fake friends

Russian Federation
April 18, 2012 6:05am CST
Sometimes i feell like i am alone.... forever... everybody is talking ... laughing. and i am just going alone. i can'tsay that i don't have friends. but at the same time i have them. but sometimes i think that they are not real. they are fakes. I can't believe anybody. i feel like they try to bring me down like they are evil. i do not want to be with them but i have to. Have u ever felt like that before?
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12 responses
• Egypt
21 Sep 12
search and keep searching for friends,real friends..you will find a little and maybe very little at the end
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@ajithlal (14568)
• India
25 Apr 13
I also think that most probably you should try to searching for real friends and most probably you will find one soon.
@jinky2012 (438)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
yes are feel like that before.That everybody of my friends are not good.That they are always their at my back saying something to me.But you know what i did i just ignored them.I don't mind if what they will say to me or what.I just want to enjoy my life.
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• Russian Federation
23 Apr 12
yes, the same situation is with me now. i hate it when they do it. it annoys me and i am like "are you a good friend after that?" of course, not. i wish i could ignore them too. but i know thati can not. i think about something they say after.
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@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
24 Apr 13
I also feel alone and because of my loneliness sometimes I can't avoid to blame my friends because of it. When the time that I can still visit her almost everyday I visit her as long as I have my free time and sometimes I bring snacks for her. I visit her because she said she was alone in there house. She also visit me when she will ask something from me but now that I don't feel well for almost four months because of my sensitive pregnancy she never visit me even once.
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@krizzy (237)
• Philippines
18 Apr 12
yeah..fake friends are all around..they just used you for their own benefits..well, I have those kinds of friends but I don't start a fight with them..I just let them do what they want and I just think that sooner or later they will get what they deserve:)
• Russian Federation
18 Apr 12
lol i agree with you. and i try to do what you do. and i try not to pay any attention to them. but at the same time i know that i think about them but i should not. i wish icould delete them from my life ;)
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
19 Apr 12
I agree with Krizzy. Then we should recognize who is a fake friend and try to avoid them as much we can. I really don't like and care more about fake friends. I have my life and they have their life. I wont keep contacts with them also.
• Russian Federation
19 Apr 12
i wanted to do the same. and i try to forget them nut they might as well come tomy life again. it makes me feel angry. and they annoy me very much. i think the fake ones can be seen 200 miles away. so to identify them is very easy.
@akobuday (124)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
Yeah, I felt like that before. Sometimes or maybe a lot. To the point, I just want to be alone always or I just want to be with my lovable cat, rather than them. I'm kinda an introvert, though. In the past, I trusted so easily. But due to bad experiences having friends, I now don't trust..easily. I am now "on guard". You know, not to open up readily. Have to observe first, then, find out. And I'm glad I have a one true friend. Even though were afar from each other. And take note, not only fake friends but also fake relatives. I got that a lot.
• Russian Federation
19 Apr 12
yeah, you felt the same as me. i hope i will find the one true friend like you did. because i am very lonely and it makes me feel sad. i hadtwo bestfriends but they appeared to be fakes and two-faced. the one of them i deleted but the other i do not what to do with. she doesn't write me anything. may be i should delete her too. what do you think?
@akobuday (124)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
If no more replys or whatsoever, then, do what you really want. Well, I fell lonely sometimes but I just have to think positive. That someday,..."hmmm". Things will work out well. Then, pray to God.
• Russian Federation
23 Apr 12
haha i hear that questionthe first time. everybody tells me not to do it. and i do not know why. but if i did what i want i would not have fake friends on my page. :)think positive is a relly useful thing. :) it always helps.
@dazzledlady (1624)
• Philippines
18 Apr 12
If you feel that they are fake then maybe you better start finding or choosing the real ones. I wont deny that there will be pretentious people around us but sometimes it is because we let them be around us. And it isn't good especially when you have problems and they are not willing to do some sacrifices for you to be able to help you.Why do you have to be with them? If that is the case then you are only lying to yourself and also you are their fake friend too. Like you are using each other.Find real friends and stick to them.
