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humairaku (537)
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humairaku commented in a discussion called Living with parents for a married couple.. in life.
1 month ago
But though it's common for married couple live with their parents, most couple choose to live separately with their parents after their marriage. Maybe they will leave their parents for few years cos they need to save money first before they're able to build or buy a house. Some couples choose to rent a house. But when the financial condition is not to good they choose to live with their parent...


humairaku commented in a discussion called Living with parents for a married couple.. in life.
1 month ago
You're so true with what you said. If only I had a choice..#sigh.. When I decided to get married I had a drwam thatI will be at my own house. I really want to be the queen at my house. But owning a house is not easy to be done. I didnt mind to stay with my parents till I can buy or build a housr. I live in a village, rent an apartment or condominium or something like that is not common to do. ...


humairaku commented in a discussion called Living with parents for a married couple.. in life.
1 month ago
Yeah you're right actually. I'm sure that every family have a dream to own a house. But having a house is not easy to do. House is expensive. Frankly speaking I didnt include having house in my marriage. It doesnt mean that I dont want to have a house but it is a kind of dream but hard to make it real in a short time. Moreover, my parents in law had asked me to live with them even before my mar...


humairaku commented in a discussion called Living with parents for a married couple.. in life.
1 month ago
So there's similarity between culture in your place and culture in my place. In my place many couples still livr with their parents cos most of them dont have enough money to buy their own house. So they keep living with their parents after their marriage. I and my husband have job but our salary is not enough to buy a house. We should save for long time to own a house. But my parents in law do...


humairaku commented in a discussion called Living with parents for a married couple.. in life.
1 month ago
Hi Kitty! It's nice to read your response. FYI, I married my husband when we were in bad condition. I had a job but the salary is not too good. He also had a job but the salary is just the same as mine. We're really bad in financial condition at that time. Our office is near with our patents house. So it's the best decision to live with them after our marriage. But actually my inlaws havd asked...


humairaku commented in a discussion called Living with parents for a married couple.. in life.
1 month ago
Hi Fashionfever! I think I agree with you about value of a man. Though we live with parents we never ask for money. Life is about process. I dont think that living with parents makes us becoming a dependent person. We lead our own life, I have my own decision such as what school is suitable with my daughter, what clothes I should wear, what things I buy and what food I cook. I can decide all I ...


humairaku commented in a discussion called Living with parents for a married couple.. in life.
1 month ago
Thanks Prakash. Though we live with our parents we try hard to earn for our own living. Even I often buy snack or food for all people at home. I also buy clothes for my mother in law. What we need to do is only maintain good relation. I know I can do this though it's tough sometimes..:)


humairaku commented in a discussion called Living with parents for a married couple.. in life.
1 month ago
In general, I do agree with you. Before I got married, I never thougt that I would live with my parents or with my inlaws. But when the life gave me the different fact, I cant say anything. We ever told to our parents the possibilty of living in our own house, do you kniw what my mother said? She said that if we do that, it neans that we 'kill' her. It's true that life has many choices, and I h...


humairaku commented in a discussion called Living with parents for a married couple.. in life.
1 month ago
Aha..! Then you tell peope here that there are plenty reasons why married couple should live with their parents. Abd you know what I really appreciate to what will you do after your marriage that you will live with your parents after your marriage because your're the only child of them. It implies that ypu really love your parents, care of them so much and you let your ego away just to show tha...


humairaku commented in a discussion called Living with parents for a married couple.. in life.
1 month ago
I think you have a great family. Every parents have responsibility to raise their children though they are already grown up. I mean starting a new life is not easy. So by living with parents for a while after our marriage is not bad way to learn more about how to lead a marriage life. Our parents have good influence in giving advice about how to treat our spouse or how to take care of our baby....

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I had a 'three laguanges dialog' yesterday..^__^

Hi Mylotters!
I live in Indonesia. I am an English teacher in an Elementary school near my house. My school was visited by Arabian yesterday. Actually my school was common visited by some guests,...

Started by humairaku (537) in life • 8 responses • Last response by aratranspro (10) • 5 days ago
Tags: languages, buton, common language, english to arabic translator, foreigner
Multitasking woman!

Some people said that women are weak creatures. For those who said this, they should watch what have I done one day. I started my day at 6am. I should prepare my daughter to go to school. I sometimes...

Started by humairaku (537) in woman • 16 responses • Last response by Dominique25 (1806) • 5 days ago
Tags: multitasking, busy, family, house chores, woman
I can do Mylotting every time and everywhere, now!

Hi Mylotters!
I think I have made good progression in Mylotting cos I can do it every time and everywhere. It's because I can do Mylotting via cell phone. I unabled to do this before cos my post...

Started by humairaku (537) in mylot • 12 responses • Last response by lctravenisk (185) • 1 week ago
Tags: game, give comment via cell phone, good, mylot on mobile phone, mylotting
what do you know about my country, Indonesia?

Hi, Mylotters!
I'm really curious to people's opinion about my country, Indonesia. For me Indonesia is a large country, an archipelago country which has thousands islands (maybe Indonesia is the...

Started by humairaku (537) in questions & answers • 2 responses • Last response by adhyz82 (9002) • 2 weeks ago
Tags: indonesia, archipelago, beautiful scenery, country
Living with parents for a married couple..

Hi Mylotters!
Is it ok for a married couple live with their parents? I mean they keep staying in the same house with their parents though they have got married. In my place, it is so common for...

Started by humairaku (537) in life • 18 responses • Last response by humairaku (537) • 1 month ago
Tags: marriage, married, parents, home, in laws
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