he's an a........

today of all days, he's got to pick a fight with me! he came home from work telling me that he'll have tomorrow off without pay so he can catch his flight to ms. his boss is sending him over there to help out with another unit. i go to work. when it's time for me to leave work, he calls me to see when i'll be home. he hasn't been able to sleep. so now, i come home changed outfits to go do errands. he gets upset with the errands that has to be done. he keeps complaining about how he's getting short on hours with taking tomorrow off and how he's tired. i told him that i don't care if he didn't want to work tonight. the decision was up to him. he didn't like that answer. we get home. i try to lay down with him so he can go to sleep. that didn't work. everyone in the house gets noisy. he starts complaing that we're having spaghetti for dinner. excuse me! that was my birthday choice. i want spaghetti and as the birthday girl for the day, that's what i get. he tells me that i'm being selfish and unreasonable because i didn't support him and tell him to call in sick. then tells me that what i do doesn't matter. if that's the case, lets see how much of the bills will get paid without my check!