things we always lose comes back in the end

March 8, 2012 3:02am CST
a friend of mine met a girl two years back in a reception of this aunt . he used to flirt with every girl whom ever he used to talk . are you really gonna be serious in your life ? whenever we had a talk my question used to be this . after longtime he met the same girl and became serious about her . right now they are in a relationship. his girlfriend said when i met you two years back during reception me and my friend liked you .that time i wished a guy like you would be perfect in my life and she suggested me to propose you . he says to her what you have wished for such a long time your having it right now i am with you see.how many of you really got it in the end?
6 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
i have yet to wait for mine to come back around. i have this wish in my life.. and maybe for a time he lost me... but i know if we are meant to be together, we would still be with each other in the end and our love for each other will prevail.
@dazzledlady (1618)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
I do believe thing we always lose comes back in the end when we are talking about non living things. Like when you forget where you pud you favorite pen and you are sure that you put it in drawer but it is not there and you keep searching until you get tired and you stop looking for it. And to your surprise eventually the pen will just appear to a place where you are sure you search thoroughly. But when it comes to people I do not think that is possible, maybe a little percentage. People are different because they are capable of thinking, of reasoning.People do not come back with no valid reason just like you will simply wait when he/she comes back to you after a big fight. I do believe it needs a conscious effort to bring people we lost back. And after that let destiny play apart. If its meant to be then it is that is if you believe in destiny.
@picjim (3002)
• India
9 Mar 12
Its a nice ending to an event which took place 2 years back.Its like a fairy tale happy ending.I think the likelihood of such events happening in most of our lives is remote.Though it would be wonderful for someone if such an event actually took place.
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
Just a clarification. Not all the things that we lose will always come back. Some came back in the end to prove something from us. At first we used to ignore something and after the second chances, we came up with a realization that what was lost will be valued when we realize how does it feel when don't have it.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
8 Mar 12
I don't believe that what we loose will always come back. BTW in your story your friend did not lose anything. You can not lose what you never had. Perhaps there was a good reason why they did not start a relationship at that time, because your friend was not grown up enough/ready for it. Always flirting around. Nobody wants a partner like that. I also don't think the same people will always stay in your life or come back to you. There is a time to say hi and meet and a time to say goodbye and go on with your life. So if you always meet the same people who come back to you, it means you never changed, you never learned something and neither did they. And probably you also make still the same mistakes. That is why you attract those people and life is not improving.
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
well, good for your friend. Maybe they are meant for each other. They havent loose each other because they were not in a relationship when they met before,so theres nothing to loose. But then again,fate was very good to them. If he/she is really for you then God will give him/her for you. In the right time,and right place. Where everything is perfect for the two of you. like what happened to your friend.