Are U gonna stay with the one who loves U..OR, R U Going back to the one U love

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
April 10, 2012 2:31am CST
I have been away for a month and left a topic saying Goodbye. Mylot friends who are also my friends on FB keep asking me to come back. I gave myself a month and tried to keep busy with other things. Okay, my question is, [b]Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you OR, Are you going back to the one you love[/b] In a relationship, are you going to choose the one who loves you Or the one you love. This can also be applied here in MyLot, Mylot is my first earning(online) site and that is the main reason why I came. back And that includes friends (real friends) I know there are few mylot members who come and go. I am one of them, although I did not deleted my account. I feel the absence, I feel missed, Now I am back! (I just don't know whether I came back because Mylot loves me, or because I love Mylot ...maybe both) Hello everyone jaiho® - Back after a month 4-10-2012 3:29pm Tuesday (PT)
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21 responses
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
hi jai, Can I have them both cause I can't decide right now I just love those who truly loves me and not those who love me in times of need miss yah
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
Love you both
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• Philippines
10 Apr 12
I love you my friend!
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• Philippines
10 Apr 12
hahaha! I hope you are both gorgeous good looking man love you too... and three
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
My dear jai, I am sooooo happy to see you again here,yahu! I missed you here. I was in love before to my first love and unfortunately,it seemed he doesn't love me that much the way I love him. It hurts,really,my first broken heart. And then,another man came,who patiently courted me for 3 years. I felt so special,like a princess. I said,why not give this man a chance, and I never regretted it. Now I am living a happy married life. I think if I went back to my first love,I wouldn't be as happy as I am now.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
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• Philippines
10 Apr 12
Very true my dear bhaby!
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• Philippines
10 Apr 12
and you will not have a lovely cutie Crystal hope to meet you again soon
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
10 Apr 12
Hi Jai! It is nice to see you back. Basically, there is no substitute for mylotting and mylot friends and this could be the main reason that you are back here despite saying good bye. Those of us who are here for a long time feel a kind of belonging to mylot. When we are away from mylot, we keep thinking what would be happening at mylot, so our curiosity brings us back here. You are apparently back because you love mylot and mylot friends love you. Welcome back and hope you will keep enjoying here, as you used to do. Have a great day! dpk
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
10 Apr 12
Real friends always support each other. After seeing the responses to your last discussion regarding 'good bye' and the current discussion, you would have believed that your friends love you and they always welcome you. dpk PS - yesterday only, I was checking the older notifications, which I could not respond. I saw one of the notifications regarding your discussion, I did not respond thinking that as you have left mylot, you may not comment back. But to my pleasant surprise, you came alive on mylot today.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
Shessshhh I feel goosebumps Read the box above, Oshy just wrote that she dreamed of me and here you are saying you noticed the notification of my last topic. Oh my...who else feel my spirit wanting to come back here
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
hello dpk, Nice to see you too :) I am certain of friends who really loves me and wishing me to come back. Thanks for being here again
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
we love you ms. jai! i miss seeing your name on the "hot" tab! and your witty discussions too! Mylot feels empty without you. glad you are back, was surprised when i saw your reply on my discussion and happy as well!
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
I am better now jai, though my doc suggested on a biopsy which i postponed in the mean time as my son was hospitalized last week...so it was pretty busy for me these past few days..
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
That's too bad of you :xxx Biopsy should not be postponed. Please do it now, for your kids sake my dear
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
hello jazel, I am more concerned about your health than missing you (just kidding) Honestly, yes, I hope and wish everything is fine especially your health
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
10 Apr 12
And you did hurt me Hi di I dont know all the friends you have at Mylot, but I do know you and me and this wonderful relationship that we share between us... I was away that day (we had Holi at my place on the day when you had your last discussion) and when I returned after a few days, I was told that you had left... I sent out email to you... no response... sent out a FR on FB... no response... I did not give up hope and each day I logged in FB I expected some response from you... Never mind, now that you are here and back, I am glad to have re-connected with my dear di... Now for your question - Though people prefer to stay with the one they love, I prefer to stay with the one who loves me. It is more blissful and happy to be with people who genuinely love you...
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
hello sids, Sorry about the FR on FB. I am not an FB active and I do receive a lot of notifications. For sure I missed your request. Regarding email, I seldom open my yahoo account since it's not my official email. You're not alone who keeps wondering why I do not respond to their email/s (and I do feel sorry about it) I will check my notifications and yahoo mail. I agree with your response. It is better to stay with the one who love and give importance. Thanks for the welcome
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
10 Apr 12
okay... no worries... Thanks for returning back and dont leave me this time
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
Got your request now and confirmed goodness, 370 FR request
@akp100 (13640)
• India
10 Apr 12
Hi Good to see you back. You are always good member for the mylot , so I am sure many of us missed you for sure.. yes I too.. So whatever reason is, I am happy that you are back .. Welcome back.. :)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
hello akp, I am always a good member? hehehe- I doubt I miss you from the other site honestly, I miss your comments there :)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
You can always create a new one my friend
@akp100 (13640)
• India
11 Apr 12
For me you are always good here and on other sites. About comments on other sites, I was liking the triond that way, but unfortunately I got banned their and not working their anymore. Even I am missing triond because it was my first article writing site. I don't know what went wrong !!
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@ksherrie (891)
• Singapore
10 Apr 12
I would stay with the one who love me, and I love him back... Otherwise, love would be difficult and painful, if one doesn't love back....
