Its when my baby learn to say " I HATE YOU"

May 5, 2012 5:59am CST
Disciplining a child must be a difficult part of being a parent specially the mother. Its when your once innocent child learn to claimed what they want and decide on their own. Its what you taught and instill unto them are important for them to grow in the way they should. A child is child as always, all they care is all they want and no other than that. Mother will begin to worry from the opposing point of their child and eventually give in to their child's demand which not a good idea.Being firm to what is right maybe hard at first and might be misunderstood by them but for sure later on when they reach their age they will understand and even thanking you for doing so.
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@Archaiwy (599)
• China
6 May 12
Hi. Indeed .If parents' duty to their children is only feeding them , it's so easy.But as for cultivating them is rather difficult. on the one hand, as the children are growing, they have their own idea. Sometimes they can't think overall,but they are difficult to talk into, in which case, a quarrel between parents and children will happen. and often parents are often misunderstood.
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5 May 12
we must teach our children good speech that in the future as an adult he said something good also
@jshekhar (1563)
• India
5 May 12
Hello Sherly, In the modern age, our kids get a lot of exposure to the outside world via internet, television, etc. While it is both good and bad, it is easier and more tempting to pick up the bad things than the good ones. Hence it is our job as parents to really keep a track of what our kids are watching and what they learn out of it.
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@lady1993 (20660)
• Philippines
6 May 12
Yeah, children can be very selfish at times- and always want what they want..It's really rewarding for a parent when the times comes the child understands why the parents do some things and even be grateful.. that time is still far though, maybe late teens.
@Hatley (164450)
• Garden Grove, California
6 May 12
hi sherlysinguran why should a litle child say I h ate y ou unless your idea of discipline is t o beat it into yourchold and then I think I would want to say I hate you if I were the poor beaten child. discipline actually means teach so use methods'that teach right from wrong but not spanking not hurting a c hild as that only teaches one thing, violence is good. no time out, sitting in a corner, losing privileges, there are non violent ways to teach your child right from wrong, hitting does not teach anything but that the stronger person can hurt the smaller one.and for God's sakes never hit a baby thats horrid that not discipline that is abuse child abuse.