Diaper Discipline

@talfonso (246)
United States
April 26, 2012 11:36am CST
Have you guys heard of diaper discipline? It's a process in which the child or teen who is incontinent against his or her parents' or caregivers' will (purposely bedwetting or wetting the clothes) or is naughty wears a diaper to show the world that he or she decided to act like a baby. In turn, this form of discipline proves that he or she made the choice to be treated like one. Here's a story of how one boy (he was 12 in I believe the 60's or 70's) received his punishment. He was wearing a sailor-type suit with shorts, like his older brother. He drank two glasses of milk and one of water on the last morning at their relatives' house in New York. He and his family headed back to Virginia, with him and his siblings strapped into not just seatbelts but other restraints. The father previously warned the kids that if they soiled the clothing, they'd had to wear diapers and sleep in a crib. The boy started to act out when they stopped for gas on the New Jersey Turnpike because his father has to take one child to the bathroom at a time. His older brother took long after his sister went to the bathroom. He missed his turn once the attended finished filling up the tank (as almost all New Jerseyans past and former know, this practice is still used today), and had to hold it until they get home. When the car exited Baltimore, the boy became desperate for a bathroom break. His older brother cuffed his ankles for not sitting still and he handcuffed him for touching his body parts that should be covered at all times. No matter how much he resisted, he wet his pants. Thus, he had to stay in bed for a long time, wearing his diapers and having his siblings and parents change them. Seriously? Those parents have to put him in diapers because of him having an accident on the road trip. I can understand diapering past age 2-3 when a certain and credible circumstance like a mental or developmental disorder such as autism causes them to be incontinent. But doing that because a child or teen is acting immature? That's insanity at worst! Do you agree with that bizarre punishment? Have you experienced it as a kid or have done that as a parent? Share your thoughts on this, but please keep it clean. There are some people who treat wearing diapers as a - ahem - grown-up fantasy, but let's keep that out, OK?
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
27 Apr 12
I have never heard about that before, and I think that bizarre is the right word to describe it. I definately don't agree with that kind of punishment. First of all I don't think that it is something that he needs to get punished for. I wouldn't punish a child because he or she wet their pants. He didn't do it because he wanted to annoy his parents, it was an accident and I don't think it is right to punish him for that. The situation is already embarrasing for the boy, and when they ask him to wear diapers they make it even worse for him and humiliate him in a totally unneccesary way. I don't support that kind of parenting. I think it is insane to do something like that to your own son
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@talfonso (246)
• United States
29 Apr 12
Right. If your kid (if you had one) acts immaturely and you tried everything - confiscating his games, chores over vacations, missing playdates/parties with friends, and so on - don't put him on a diaper. You might agree that holding a sign on the street or wearing a shirt that says that says that he disrespects you is just as humiliating, but there's a bit of a silver lining. At least it's more comfy between his legs. But still, both methods are insane.
@clairemn (42)
26 Apr 12
Hi, I have never heard of diaper discipline before, and like you say, that puishment is insane! I would say that the story you describe is almost verging on pschological abuse to the child! There are other ways to discipline children! (Although when it comes to bedwetting or wetting self, punishment or discipline might not be the solution).
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Apr 12
to me that sounds sick and on the verge of insanity. I think that family needs to all be taken to a good head doctor to be examined for insanity. the children need to be put in foster care as this discipline is insane and will certainly louse up the children's minds too.
@lumenmom (1986)
• United States
18 May 12
I have never heard of this (thankfully). This is clearly abuse and I feel so sorry for this boy. If the parents will do something like this, it makes me wonder what other type of "disciplines" they impose on him and his siblings.
@clairemn (42)
26 Apr 12
Hi, I've never heard of that kind of punishment before! Like you say, that punishment sounds insane and almost verging on psychological abuse to the child! So, no I absolutely don't agree with the punishment, there are other ways to discipline children!
• Sweden
10 Feb 14
Child abuse! Please tell the world what's going on.