Do you know anyone who had changed attitude just because of money?

Pasay, Philippines
March 26, 2012 9:47am CST
Well this is different from being successful in career. But then as I observed there are times that because of money it will transform the attitude or personality of a person. As they say that money is the root of all evil. Have you notice it to anyone that because he/she has plenty of money then he/she had changed his/her attitude? For example just like the man who won the Php14 Million aside from he became a gambler he also became a womanizer to think he has a wife. We have our neighbor who became rich then it came to the point that he became so arrogant just because of money. So do you know anyone who had been transform like humble to arrogance, or generous to selfish just because of money? How were you able to deal with them?
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18 responses
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
i believe that money can change a person's attitude and views in life. one good example for me was my friend. when we were in high school, she would borrow money from me always because she didn't have enough allowance. but when we got to college, her parents put up a business and did good in it, and so they now have a lot of money. she now doesn't wanna eat at places we used to eat because she wants to eat at fancy restaurants and tells me she doesn't wanna hangout with people we used to hang out with because she says they are poor when i heard her say that, i got mad at her and i advised her to keep her feet on the ground and all that, and she said okay and that she'll try. we don't see each other anymore because she is now busy with their family business. i just hope she doesn't choke on what ever she said before hehehe but i think she also needs to learn her lesson. but i don't know. that is not my problem anymore.
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
I think she feared being used or being badly influenced simply because she had more money than them. with the crime rate that's been happening to the country, any one who has more what they have should be careful. hanging out with the people you know poor can be still dangerous too, what if they do something unpredictable. besides, when you're poor, you got nothing to fear crooks because they won't go after you
• Pasay, Philippines
29 Mar 12
I also understand your point Cherish14 that she is putting down the poor people which was her friend as well before. That is not good thing. Instead she must still mingle with those people. Money is just money. It can fade because in the first place her business wouldn't be forever stay not unless if she is really a good businesswoman. I just hope that she is not social climber before. Because if she is then no wonder why she became arrogant.
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
28 Mar 12
well the thing is, the people she calls poor are just our friends back in high school. just because you got some more doesn't mean you have to change your attitude too. a lot of rich people are very simple and they don't have the attitude to boast about their money.
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Money can definitely get you drunk of power, and make you conceited. Almost all the people I know who got a high-paying job changed, they're @ssholes now. Interesting thing is, they still treat me the same. I guess it's because I'd kick their @ss if they ever showed me that f*cked up attitude of their in front of my face.
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
Yes, they can, by shutting up and putting their words into actions instead.
• Pasay, Philippines
29 Mar 12
That is sad for people that they want to prove themselves by showing off what they have now and the money is always involved. I mean can anyone prove themselves without bragging something?
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
29 Mar 12
I think it is pretty common when someone suddenly get lots of money. There are so many people lose themselves when they become rich because of lottery or other things. People change their attitude because of many reasons. First, they think the money change their life and their social class accordingly. You know, people from different social classes have different life, they make different friends. Therefore, when you suddenly get very rich, many people may want to know you. And sometimes even you don't want to change, you will change little by little. I think no matter how the situation change, we should try to keep a cool head. And always be honest with our family members and friends. We can't change how others see us, but we ourselves should kepp being ourselves.
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Mar 12
That is how I wonder as well that how come there are other rich people who classify as elite or class? Then if you are prim and proper it means that you are rich? I am also wondering if there is an elite person who became poor financially then up to the point that they are living in a poor community or worst case depress area. I think there are people who are like that.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
28 Mar 12
Yes, on both sides of the equation. There have been people who have gotten a little extra money and thus have gotten some rather swollen heads to say the very least. It is almost appalling and I'm sure the fact that they have all kinds of new friends doesn't have anything to do with the fact they have money. No sir, of course not, why would that be. It would have to be because of your charming personality which is not that charming. Then again, there have been many people who have lost money and suddenly are a bit more humble. Obviously there are things that they could in fact get away with when they had money. Things that they would not be able to get away with when they do not have money. So they do a very prominent about face. It is kind of amusing, how losing their money can shock people into becoming a bit better. Then again that's not always the case as some people are bitter still.
