Are u emotional?

Philippines
March 21, 2012 7:28pm CST
Talking about myself ,am sure am emotional..When i see a person suffering, i can easily cry.By the time i realx and see a teleserye which is so sentimental, i cried immediately..when i encounter problems in my family, ifeel crying to tell my problems to my sisters or friends.I dont know how to handle my tears of controling it not to fall down..There was a time i and my daughter saw tv...theres a good story and at the climax of it..theres sentiments in both mother and daughter in the story..There my tears felt down and i taaaaake far away to tv to let my daughter ignored my crying.Unfortunately my daugter detected me that am crying..She chnged to other channel....................how can i control my emotions?????????????????///////
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10 responses
22 Mar 12
Hi there thelmadacullo112659, I can definitely relate to what you are saying in here because i am also a very emotional person. I dont really know if it is in the hormones but based on what ive learned the females are way more emotional than males are. There are some people in this world who are actually very good in controlling their emotions but there are also others who just easily cry or who are just so emotional and in my opinion i think its because people can sometimes become to sensitive about small things, and it actually depends on the different experiences that they have in their lives. If there is something you have seen or watched on tv and you can relate to it because you have experienced something similar to that situation then thats when we get too emotional. We just end up or find ourselves touched with the emotions that we are feeling and find ourselves crying. For me, it is just but a natural thing because we are human beings with a heart that feels. It is okay to be emotional at times because we can never avoid this but for me whats important is you do know as well how to control your emotions when needed. Ask for God's guidance as well since I firmly believe we cannot do anything without Him..
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
Good advises..Thnx my friend for all the things u shared here..Shared ur fruitfulideas,makes me strong enough to fight my bad emotions................
22 Mar 12
You are most welcome. Yes, I would love to share to you whatever inputs i can have in here because it is always a nice feeling when you can make someone feel better even if you dont personally know that person. I would suggest that you go ahead and ask for God's guidance for you to have the strength and courage to face all the trials in life and to endure everything. Just remember that God is so good and He wont ever give you any problems which you cant solve. Anytime you need to share anything im just right here, okay? Thanks a lot and take care and Godbless!
• Australia
22 Mar 12
It is hard. I really struggle holding back tears. I just try and think about something else and it works most of the time. Try it.
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
Happy lotting dear...Thnx for giving response .... Love it....
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Mar 12
hi thelmadacullo first off its a televison thing and those are just actors playing roles so remind yourself it triggers my emotions but I do not want to cry very long over a tv show.think of something reallyh silly or funny,you cannot laugh and cry at the same time. remember movies and tv series are not real so remind yourself thats not any reason to cry as it did not really happen. then dry your tears and laugh at yourself.I also am emotional and that the way I controlled my emotions.life has enough bad things we cry over so why cry over a great movie as it was just a movie.
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
Thnx Hatley for ur nice and admirable advises.I kinda love it................Thnx much....
@almond24 (1248)
• Hungary
22 Mar 12
Yes, I am emotional too. I try not to show it and be strong when others see me, or if I don't want to appear like a crybaby, because that's how I was raised... It's very hard if I have to hold it back all the time, and it hurts me even more.
22 Mar 12
Good day!.regarding to your emotion, it's normal to cry when you see a heartwarming story. But sometimes crying without reason could make you stress. You need to try to make your self comfortable specially when you watching movies or t.v.. You need to think what if this will happen do you thing you could cry that instance. Specially when you shock. As an expereince its a No. It's always late reactions. So you need to control your feelings or if you saw something that make you cry try to change the topic or try other channel.
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
Thats what am trying to.I change everything the topic if ever i cant control my emotions ...Love ur advises and i like it...
• India
29 Jun 12
Being emotional sometimes feels good. Like happy ending makes you cry, teleserye makes you cry, you are easily carried away from events. You cry because you feel the emotion that teleserye wanted you to feel. You cry because someone is suffering, like you also feel his or her suffering. You don’t need to change, It is a gift.
@lowyder (282)
• Canada
22 Mar 12
Heyllo ,Thelma! I believe if anyone is having a good life there emotions would be happy if they came across problems maybe sad\mad if someone passes im sure they will cry it is human nature for us all to have feelings and emotions but acting properlly when faced with issues or emotions some times people cant handle that either tho just knowing something has controll over them makes them anxious and nervous that they cant do anything to stop it ... sorry just a rant about emotions i am kind of happy this morning so i would say yes i am emotional to answer your question .
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
22 Mar 12
Yes i am emotional person.But i tend to keep in my heart and mind and when it explode i really can scream with the person face like rage crazy throwing stuffs around and punching the wall and door , i split a wooden door before and torn the skin on my knuckles before.Hence with my destructive atittude i tend to stick to myself and only have very small numbers of friends.
• India
22 Mar 12
I am more than emotional. My tear glands are always filled. I am a typical cry baby. But over time I have controlled my tears! But I am having an adverse effect of it. Since I dont cry much now, all my anger, sentiments and sorrow gets piled up. Over the course of time it gets saturated and at one point i have an emotional outburst where I at the same time shout madly at a person and cry. I have become short tempered too. I really feel bad afterwards! But yes maximum time when I am alone I cry cause I really don't have anyone to share my thoughts and feelings with!
@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
22 Mar 12
Try harder to cope with your feelings. Detach yourself from the movies. Do physical workouts, it helps.