who will you thinking of when you feel unhappy?

Malaysia
April 10, 2012 10:25am CST
when i am in moody, i will think of my person in charge, not because i want to bully him, but i know he is the one that can affort my temper, and will not being hurt by me. so everytime when i am in a sadness mood, i will try to sms to him, go to find him, just to calm down my mood. maybe i treat him as my brother, whatever i encouter, i will also share with him, no matter happiness or sadness, he will always accompany me to overcome the problems. dear mylotter, who will you thinking of when you are in moody? wish that all of us have a trusted friend to accompany us in our life journey, always give us encouragement, and always pull us up when we are down =) happy mylotting
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16 responses
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
When I am unhappy I usually call my parents. Nobody else knows me better than my parents. They can surely know how to make me feel better and can fix the problem. When they're not available, then I call either my sister or my friends. Friends that can reach out and listen to your problems. Happy mylotting!
11 Apr 12
Have you noticed that when you call your parents they always have the answers or good advice, but thats what parents are for.
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
11 Apr 12
unlike jvincent_129,I never call my parent when i am unhappy or get bad problems. Simply i don't want they worry about me a lots because i live far away from them right now. I know parents know we better than the others else and they also have much living experiences but i am very uncomfortable when i know that they are worry about me.
• Malaysia
11 Apr 12
ya, i personally also won't call my family, the first reason is i don't want them to worry about me, the second is, the situation that i met they maybe will not understand, so i prefer to talk with someone who can really understand me, but it is enough hard to get someone that are really understand you. so, come to the last, we have to solve the problem by ourselves, our friends and family only can accompany us when we are in bad mood, but they can't solve the problem for us =)
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
11 Apr 12
When i am in moody, i think of my closed friend who lives in Korea, He is parkitani, i know him 4 years ago when i studied in Korea. If he is online, I will talk with him. I always feel better whenever i talk with him, sharing my problems as long as listen his things also. I can share anything with him, ask him an advice about any problem that i get. However, we live so far right now so that not all time i can talk with him. I think i am very lucky when i have a good friend like him. Sometime when being in moody, i think of eating also. And then i go to supermarket to buy food,eating and eating only till I am full and asleep. Is it funny? but it works to me, I feel better after wake up or after eating. Luckily, I don't get fat when eating a lots, then till now it is ok...^^
• United States
11 Apr 12
whenever this happens to me i think of my brother, my hero, he gives me energy when i don't have any, gives me life when i think i don't have any, always there when i need him, no matter what i know he's always here with me no matter what! R.I.P Bro
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
When I am not in the mood, I don't go to anybody and ask them to comfort and all because I am the type of person who wants to solve my problem alone =) When I feel down, the first thing that comes up my mind is to just be still and LISTEN to MUSIC. By doing that it makes me feel at ease and relieved. Then I start singing and all of a sudden i'm okay.
• Malaysia
11 Apr 12
it is good, music really a way to relieve our mood, when i am in bad situation, i will also choose to listen to music, when i really cannot affort then only i will talk to my close friends, for their advices, else, i won't ever what to let people worry about me
• United States
11 Apr 12
I will think of my family especially my mom, but I wont talk her something I am not happy for, I wont compliant to her. I will just talk something else, that make me feel better. Becuase I think everything has its solutions, and I know the way to solve my problems, but sometimes, just you know, upset about it. However, every time I talk to my mom, that helps me and calm me down a lot.
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
11 Apr 12
You do same like me, kai0224liu. Sometime, I just make a phone call to my mom and ask her blah blah in my hometown only, she talks and i listen but i feel good after that also. I read a news somewhere, they said that whenever you get problems in your life, better make a phone call to talk with your mom. Even though you don't need to talk about your problems but you will feel better. I see it is right and works to me also. Have a nice day and keep your smiles...^^
@MoonGypsy (4613)
• United States
10 Apr 12
i know it sounds crazy, but i am an introvert. when i feel down or moody. i come vent on mylot. mylot is like my little diary. no one knows about this account. alot of times when i get moody, it's cause of people that i am around. so, i withdraw and come to mylot. lol.
