why there are rude people

@shylade (3132)
Philippines
March 5, 2012 12:31am CST
i don't know what satisfaction rude people can have after they speak harsh words and lambast a person in front of many people. i know a man like that who was once like a humble, low profile man then when promoted to our higher position was transformed to an arrogant, rude man. to think that he doesn't own yet his cars and house, he is already acting like that. he would say unfriendly remarks without even thinking of how other the person feel. does fame and money got into his head? i really don't know because that man doesn't know now the words please and sorry.
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@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
Some things can just turn lambs into wolves but mostly, some wolves haves just been disguising as lambs waiting for the right moment to attack and devour every weak sheep it can. I feel sorry for this people, of course there is hatred and disgust, but mostly just sorry, because in their eyes they are gods but where will they be when they will be trampled by those who they persecuted?
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@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
i agree. those people think they are gods and will do anything they like to extent of sacrificing a poor lamb. i hate them much because most of his victims are very kind people who can not fight against him. thanks for the response.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
I guess in time we will see where this attitude of his will lead him. I just hope he realizes his errors before it's too late for him and for everybody to feel sorry for him.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
5 Mar 12
People are rude for many reasons: badly raised, shout at others so nobody shouts at you, pick at others so nobody picks at you, a way to get what you want (manipulate/threaten people), a way to express you are dominate or feel better like others, loving to humilate other people, feeling unhappy (so others have to feel the same), feeling lonesome, etc etc.
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@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
he used to be a low profile person but i think from the very beginning he has some insecurities inside him that he is just showing now. maybe he is thinking becasue he got position, people will respect him. i would rather gain respect out of love than respect out of fear. and what, after he turn his back people would imitate and criticize him. thanks for sharing your thoughts.
@dyeni23 (128)
5 Mar 12
Things are not allways what it seems. So before we judge him, I think it's proper and probably the best to let him know about this. We don't know his story aside from the things that you can see. Giving him this reality check will probably be a good intervention to do for now :)
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
yes i know its hard to make judgement and certainly hope those people close to him can tell him that. thanks for sharing.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
There are rude people in this world because base on the situation you have given, they still aim or want something in life even if they are already successful. Although there are also other people who are still good, rude people still exists for special reasons.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
people are really different. while some achievers become even humble in time, others becomes the other way around. they exist to test our patience and to be extra careful i think. thanks for sharing your thoughts.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
You are very much welcome my friend. Have a good day. Just forget about those rude people we encounter everyday. Don't mind them. They will not help us improve.
• United States
5 Mar 12
some people really change when they experienced good things in life, they became boastful and the worst is they lost respect to other people too. Usually, this kind of behavior showed up when they believe that they are way above to anyone and that they have authority to say anything they like cause they believe they are richer than anybody else. I believe some good things wont last if you don't have a heart. Just stay away from that kind of person so your day will not be ruined.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
i believe that life is an echo, so whatever you give life will give it back to you. thanks for sharing.
• Canada
5 Mar 12
I have been around people like this who were seemingly nice prior to getting a big promotion, or moving into a luxury home, or buying a new car, making some sort of accomplishment to be better than you are. I don't know why people can be so rude, maybe their upbringing never really taught to be polite? Maybe once they feel inferior to you they act the part. It is cruel to speak harshly to anyone or lambast a person regardles if people are around or not. i would get that person out of my life and quick.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
one day i know he will realize what he have done and through god he will find the way. thanks fro sharing your thought.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
we can never be too sure about this. i am sure there are a lot of people who are really rude. i guess maybe sometimes we just have to know how to deal with them.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
right, we should learn how to deal with them. i try to ignore him but i simply can't. he is really rude that even meetings he would embarrassed an innocent person. i don't know what he is up to or that he want us to think he is powerful and knows all?
@espoir (184)
• China
6 Mar 12
Impossible is nothing. There are all kinds of people living in this world. And bad people can have children as well. And I don't think they will be good parents.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
I think these rude people act that way to cover up their insecurities in life. Their high and haughty attitude makes them feel superior to other people. And I think money can really bring this out on some people. They probably have some sort of self-pity before getting that money or promotion, maybe thinking that the world was harsh to them, and when they did get it, they feel that it's payback time.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
yes i think they have insecurities to cover up that is why they act that way. i know one day he will taste his own dose of medicine. thanks for the response.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
6 Mar 12
Truthfully it would be a vicious, vile cycle to say the very least. There are just going to be many rude people in the world, that have tried to be the better person. At another time. But they are just going to get stomped on and tossed right over to the side immediately. It is a behavior that is many times learned but the wrong lesson is learned from it. Instead of the lesson of, “people might be rude but I should not let it get to me and just try and hopefully set a better example” being learned, people say “well since everything else is rude, then screw you all, I’m going to be just as rude as all of you people as well.” It is a wrong sentiment to have, but it is one that is commonly held.
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
You can judge them according to what they do but if you are in their place, how sure are you that you wont do the same as they did? What a person does depends on the range of actions he or she is capable of doing and due to the limitations they may have, it doesn't get any better. It would be akin to asking why a stone do not bleed or why pigs can't fly. Asking why question gains you nothing if the reason is the situation just can't be helped.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
thanks for sharing your thoughts. i just realize that i can not really have the right answer.
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
Ow,because that person got a good income and high rank.But you know friend,most people who had that attitude will be down so soon,and will be destroyed because of that kind of attitude. Not good.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
i agree, those people who think they are up will go down as fast as he went up. i am a very patient person but hearing all his rudeness makes me feel bad to the extent of i am getting depressed. i hope he will wake up to the reality that life is an echo and whatever he gives, life will give it back to him.
@kristiane (112)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
To answer your title question, there are rude people around us to make us more patient and loving. They just don't know what they are doing and how they hurt people, but we must be thankful enough that we are not like them. This means that we are more mature than them.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
i would want to love him but i i end always hating him because of his attitude. everyone is being patience with him because of his position not because of him. i hope he will change his attitude for the better.