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
hello ksherrie, Good choice my dear and thanks for your comment
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
4 May 12
Hi Jai sis, it is good to hear that you have decided to back in here again. I think the real love we are getting must be from both sides. We must give and take the same love to make the love stay forever. I am happy to see you are always around here whenever you are free. Do keep in touch always and stay happy always
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 May 12
@ myfb, Thanks for the welcome sis
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
I know you couldn't resist this place, i understand you went into some troubling times. but ihope you learned your lesson in determining which is the right friends you've got. If i hadn't known you maybe we wouldn't realized how much small the world is. Just focus on posting so that you wouldn't be able to get distracted amongst other things..we missed you and glad to have you back
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
dear bro, I really wish to follow your advice , but you know your sis...they say, older people become hardheaded (lols) (duh- am I getting older- nyahahaha) I am thankful to have real friends and yes, now I've learned a lot
@vandana7 (99119)
• India
10 Apr 12
Welcome back.. :) And since neither will be what I want, why should I seek either? One of the famous guyz here said ..marriage is a contract, like any other monetary contract..and love has nothing to do with it. If it comes, it comes, otherwise, it doesn't. So true facts are, love is rare so expecting true love to cross your path is kidding yourself. You can, however, try to get an acceptable stuff out of either of the two options. Of the two chances of being happier in the first relationship are more.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
hello vandana, Thanks for the welcome :) Everyone has their own (respective) opinion when it comes to relationship particularly with the word love. No matter how they/we define love, sometimes word/s are not enough to fully/totally describe what they/we really feel. Have a good day
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• India
18 Apr 12
I think the one I love is same as the one who loves me, love can never be one sided; i knew you will come back to this wonderful site. Blessings and hugs from Dada Professor
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
18 Apr 12
hello dada, Glad to see you again and hugs to you and maa
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
10 Apr 12
This is exclusively with your topic - stay with the one who loves U..OR, R U Going back to the one U love - Normally people used to say give preference to the one who love you and not the one whom we love. Though this statement is fine, but we lose something we loved. So, for me, I prefer to whom I love and wish to bring them beside us. One thing I am sure that those who loved myLot will not quit for ever because it is beyond comparison and it alwys stay alone due to its specific and unique features. Even I found that people who still with myLot have a challenging experience and after the trial and error, most of them become one-family attachments. I am sure that there is no need to tell more of such things and I am sure that this is just one reason you fell like type www.mylot.com on your browser. People who really loved (not said) cannot quit ever. It is just like an old girl friend (for me) who left, had given a lots of fond memories...
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
hello thanks, I couldn't say/write anything more
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
13 May 12
Nice to see you back , it is one month now, dada said Jane beti is out but she will come, i was convinced too.. Hugs from maa to Jane beti HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY Sorry for late response.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 May 12
• India
10 Apr 12
Hey jai, I happy to know that you are back over here. The wounderboy is wondered why you are leaving here. I don't know why you took such a decision. Hope you will never repeat it and make us people to feel the feel of loneliness
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
hello wonderboy, No need to wonder now I am back :) Whatever made me think of leaving? ugh- forget about it (hahaha) One thing I've realized, I miss Mylot and I can't leave the site including real friends
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@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
Hi Jai, Welcome back again my friend, It is so nice that your here again and be with us. I can't imagine how time flies it's already a month when you left us. It was the time I felt that I'm new again because of being away too for 3 years. We can't explain the feeling of being welcome by our old time friends they are so very warm and friendly. Your will not regret your decision of coming back and please don't leave us again.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
hello lyn, I really miss mylot and mylot friends. The space and absence gives me more reason to stay and came back. Thanks for the welcome and have a good day my dear
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
12 Apr 12
Dear sister, I am happy that you are back. Good you have not deleted the account and you felt to re-login in mylot. I am waiting for some other friends too to join back. Take care dear.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
12 Apr 12
dear sis Glad to see you too
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Apr 12
jaiho hi i stay with mylot as I love it , and how do I know if it loves me, I have friends here though who say they love me so I stay as I have so much fun here all the time and the earnings help me stay on the net as it goes to pay the payment to Time Warner each month. I am happy here so here I will stay.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
dear Hatley, Your number says it all ma'm Have a good day
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
my dear bonita..i was worried when i came back here a week ago. I don't where could I find you because i have no other link to you except here. I am so glad you're back again my dear bonita.. The last time I replied your topic before was all about love and now that I'm back again it is still all about love...but I understand that you always feel in love and I just hope you really find someone that you use to love and that the feeling are mutual... Welcome back my dear and in-love always bonita.. Mobhomeir here. 041012
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 12
my dear Martin, Yes, I am always in love and it's so nice to be in love Uhmnn...yah, I know someone out there loves me as I do Glad to see you too my dear friend
• Mexico
15 Apr 12
Hi jaiho: Both in love as in other activities, I think we have to find this point where heart and mind are reunited. When the heart meets the mind we can make the best results. But of course doing what we love to do brings to me the best result and when you feel loved at the same time, that's simply amazing. Sometimes we need to learn to love even more the things that are important for us, I think. Thanks for asking. Have a nice day. ALVARO
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Apr 12
hello Alvaro, Exactly, we have priorities in life and we should give important to what we think is worth our love and time. Thanks for sharing a great thought here and have a great day always my dear
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
11 Apr 12
Hi Jaiho, Happy to see you back here and hope you really had a great time. Wow.. it is so nice that you have great feelings for your friends online offline, mylot or fb and that make you keep coming back to your loved ones i suppose. So here you do love mylot and there are a lot who love you too which make it equally important to be in the circle with love around. I would prefer to be with those who love me that way i am not left alone. Love is about give and take so if you are being loved, won't you return back? Have a nice time dear...
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
hello viju, Nice to see you again friend :) I am with you, I would prefer the one who loves me- and I will love in return