myLot Friends Request and Their Profiles..

@cloud31 (5811)
May 4, 2012 6:13am CST
Hello everyone, We often have a request from a member of mylot community requesting to be added in our friends list, or either way. Sometimes we request to be be in their list too.Its a good feeling having friends here in myLot,regardless in races, religions,culture etc. Usually we added them as friends to be able to interact with them easily. Just curious if you been able to visit their profile when you received a request form one of mylot member? And before adding them in your friends list? I used to visit their profile before accepting their request to have an idea about them before adding them in my list..Don't get me wrong I don't mind being visited in my profile too.Everyone is welcome to my friends either. How about you my fellow mylotters? Are you doing the same? Have a nice day everyone!
12 responses
@glenn4jd (127)
• India
15 Apr 13
Hi, For me.... I do check their profile before accepting their request. But ofcourse I always approve them to be on my friend's list he in mylot. But the problem is I never receive any request. I mean there are hardly 1 or 2 request in months. Nobody wants to add me...... :-(
@cloud31 (5811)
21 Apr 13
That's a nice.You don't receive any request then you should add them instead. Thank you for your response.
@glenn4jd (127)
• India
23 Apr 13
Thanks for your reply and thank for the Add, now there is another friend request for me after you. I accepted you anyway. I didn't have to go through your profile again since I have already gone through your profile since the time I responded to your discussion.
@salma07 (641)
• India
5 May 12
It depends...most of my friend request come from after i start a discussion, if i comment on a particular post or that person is interested enough to be active on that discussion, they just give a friend request..so i just gladly accept it..but after that i do make sure to visit their profile as to get a idea about them because i do want to have a live chat with my friends here in mylot and i absolutely love those who comment back and forth so as to keep the flow..
@cloud31 (5811)
8 May 12
Hello salma, We are somehow the same way of making friends.Its nice to know more members and interact with them from time to time. Thank you for taking your time responding my topic. Great day ahed!
@salma07 (641)
• India
8 May 12
Ya it is a nice way of communicating too, and by the interaction we can knw a lot about that person too. ya it is my pleasure to respond to any good discussion no need to mention it..thanks a lot..you too have a great day and great holiday
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
4 May 12
I accept all friend requests. I rarely see the profile. I saw the profile. If I have many times, met in the discussion.
@cloud31 (5811)
4 May 12
Hello indahfth, How you've been doing? Been a long time since we met here last time.Well maybe your a friendly kind and that is good to everyone of us. A friendly mylotters like you. Thank you for responding friend. Have a nice day ahead.
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
4 May 12
I like to have many friends.
• India
18 Nov 12
yes its very correct to visit one's profile be4 either accepting/sending frnd request (and i do :P )..but i dont think u will get to knw..completely and u cant rely completely on "viewing proile "as a criteria..to deicde to mke frnds....i think..the simple way, ie, jst be frnds..hve few chats..and thn decide...if frndship is to b.pursued or not, is much easier and better way. it feels easy to b.simple ;)
• India
18 Nov 12
haha.i didnt knew.tht i had already had a comment to dis discussion. :P
@dorannmwin (36697)
• United States
9 May 12
Most of the time I won't look at a person's profile before I decide whether or not to add them as a friend on here. The way that I typically discern what friend requests that I am going to accept is if they are active on the site. If a person is not active on the site, then I don't really think that there is a reason to accept them as a friend on here. However, there are times that I will look at people's profile before I will send them a request to become mylot friends.
• India
9 May 12
tumbs up for your way of accepting friend request.great idea to be followed.
• India
8 May 12
hi cloudy.i love making new friends.and also as curious as you when i see some friend request on enrty to my account.yes,of course i do visit the profile to get the idea of the person requesting.but most of the time every request gets an entry into my friend list..and the blame for it goes to my open minded nature. but hey dear friend,one issue greatly concerns me.it is: are all my friends on my lot really my friends.i mean i have hardly had chat with any of them. what i mean to say can all we be actually called as friends.does the appropriate definition of friendship apply on my lotters. no offense was meant in any of my statement.please feel free to correct me in any of the above covered issue. happy my lotting to all.
@cloud31 (5811)
12 May 12
hello neel, Theres nothing to worry regarding your concerned about friends in mylot.Of course we can't say all we have added in our friends list are our friends indeed and beside we rarely speak with them, unless intentionally send them a private message. Anyway friend we can at least try to develop a real definition of friendship if we think its worth to be, right? Just like you my friend I never declined any of those request,it might not be so useful at least we welcome everyone not to hurt somebody by all means. Thank you for being here friend..Have a nice day ahead!!
• Philippines
5 May 12
Yes, I visit their profile first before accepting their request or adding them so that I would have somehow a bit of a background about the person. Also, I am checking if my any chance I have already met them outside internet.
@cloud31 (5811)
8 May 12
Hello lady, You are right and I agree with you, well maybe some of us here meet each other in person already, well yeah its good when you are able to check their profile when adding a friend. Thank you for responding.. Have a nice day ahead!
@Cale2012 (115)
5 May 12
Firstly, I often check their profile and directly accept their request.I want to as many friends as possible.Because my life will be interesting and funny depend on friend in mylot at some degree view.So if they don't show any disrespectful,I would like to communicate with them. If their avatar are interesting, I would go to find profile information or we talk very happy, I will do it.Don't stict about it.
@cloud31 (5811)
8 May 12
Hello Cale, I totally agree with you, we should not restrict friends requests. Its nice to have many friends here and have fun. Thanks for your response!
@yel812 (174)
5 May 12
I always view someone's profile before I add them. But in other social sites like facebook, if the friend request is too many, I don't bother looking their profile because of laziness. xD
@cloud31 (5811)
5 May 12
Hello yel, Welcome to mylot,That's good if you view their profile before adding them. Thanks for your response.
@yugasini (12814)
• Anantapur, India
4 May 12
hi cloud, i have more than 700 friends in mylot site, since one month i have not received any new friend request, till i have not denied any friendship request, when i find a request for friendship,first i will accept it and then see his or her profile, to know who the are ,have a nice day
@cloud31 (5811)
4 May 12
Hello yugasini, Oh that is wonderful you have not decline any request till today. Thats so nice of you. I find most mylotters are really friendly. Well, your way is one of my too.Accept and visits their profile,more convenient I guess. Thank you for your response friend..Great day ahead!!
@albto_568 (1269)
• Costa Rica
4 May 12
Yes, I do check the profile, I like to be sure that is a real member and not a scammer, so, I check the conversations he/she has started and answered, I do not use other criteria, people from other cultures, religions, races etc... they are all welcome. Unless I find anything suspicious in their profiles, I always accept, without hesitating.
@cloud31 (5811)
4 May 12
Hello albto, Nice to see you here again. I totally agree with you.We can all be friends here.Unless of course we have reason to deny the request. Thank you so much for being here.Have a nice day friend!
@yosrinal (65)
• Indonesia
4 May 12
same with you friend, in actually, i am definitely looking for about him or her from their profile. so from their profile i can took to decision, what is her or him that became to list friend my lotter ^_^
@cloud31 (5811)
4 May 12
I agree with you friend! Thank you for your response! Great day ahead!