Why are so many disrespectful to people?

United States
March 9, 2012 11:03am CST
I am sick and tired of people who start fights with me, threaten me and never change. I keep to myself because most people treat others so bad from the word go. I have never threatened anyone and never will. There are people who are nice and those are the ones I want in my life. Why have people who starts fights with you, making violent threats when you never do and those who want everyone around them miserable as they are for as long as you are around them. I listen to people and when I am told to do something I do. I DO NOT CONTINUE FIGHTS LET ALONE START THEM! I am nice and friendly to those who are the same to me. Those who cannot and do not treat everyone nicely should be around their own kind. No one needs anyone around who threatens others and is never nice to begin with. How hard is it when someone tells you to leave them alone when one loves starting fights and being very rude, ignorant and nosey. No one needs anyone who is no, cannot and never will be nice around. Karma is what eveyone needs to remember. NEVER assume that when someone recieves any type of threat that the one on the reciving end also makes threats! God watches eveyone and those who are not nice have to answer and are controlle by the devil not GOD.
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@sreekutty (1051)
• India
9 Mar 12
hi I am almost like you. the problem with people is, some think that they are the sun and the others are obedient planets around them. so, they think and start talking and behaving like that. I have been verbally abused after marriage almost on all days by my in laws. they still don't leave me , but the difference is i pray to God and He helps me out. so, in your case you will also get justice. in 2012, the world will not end. just people will change for better. so we will wait and see.
• United States
9 Mar 12
Too many people think they are better than everyone but everyone is created the same. It is kind of amusing that you stay away from trouble but you really cannot avoid those who love causing trouble every chance they get.
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
yeah i agree that there are really people who only thinks about their feelings and own good. but you just need to adjust and understand them but in some cases sometimes you'll get tired of it and let them learn their lesson by letting them know how bad their behavior was, but at the end of the night you will feel the guiltiness inside you right, so i guess more more patience when it comes to this kind of people and i hope in the long run they can learn how to respect and learn how to be people or a person not an animal ha ha
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• United States
9 Mar 12
That would be nice for those who only think of themselves to learn how what they say and do affects others. People are meant to be human not act like animals.
@BLTLife (337)
• United States
9 Mar 12
It's nice that you believe the devil is controlling these people. Good to know they are not responsible for their own actions since a more powerful force has overwhelmed them. /sarcasm
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• United States
9 Mar 12
People are responsible for their actions. People do not make choices like these by themselves. Believe me. People can be influenced by good if they really want to. How many times have you made a bad choice that has hurt someone. You mad the choice, but you know you are sorry you did. I admit my mistakes. A lot of people who do wrong and make threats cannot admit they are wrong and will never be sorry for things they did and what they said.
@BLTLife (337)
• United States
9 Mar 12
That's what I want to hear. Personal responsibility. Not some evil wizard made people do it.
@WakeUpKitty (8711)
• Netherlands
9 Mar 12
People threat you? Or do you feel it as a threat? There is a big difference between that. I know how it is to be threatened by years. At a certain point I decided not to let that happen again. I ignored people, deleted many out of my life (yes you are alone but it's better to be alone as feeling lonesome in a group and be stabbed in the back each time again). I decided to make me happy instead of others (making others happy is a lost case if you have only people around you who blackmail, threaten you and who are never satisfied). And yes you are right! Don't waste time to people who can't be your friend or friendly. This will take away all your good energy. BTW I also changed my attitude and since then my life is so much more improved. Before I treated others the way I want them to treat me (am raised like that). It never worked. Now I treat others the way they treat me! Believe me this is the solution to everything.
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• United States
9 Mar 12
What would you do, if someone you see but never talk to, walks up to you says something and continues when you tell them to leave you alone and then threatens you when all you do is wait for the bus and all your doing is living your own life? Would you let them threaten you when you have not done anything to them? Trust me, I treat those who treat me nice the same way. Those who are mean and nasty and make threats just because they do not like the person and are jealous of what they have is no reason to threaten anyone.
@Micmac (6993)
10 Mar 12
There are many reasons why people are disrespectful. Sometimes a rude person has a bad attitude because that person has some personal problem and instead of working out their problems they put the blame on someone else and take it out on anyone who gets in their way. I have encountered one confused person who said something abusive to me and then apologized stating that he was angry and that's why he was abusive. C'mon what kind of apology is that? Then he asked me to email him to fight with him.. what the heck? I don't fight with people. Some people are so rude and evil.. and then they laugh to your face and say 'Oh the devil made me do it.'
• Philippines
10 Mar 12
Well,you know every people in the world are different.There are disrespect,and there are respected people. Sometimes we are in the wrong people around,but we still to be careful about it.. I also experience with those around disrespect people,but i am careful in the next.