girlfriend coming back

India
February 22, 2012 2:45pm CST
Some time before my gf dumped because of no reason, or if there was any one, at least I didn't know that. Now she has come back in my life asking me to forgive her. Should I accept her or not?
4 responses
• United States
22 Feb 12
Do not, I repeat do not let her back into your life. If she didn't even have the decency to tell you why she was breaking up with you then most likely she was exploring other romantic options. If you take her back you make yourself out to be the fall back option, and you will never know a relationship of happiness.
• India
22 Feb 12
@phillydreamer thanx for ur opinion, but may be she is really feeling bad about how she left me and regretting now, what do u say abt it, ur comments are valueable.
• United States
24 Feb 12
well, it depends on what your relationship was like. how long did you date? can you trust her? has she ever done this before? what was the reason she dumped you? you might want to sit down with her and ask her to give you the honest truth about why she did this. you will know in your heart if she is being straight with you.
@vt689586 (584)
• India
23 Feb 12
well i think you should not receive to her back because she is only using you.and when any other guy comes in her life then she again left you in dark and after some enjoyment comes to you and say sorry to you. so think hundred times before you going to accept her again.and if you going to accept her then you should also ask the question why she left you?hope that you will get right answer
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
Everybody deserves another chance. Give yourself a chance also. Remember, things will not come your way for the third time. You will be a very lucky man if they do. So give her another chance and its your chance to ask her about what happened to both of you two in the past. What are the reasons why she left you. Be a good listener and be ready to accept whatever it is. It will hep both of you in starting your new relationship. It's only a matter of time to know is things in your hands are worth keeping. Remember, if you still love her and didn't give her or yourself a chance, it will be more painful for you seeing her held in others arms. So man, give it a second try.