how do you handle problem?

Philippines
March 28, 2012 3:42am CST
" Attitude,Attack every problem with Enthusiasm,,, as if your survival depended On it." I like this saying,because its true all of us has different problem we encounter,problem with Family, Love,Financial any many more to mention,what i did is that,i face it one by one and calmly because i believed that in this world, while alive we are coupled with problems in life, in every problem there is a corresponding solutions so we need to deal with it with courage and enthusiasm. we need to become patient in dealing with our problem in life....life must go on even you are in trouble. how about you?how do you handle problems?
9 responses
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
I try to handle with grace! People can't notice if I do have one. I always make it a point to solve it alone. I really don't like other people be involved.
• China
29 Mar 12
i don't agree , something ,more people give you advices you may have a good thought with that ,surly ,i agree that somenthings must be solved by ourselves.
• China
29 Mar 12
i don't agree , something ,more people give you advices you may have a good thought with that ,surly ,i agree that somenthings must be solved by ourselves.
• Philippines
2 Apr 12
Problems never stop coming in our life. As long as we are still breathing, problems will still come. Whenever I have a small problem like I don't know what to wear to a party, I just solve it on my own. Whenever I have a big problem like not being able to pass a big exam, I pray to God because I failed and because I also want hope and motivation to continue again. I will also consult my boyfriend because he always makes me feel better especially whenever I have a problem. After that, I'll feel lighter and inspired to live again.
• United States
30 Apr 12
I agree with you. There will in these times we are living in will be problems we have to face. We've got to do our best at dealing with them. Yeah at times it is good for us to consult others. Sometimes other have experienced what we are going through and have more knowledge on the best way to handle a situation.
• India
28 Mar 12
Every lock comes with a key and every problem comes with a solution. Sometimes we need to constantly work for the solution of our problem and sometimes we need to be patient and handle our problem with care. Whenever I come across a problem in my life, I share it with my mom, my sister and my friends and they all offer different solutions for that problem and luckily I overcome my problem with their support and guidance. All we need is self confidence and support from family and friends and we can overcome even the biggest of all the problems.
• United States
30 Apr 12
Yes there are solutions to each problem we face. The hard part is trying to decide which solution is best for us and will yield the best results. We don't always have to experience a problem in order to learn how we should respond. We can learn from the examples of others and what happened to them when they made certain decisions.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
29 Mar 12
I write down what exactly the problem is. Then I give it some time. I learned that many problems solve themselves. Before I take steps I ask myself if it's really a problem or I make a problem out of it. Also I ask myself if it's worth to fight it or solve it or not. If so I will think out some solutions and am active to make it work. For the rest I go on with my life, in between I make the best out of it and I know/tell myself it will be over before I know since I always made it. I am a strong person and a survivor anyway. So no sleepless nights or worries or wasting time with feeling pity for myself or others.
• United States
30 Apr 12
That is a good idea. To write down the problem and really reflect on it.It really is important that we are active in striving to solve our problems. We've got to do the best that we can in order to make things better for ourselves.
@9jbas22 (66)
• Philippines
28 Mar 12
Problems never get tired of visiting our lives. There are serious, some are less serious and others just petty. Some need urgent solution and others provide us enough time to figure out the best remedy. And the problem with problems, they seldom attack individually but most of the time simultaneously. There are also many problems that the solution leave us another problem like borrowing money for the urgent need of hospitalizing a member of the family. How I handle them? Differently, it depends on what type of problem it is but I suppose the question refers to serious problems. I always confront them with the backing of hard prayers. Prayers don't help me solve problems physically like providing the money I need but they open my mind. They clear my mind from obstructions that hinder the solution of my problems. For problems which remedies are beyond my capacity or without earthly solution at all, prayers are always handy answers. They calm, console and put back my mind in its befitting condition to continue life optimistically.
• United States
30 Apr 12
I agree with you. We often have some type of problem to face. I feel the same way the problems all seem to happen around the same time. That can be very annoying. We have to do our best to try and deal with them to the best of our ability. Some problems like mentioned will take time to resolve or awhile to see good results.
• China
29 Mar 12
This problem has been bothering me.But have recently i heard a friend's word:"you every day,whether it is happy too,or sad over this day will be over eventually.Why do not you happy ever day?So,today,when i encounter the problem,i chose the smiling face.Positive attitude to face.
• United States
30 Apr 12
Yeah it is good to have a positive attitude to handle the problems we are facing.We do have to remind ourselves that eventually whatever we are going through will end. In time it will end so we just have to cope with it the best that we can.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
2 Apr 12
As it turns out, I try and handle pretty much everything, one step at a time, to try and really tackle each and every problem. It is done rather carefully, as on misstep on the road to solving a problem will in fact not solve them. In fact, it will just cause more problems to crop up, leading to a number of headaches and a number of greater problems. Life does in fact go on, so we got to work around problems, while figuring out a way to solve them. It wouldn't be easy, then, really life is really just not going to be easy. Otherwise, it wouldn't be life it was absolutely easy. Still got to take those problems, got to solve them one step at a time, and really hope for the best, hope for everything to get solved in due time.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
30 Apr 12
I agree with you. It is best for us to be positive when we face problems. When we have a negative attitude about the things that are happening in our life it generally makes things worse. And it is good to face each situation in a calm way.
• China
28 Mar 12
i just live my life as there is no tomorrow.enjoy everyday,you should know,everything is ok,anything will be settled at last! smile,smile,smile!
• Philippines
28 Mar 12
thank you,yes your correct smile, smile, smile and the world will smile at you.