• Malaysia
11 Apr 12
ya, this is really a good way. since facebook and other social network is full with friends that know us well. for me, i also will not choose to post at facebook, because all my close friends can know, and even my family also can see from facebook. but mylot is slightly different, since i didn't invite my friend to join me in here, so i can just post whatever of my feeling here =)
• China
10 Apr 12
When i am in sad mood i won't think of other people even my family members...I always consider that no one can really help me , and all i can do is to figure out by myself.Seems i am always lonely lol
• Malaysia
11 Apr 12
when i am in a moody situation, i also will not think of my family =) even he is the only person that i think of, but i will avoid myself to meet with him, because i don't really hope that i will show my temper for him, he is not wrong, and i feel this is not fair to him =) so i will try my best to avoid to go with crowd, and i will just stay at home, watch some comedy to relieve my mood
• India
10 Apr 12
i try not to be upset, however being human it is very normal to be upset for one thing or the other. i either rem my mother who always used to calm me down, or else, i think of my hubby who can not see me unhappy. i think i can not be upset then. moreover, i believ to be upset for saomeone who is not important in my life is wastage of time....so i try to remain calm
• Malaysia
10 Apr 12
it is good if can control our emotional, but i am too bad in controlling my emotion. maybe i am too stubborn on what i want, and i am too care on someone else in my life, so where there is something happen to those i care for, i will really feel unhappy. and sometimes, when cannot achieve what i want, i will also feel upset, i try my best, i do everything, but lastly come out with a doubt, this is really make people feel moody =( hope that i also can control my mood, not to be moody in front of other people
@Archaiwy (599)
• China
11 Apr 12
When i feel unhappy i will think of my sisters.They are ready to help me,either give me some practical advice or just chat with me.I love them .Not only are they kind to me , they are kind to everyone else around them. I am proud of there being my sisters helping me whenever i meet with difficulties.
@dandan07 (1908)
• China
11 Apr 12
The first one I think is my mother. It seems that I am still not mature enough to deal with all the things. In most cases, I will call my mother and ask advice, though i do not think she can help me, the talking with her make me relax and a little happier. Then I can calm down and think about how to deal with the situation and send out to do something to make me happy.
@asdomencil (4276)
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
hi there! whenever i feel sad or stressed, i just open my photos of my son on my PC and it is like magic that i feel so good after. i am so blessed to have an adorable son with a contagious smile so that when i look at him, i feel his genuine happiness and it just makes me feel the same way too. i know every mother or father feels the same way i do with their children. good day and happy mylotting.
@bhonti (1247)
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
I always think of my boyfriend when I feel down. Most of the time I text him to tell him my problems and how I feel about them. He is always there for me, someone I can talk to honestly. I love him so much..
@Cherish14 (2695)
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
whenever i think of the people i love so much, i get so happy... really very happy. but the sad fact is, the people i love so much are far from me. my boyfriend is so so so far away from me. he is in the states and so when i miss him, i also get very sad. and also my nephew, he is far from me now. he is with his mom and i miss him all the time. but those are the people that make me very happy. i just wish i could be with them very soon.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
when i am not in the mood, the person who can ease the sadness or the anger is my husband. When i am stressed out at work, i give him a call and upon hearing him it eases off..and helps me.
• Philippines
11 Apr 12
I also feel unhappy but when I am thinking with my two wonderful nieces that will hug and kiss me, I am not unhappy anymore but I am more happier because they always create jokes, singing in front of you showing their works from school their grades and ask anything as normal kids does, my unhappy mood will be gone.
@olliekobra1 (1826)
11 Apr 12
I dont undestand what your saying, i think your asking who do we turn to when we are moody to cheer us up. I turn to my girlfriend as she is always there for me and will always listen to my problems.
@SinfulRose (3518)
• Davao, Philippines
10 Apr 12
I will think of a friend of fifteen years. He was a classmate when I was still in grade school and from that time on we just got along until he graduated in College. I wish we will still be friends even after that. I think of him as a brother, friend and upperclassman (considering that I'm still in college). Whenever I feel unhappy or moody, I think of him because he can raise my spirits. He tends to do things that will make me laugh. And he's also my first text-mate. So if I really feel down that I can finally never handle my mood anymore, I send him a message and a minute later, I'll start laughing my head off. It's really good to have someone to make you smile despite your moodiness. Have a nice day and Happy Mylotting!