Help! I think my accent really sucks!

@Nameless_ (1180)
Australia
April 10, 2012 7:44am CST
So I recorded myself talking today, and I just found out that I can't really speak properly. Like, it's embarrassing listening to myself speak, as I can't pronounce words and articulate properly. I'm not just talking about listening to your own voice, which many would agree is wierd since it sounds different. But I'm actually talking about me pronouncing words properly, and I can't do that! :( It's really sad, and I don't really know why people would talk to me! I don't know if you guys have this experience, but it would be great if you can help me out! It's mainly my articulation and I find that I stutter even though I don't feel like I am! :( I don't have any videos to post up for you guys to give feedback, but it would be great if you guys can just reply to this post.
8 responses
@drow1212 (169)
• United States
12 Apr 12
The shuttering maybe because of your shy when you meet new people but i wouldn't beat yourself up too much you have won prizes after all :)
@Nameless_ (1180)
• Australia
14 Apr 12
Hey man, thanks! :P Well, all I can say is that everyone is rather used to it now - but honestly the prizes thing is really baffling. NO IDEA WHY. But then my friends did say that I shouldn't worry too much about it, but that's probably cause they are used to it too.
@drow1212 (169)
• United States
18 Apr 12
Your welcome :P Huh i see well thats not a bad thing though. Shoot i think i may know why haha. True your probably right on that
@GardenGerty (157598)
• United States
10 Apr 12
If you are in college, or can take a college class, a speech class might help. Other things that help are to participate in singing activities, because for instance in church choir we over articulate to make things clear. You can watch videos of people who speak the way you would like to, and you can video tape or record just the speech of yourself, speaking, and pick one item to concentrate on at a time, or one word. In my college speech class I had a friend who always said "probly" instead of probably--we worked on a list of one hundred most mispronounced words. You need to form new habits, maybe one or two words at a time. You cannot really break a bad habit, you need to replace it with a good habit.
@GardenGerty (157598)
• United States
15 Apr 12
My husband and I thought you sounded fine on the Swagbucks video. I find that I pick up whatever accent I am around, and so I could copy yours without trying. I have always done that. You do talk fast and that gives an effect of stuttering, perhaps, but it also gives a liveliness and enthusiasm that is very attractive.
@Nameless_ (1180)
• Australia
14 Apr 12
Thanks for your support! I've heard that when I sing my accent goes away. Probably like that dude in Glee with the Irish accent but sounds american when he sings. Haha. Maybe I should sing my way through life (though unlike Rory - the glee dude - I'm not a good singer). I will definitely try to do some activities to try and make my articulation sound better. Someone once told me that I have a cute but incomprehensible accent.
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@rekhum (2420)
• India
10 Apr 12
Well don't take it hard on yourself..You would be able to get online trainings to learn a good neutral accent..snoop around. Besides, when reading your news papers read it out loud everyday for 15 to 20 minutes everyday..I've trained a couple of batches in an outsourced company until i moved to management..Actually, you can learn more faster if you have a trainer in person.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
You may think that what you're facing right now is a challenge but as a matter of fact you already won half the battle that's because you already know your weakness. And if you know your weakness then you can already address it or at least with some help. If you can't pronounce words properly, that's because you are not using it on a daily basis and that's quite normal. To address your problem, all you have to do is practice. As they say practice makes perfect, you can do it alone or with a friend.
@Nameless_ (1180)
• Australia
11 Apr 12
I think the thing is that I am practising, but I am practising the wrong accent everyday. Thank you, I do know my weakness, and I have been trying to address it to no avail. All my friends are saying my accent will never change. I am using certain words regularly, like "something", but it always sound like "sum fing", with a break in between. :( Lots of friends have tried to help me but now they think i'm a hopeless case!!!
@salma07 (639)
• India
10 Apr 12
Hi nameless, For the record i too cant pronounce any word properly coz my mother tongue is Urdu, not English, not just English but some native language and i have been subjected to lot of criticism for my accent with native language, but what we do, this is our own way of speaking and our voice, it does sound different from those Hollywood actor or Britisher, but i am trained in that way... I think we have the native accent in our way of pronunciation, and to answer your other question, people dont talk to you because of your accent or how good you pronouns some words, it because you are person they look up to...and hold some value in their life..i personally believe that i would only talk to a person who has something interesting to talk about not just fancy words or cool accent...so if people are talking to you be grateful for that and be happy because this means that you are an intelligent person in that field or important to that person who values your opinion..
@Nameless_ (1180)
• Australia
10 Apr 12
Thanks... my friends keep saying that they understand me so it's OK. But STILL. The fact that they said they "understand" me just means that I passed the minimum threshold for communicating with others!!! Futhermore, I live in Australia, an english speaking country, so it's really bad that everyone seems to kinda look down on my because of my accent! :( I am very grateful that my friends do put up with my accent, but it would be great if they didn't see it as a "I understand you so it's OK" but a "youre a normal person with a normal accent". :(
@salma07 (639)
• India
10 Apr 12
humm, so if you badly need help with accent you can approach a language training institute...But you got some good friends there who support you and dont say mean things about your accent..dont worry too much its going to be alright
• India
20 Jul 12
Pronunciation is a very important part of any language. It’s actually very impressive that you noticed the problem and actually took time to record yourself because to with some people this problem goes unnoticed. There is but one thing that works magic with pronunciation problems, watch at least two or three English movies a week and with time your pronunciation will slowly adopt to what your ears keeps hearing.
• India
10 Apr 12
The good thing is you know there is a problem. The best resort is to go to the website named the free online dictionary to check out the correct pronunciation and practice in front of the mirror. This will help you a lot.
@almond24 (1248)
• Hungary
10 Apr 12
In my opinion nobody should look down on you because of your accent, it's you who learned their language. It takes a lot of practice to have a "perfect" accent, if something like that exists. Please don't get discouraged, I think the best is to just listen and practice. It doesn't help, but I have a weird accent too. When I went to English speaking countries, I kept getting the questions from people what language I spoke, and if i understood what they were saying. I had to tell them that I'm fine and don't need a translator, but using my native language with them would be more difficult. I didn't feel discriminated because of it, rather found them nice because they wanted to make sure I understood them.