• Russian Federation
18 Apr 12
it is easy to say it. but i have never seen real ones. i had 2 bestfriends but they turned ut to be fakes. it was sad. i have to go to the same place with them, may be i will be able to do anythin in the future to get rd ofthem. i hope. but now i just need to wait. thanks for reply. and i do not think that i am a fake friend. i have never thought how to make people suffer from anything or something like that. )
• Philippines
18 Apr 12
Ok then, we have different definition for friends. I do hope you will find real people to become your real friends. It is sad to live a life without someone other than yourself to rely on to.
• Russian Federation
19 Apr 12
i hope to find real ones who i can trust. yea, it is sad but i have some people i can rely on :DD but not always. that is sad. thank you for a comment ;)
• India
7 May 12
Hey Victoria222, In life it is very difficult to find a good friend and this is what you are facing now. There many many people who just act friendship and take the power in you to do the things for her. They even loot your money. make sure that you had taken a best true one as your friend otherwise it seems like getting a virus into an PC with your permission.
• Russian Federation
5 Aug 12
Hello there, yeah itis . i think that i had 2 true friends. we were together but now we do not talk because she is living in the other side of the town and i do not want to phone her first because i feel myself annoying. :) especially, she saw on the site that i have returned she did not even send a message with hi.
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@haopee (494)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
Yes. Not all friends will stay true to you. Picking the reliable ones is also quite a task. But worry not, you are not alone in this dilemma. Everybody has encountered these type of people and once or twice, some have even gotten in trouble simply by trusting fake friends. But you have to ask yourself, are they really laughing or talking at your back? I used to have the same feeling with everybody around me. I have this feeling that I could trust them but I don't do so otherwise because of the fear that they might just be playing me or faking it. I hope that you get to realize what their true intentions because you might just be missing out on a great friendship if you were to close yourself from the world. Hugs. Good luck.
• Russian Federation
19 Apr 12
it is nice when you are talking to the person that understands you perfectly. :) it is you. and i am sure that they use me. because when i am alone nobody cares they do not want to be with me to talk... but when they are alone they begin to annoy me. why to do this? if you are alone stand alone. and i am like: "why do you need me now?" it makes me feel sad.
@ryanong (9695)
• Vietnam
19 Apr 12
Sometime we have the same feeling like you, don't trust anyone...but better just for a short time while you are moody. Don't be like that in a long time, it is really not good. if you feel that you really don't want to be with them, you can stay alone for a while to make yourself calm. Don't need to force yourself do what you don't want. if do, you will feel painfully. It is not nice with you and your friends also. Keep you smiles!!!
• Russian Federation
19 Apr 12
what a great advise!! thank you. i am doing this always. i prefer not to begin a conversation with them by myself andit makes them think what happened. they begin to ask but they begin to show their real face and it makes me feel angry. too mane two-faced people arond that is what makes me feel bad.
@maezee (32288)
• United States
18 Apr 12
You need to find a new group of friends, that's what it sounds like. I had a lot of those types of friends back in high school, where we would hang out (AKA party), but when I needed them they were never there. OR -- They would talk crap behind my back (talk about two-faced!). I have a pretty awesome group of friends right now. They are real, which is great. And I talk to each and every one of them a couple times a week, regardless if we are hanging out. I like them too because I can be myself around them and don't have to pretend to be something I'm not. I think that's what you need. Anyone that has that kind of negative energy in your life, needs to go. You need friends that are uplifting. The only definite problem is FINDING them.
• Russian Federation
19 Apr 12
i am very glad for you that ypou are happy. finding them is the hardest. i hope that finally i will find and be very happy. that i can be myself talk about everything.and two-faced people are always thee. they are talikng about us and then come to us and tell that they love us. but i can see these types of people two miles away. lol that is why i refer to get rid of them
@savypat (20246)
• United States
18 Apr 12
Don't give your power away. In a way we are all alone, you need to beome comfortable with that. Once you are not in need of others to identify yourself you will find that the people who are attracted to you, really want to know you, they need nothing from you because they are whole people unto themselves. This makes for much healthier relationships.
• Russian Federation
19 Apr 12
aww okey, i will try. but people nowadays are so shy.. lol they can not even start the conversation first. sometimes i see that they want to talk but can not. and this is funny. i hope to find really good people that i can rely on
@ajithlal (14568)
• India
25 Apr 13
I think there are fake friend and real friends. I think it will take some time to find the real friends in life. I think most probably you will find real friends in your life. I think when we get one best friend we will be happy in life.