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Mar 12
That is worst they tend to be humble just because they don't have the money anymore. There are people who are users per se that they will stick on people who are rich. That is really sad how the money will affect people's moral values. Root of evil is the right term.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
26 Mar 12
Yea, they bragged/brag all the time about their stuff and everything they can do. I just think people who brag are so insecure and just plain rude in front of others who do not have as much as they do. I have arrogance in my house here without the money, I can't even imagine how the would be with money, I shudder to think.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
26 Mar 12
they* would be
• Pasay, Philippines
29 Mar 12
I just don't like it when they are bragging the things that they have then they are going to put down other people. Just because of money they are using that as weapon to fight with other people.
• India
30 Mar 12
Hello friend, No I don't know any person who chage her attitude for money. But now-a-days money is the important thing in our life. So it is possible. Have a nice day.
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Mar 12
Money is just necessity in our lives and we need that for survival purposes for our everyday life. But then it is so sad that because of money it also affects to the personality and attitude of other people. To the extent that there is already discrimination, the relationship with others ruin, the lifestyle became worst.
@yanzalong (18983)
• Indonesia
27 Mar 12
Yeah, that happened to my neighbours. When they moved in to our neigbourhood, they had very cheap car. I still remember that. Now things have changed. So have their attitude toward me. But this doesn't happen to all. It depends. Some people who become very rich look very humble and don't like to show off what they actually have. But mostly yes. Money can turn people's mind and attitude.
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Mar 12
Yeah we have some neighbor here before that they were not rich when they are renting the house here inside compound. Even now they are rich I could still see how humble they are. Only their lifestyle or way of living change but not their attitude. That is the problem with other people they act as if they already bought the whole world.
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
I have made the similar discussion about this and i felt sad for him. but am glad he did mentioned it so that we won't be repeating his mistakes. I used to kinda hate him for what he did but in case i win something like, i'd make sure that i won't scrwe things up like he did and besides, i never sure if am ever going to win
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Mar 12
That is the problem with that man who won the lottery. As if that 14M would be enough for all kinds of luxury nowadays. As I could assume it is just small amount if he is going to spend a lot, so no wonder that 3 months would be gone. But then for practicalities that could big enough even for necessities and basic needs in life. That is an example that we should never imitate. Too sad he has to ruin his relationship with his wife just because of money. When I would be given a chance to become rich then I would still value my friends who became good to me and of course my relationship with love ones.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Yes, I believe that too much money will make a devil of any person. Sometimes when people know he has that much money, they will approach him for help or some favors, and that's when he will show his real color. If the money he has belongs to the devil, then he will do everything to avoid or disregard anyone who seeks for his kindness. He will become greedy and a liar. He will become a candidate to h*ll.
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Mar 12
The money is a big test wherein it shows the true colors of people. I could also imagine that with other people I know. Money is the root of evil. What if that rich person would have disease that can't be cure? Then their money will just burn. And you see even their soul will be burn to hell just because of money?
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
27 Mar 12
No, I do not know anyone who has changed habits, Because rich. At least a day today, by contrast, seem to my compatriots, they live in a lower middle class. From my point of view, and also from my personal experience, I understand that even those who apparently do not have economic problems, often complain when they would first have to be quiet! This hurts me a lot! This is because, what should I say that I live a family, where the effort, to get to the end of month? Well you see just to answer your question, I share the opinion that if someone is connected brag about having lots of money, and do so in an arrogant way, I would bother.
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Mar 12
What do you mean you would bother? That it might affect your friendship if ever? I could imagine even the smartest person can as well do that. If they don't have money anymore then that is the time that they will be humble enough.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
26 Mar 12
Yes my ex. It's annoying, very annoying.. always talking about himself, what he bought for expensive stuff, including the high prices and still not satisfied and always complaining and never wondering if it hurts others they don't have a euro to spend. I tell him I can't stand him and why he is never satisfied since he has everything now he ever dreamed of. If he ever asked himself that for the price he bought a stereo others have to live from a whole year. But its like talking to a wall so I ignore him and delete his emails.
