How do you react when you see your exgirlfriend ?

Bulgaria
April 8, 2012 7:03am CST
Last night I was at this party and they were two of my ex girlfriends and it was a little awkward. So how do you deal with this kind of situation, do you go like "HEY HOW ARE YOU?" or you just pretend that they are strangers or that nothing ever happened between us ?
5 responses
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
8 Apr 12
I think you dont need to be that nervous. Why dont you think your ex girlfriend as your friend? I have some ex boy friends and I always feel happy every time I met them. Thank God I always ended relationship on a good way. Yeah, some of relationships ended cause of he betrayed me. But I dont know after some times I will be god to him, not as a couple but we become good friend then. Even some of them sometimes call me just to say hello. I try to be nice cos they treat me nicely. So I dont need to be nervous every time I met them. I think you need to be like me. No, not because I'm a good person but it is good to be friends with our ex. Past is just the past and now both of you have your own life. I think it's ok if you come to them and say hello. It's nicer than pretending as if you dont know them..:D
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• Bulgaria
8 Apr 12
I think you're right, it is better to talk to your exes and be in a good relations, but sometimes this is hard, because of the things that happened between us can become very complicated. Sometimes if you pretend that you don't know them can make you look immature or look like you didn't get over her. But like you said, it wont hurt to say hi.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
8 Apr 12
It will depend on how we broke up. If my ex and I broke up in a good way I will greet him and ask him. Otherwise I would just pretend like I am not seeing him. So how did you handle it when you saw her last night?
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• Bulgaria
8 Apr 12
Well, at start I pretend like I don't see her, we've got an eye contact and that was awkward, but as the night was going and we take a few drinks we've had a little chat so the awkwardness was gone. Oh and something weird happened and I don't know how to perceived that situation. We were in a large room with a very big table even though it get very smoky and muggy, so we opened the windows and it get a little cold. I left my jacket somewhere I don't remember exactly where and I get cold and start looking for my jacket and then I saw my ex girlfriend dressed in it. That was really weird and I come to her and she told me "That's your jacket right?" and I said yes, then she told me that she was very cold so I left my jacket to her. At the end of the night she gave it to me, then she left. I don't know how to read this situation. And about my other ex - well with her is not that awkward because she's not exactly my ex - me and her hooked up together for a one night stand and before that we weren't even talking to each other, we aren't talking to each other now too, but the eye contact is always awkward. And about that thing with the jacket what do you think was that ? I think that it was inappropriate for her to do that and I don't know how to read this situation. Any help ?
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
8 Apr 12
There is a lot of tension when i see my gf. I make it a point to confirm that she is not accompanied by any other male friend.
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@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
8 Apr 12
Ex-es have been a part of your life, and even you broke up either amicably or in anger, there should be initiative of courtesy on your part to at least to say a simple greeting, a smile or a simple gesture, and if chance permits, then a small pep talk would do.
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@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
8 Apr 12
if i don't feel any grudge on them, i would just say hi..but i won't do some lengthy conversations on them..
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