 Feb 12
yes you are right because life is going according to our expectation and if you wanted to be happy in your life then don't expect anything from anyone.if you will able to do that then you will enjoy your life better than before. but being happy every time is not possible because if we will happy every time then we will forget the meaning of happiness.
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@utopia96 (640)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 12
really i don't know what don't expect anything from anyone?
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
22 Feb 12
We can be happy by not focusing on the present misery but keep focusing on our happy future destiny. One day life will be so different. In the meantime we can use whatever comes our way as a teaching tool to learn valuable lessons that will serve us well into the everlasting future. Have a happy day!
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 12
sometimes its not hard to get happy in our life many parents said, if you always be in positive thingking, maybe its one key for getting a good life...
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@utopia96 (640)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 12
i always have positive thinking and try set my rytme in my mind to get happy,but my challenge is not the merging of my body and my mind.This is what make me stressed and depressed.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
1 Mar 12
Life is just a never ending experiment. It is full of many ups and many downs, many times where things tend to rather go right, and we tend to enjoy it. Other times, we hit a rather prominent brick wall and have really no idea what we wish to do for life. It is extremely frustrating to day with these things, but that is just a part of our life. Almost as if it is a test that is going to push us to our fullest or beyond our breaking point. Yet we cannot enjoy the good things without having a taste of the bad. There are many times where life is going to really just step right in our path and slap us right down back to earth. We just go to really go with it and try and steer the ship. Just make the best that we can out of the worst situation. There are many situations in life where I thought were hopeless, but finding some positivity will help us gain a sense of stability mentally speaking.
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@champoy186 (1638)
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
I think for us to be happy in life, we should live life to the fullest. Think positive and act positive to attract positive vibes. Just be happy on what you have and give love to other people. Happy mylotting!
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
22 Feb 12
I think we just have to live one at a time, appreciate the things we have in life, and not feel sorry for our-selves for what we don't have, we are here for such a short time we just should stop to smell the roses so to speak.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
6 Mar 12
If we know how to be contented with the things that we have then probably we can be really happy in our lives. So it is better that we know how to appreciate with the things that we have.
@utopia96 (640)
• Indonesia
6 Mar 12
hi metatron,you are right. we must be know how to appreciate with the things that we have. happy mylott .
• India
11 Apr 12
Why the people is not being happy because of our desire to many more and more..if do not have this desire and be thinking about what we really have,then we will be happy..a good mindset is required for a person to be happy..the desire to want more and more is also a type of addiction..
@sweetajlo (175)
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
being happy in this world and being successful no idea if they go together coz even the successful person does not feel that they are happy since they are craving for more and not satisfied with what they have already... go to the remote areas there you can see a sweetest smile that you never seen in your whole life, they are contented with what they have and never aiming for more...want happiness be contented of what you have, what position you are right now, etc. and that you see true happiness, just don't forget to put God first in everything you do...so that the life would be complete at all...
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@winston90 (296)
• Romania
22 Feb 12
I believe you can not be happy and successful at the same time. You have to create some kind of ballance between these two. Too much happiness will not help you become successfull, because you are already happy you will not try and accomplish important things to gain what makes you happy. On the other hand, if you are thinking only to accomplish new things you are from definition unhappy, because you are not contemp with the things you alredy have. The answer is in the middle.
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