• Pasay, Philippines
29 Mar 12
Wow he thinks he can have all the things around the world. That is the problem if he has never been contented and he is complaining every single thing. I think it is better for him to have relationship with money and he can love it more than people around him even God. But too bad for him if that money will loose. That is the sad thing part about him.
@meidiana (108)
• Indonesia
27 Mar 12
Hello Metatronik... How are you? I have so many friends who act like that. They are changing a lot when they have lots of money. My aunties also change a lot when they already rich. Not only the way they talk changes. Their habit and the way they life are also change a lot. Now, they only want to eat in a big expensive restaurant. They do not allow their children to take bus to go to school. Some of my auntie is generous. But at the end, they like the poorer family to work for them, but then they talk something bad about those poorer family to other employee. Well...we certainly do need money to survive. Need more money and lots of money to keep in bank account. But most of the time, money change people's life-style and habit and personality. And money often makes a family broken.
• China
27 Mar 12
The persons you discribed may felt themselves inferior.When they have a lot of money abruptly,they tend to prove their own value using money.They think more money they are spending, more valuable they are.If my friends changed like this,i will be sorrow,but the attitude already have made one big gap between us.
• Pasay, Philippines
29 Mar 12
That is the problem just because of money then they will ruin your friendship.Seems that money could buy their own dignity.
@9jbas22 (66)
• Philippines
27 Mar 12
Everything has been said, I just want to add another point. Maybe these people don't really changed. Those traits are already within them but they just can't act the way they want because they don't have money. Maybe that arrogance with neighbors, those womanizing and gambling are already on their plans once they got rich. They actually did not changed but money gives them the opportunity to show their true selves. There are some who remain humble and generous because that's their true traits.
• Pasay, Philippines
29 Mar 12
I like what you said and I know you have the point there. There are really indeed humble that even they got everything then they still remain humble. It means that she don't use that money to ruin herself as a person. And yeah the gambler and womanizer has more opportunity now to become more like that because of the money.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
hi, yes,i have encountered that to my life and the sad was he is my relative my cousin,all i know with his personality was really good,humble,never do anything bad for you,never betray you because we are relative,but because of money he changed and i really disappointed to him.
@TheIzers (680)
26 Mar 12
Sadly one of my buddies was, She used to be very humble and sweet everyone in my group loves her. Unfortunately, when she become vice president at the company where she works at she then changed attitude. She doesn't want to be our friend no more not even talk to us. However, I think something big happened in her life because couple years after she ended our friendship suddenly I received email from her asked for apology for treated us (me and four others) that way.
• Pasay, Philippines
29 Mar 12
tsk tsk tsk!!!!! that bad karma happened to your friend. That is the problem when a person became successful they tend to change like they own the world. The only thing I could promise to myself is that even if I am the richest person around the world I would never forget my 2 friends who really value our good friendship. In case they need my help even financially I am willing to help them. I don't want to change my treatment to them because they became so good to me.
@Faith1118 (112)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
Yes, I have a best friend since we were in grade 5 until collage, since we are in grade school we use to sleep over from our house or their house, we normally talk just what ever is there to talk, I called her mother mama as well as her father papa, however we are no longer the same as before because she already change, I have felt that she change when the some hectare lot of her grand mother was sold for about 10M, the children of her gradma is only 8 so each child has been given 1M including her father, so when they receive their Million she change, she is no longer wearing appropriate clothes every time she goes to church, she change her lifestyle too, we are still friends but not as close as before...
• Pasay, Philippines
29 Mar 12
Since you didn't indicate the currency then I just look at your profile and you are also from the Philippines like me. Now I am wondering when did that thing happened? Because if that is just recently honestly I find it funny. Because nowadays 10 Million pesos is not really enough for luxury especially that 1 million pesos that is totally small. As others already used it for grand wedding already. And that 1 million can be easily fade if that could be only use for luxury. But in practicalities that could be enough.
• India
6 Jul 12
I know very many people who have changed their attitudes because of money and I really despise them. People that we went to school with, people I believed to be close friends. When I needed their help they all turned their backs on me simply because they