Friend isn't answering phone

United States
March 31, 2012 10:26pm CST
I want to go to the mall tomorrow with my friends. But one of them isn't answering their phone, it immediately goes to voice message! I've sent a text and everything, and she hasn't responded. Should I call the whole thing off and put it on another day, or just go without her? I already invited her beforehand though. I sent the text during the morning. It's just irritating when everyone's able to go, except one person who doesn't respond.
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9 responses
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
Well maybe there's something wrong with your friend, like maybe a problem came up. I think you should be more concerned of why your friend is not responding to your text messages and not being able to go to the mall because of her.
@babyanna (1216)
• China
1 Apr 12
Yeah,it would be probably better to check her place if she still doesn't respond to you for more than two days.
@maezee (41997)
• United States
1 Apr 12
Did you have plans with her? If you didn't and you are just calling her on a whim, then I would just go without her. You didn't have concrete plans together so you really cant' expect her to be free, you know? If you had plans and now she's getting all shady about it and not answering your calls....I say, you should still go on your own OR with someone else (because waiting on people SUCK! I hate waiting on people!). Have fun shopping!!!
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
1 Apr 12
Well, can you be enjoy the mall - going experience without this friend of your who didn't answer your phone calls and text message? If you can do it without him/her, why bother to go without him/her. You can have fun with other friends too right? For me, if he/she didn't answer the phone, I won't care if I would go without him/her. I still enjoy the day to the mall.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
I don't think that friend of yours would like to go. You just have to go with the others. When a person does not respond like that, it could mean she is not interested to go with the group. But she could easily just pick up the phone and tell you the whole truth.
• China
1 Apr 12
I think you and your other friends can call her with the spare time ,maybe you can call her home telephone cos she is lose the mobile phone or the mobile phone is out of money or out of electric power. Go to find her in her room or call her home number. It is really irrating when everyone of your friends is go out to play, With frineds we can choose the clothes colorfully, with the friends we can play football in a team. With the friends we can solve big cumputer problem.With the friends we can sing in a band. We can try to find her through her other friends maybe boys. If we really can not find her or if she is really have no time to play with you, then do not sad , I believe next time ,she will be with you to play .You are still a beauty group.
• Indonesia
1 Apr 12
if u can't call her,u can go to her house... if u don't know her house,just leave a message :)
@babyanna (1216)
• China
1 Apr 12
Hi,elementah~ Did you tell her the exact date when you invited her? Maybe she just forgot or she is too busy to answer the phone. Well, you can ask the other friends,tell them that one of you is not responding to the call and see if they wanna reschedule. If all the others don't have time on other days,then leave her a voice message and tell her that you're sorry that the others aren't available on a different date and gonna go without her. Tell her that maybe you and her can reschedule and go out for dinner or something together some other time. I'm sure she'll understand. Hope it helps and wish you have fun at the mall~ Sarah
• United States
1 Apr 12
Your friend is well aware of plans and if your friend doesn't answer, why call it off if everyone can make it? Just go as planned with the rest of your friends. However is your friends phone off for a reason? Like does your friend have a curfew when to turn off her phone? If not something may be wrong but if she calls back tomorrow tell her if she still wants to go you're all at the mall or something.
• China
1 Apr 12
Well,maybe just because he have something so he can not to reply to it.In many cases,some of our friend could not immediately reply to our messages.I had a friend who had a week of never reply to my messages,I was very angry and sad.But,it was a mistake until the final only to find her cell phone was stolen.