LDR is hard to keep going.

May 8, 2012 8:56pm CST
Long distance love affair is hard to maintain.There is always a danger that someone near the one you love might be making a move on your love.Trust and loyalty is very important in this kind of relationship. Even a long year relationship can be destroyed if you cant be there to take care of your lover when he/she needs it.Understanding is also a very important factor to keep it going.....Being involved in a long distance relationship is very challenging to couples.Some worked out, some did not..it depends primarily on the persons involve.Constant communication is a must! The difficult part of being apart from the person you love is maintaining the level of trust.There will be moments when your mind is fill with doubts.The best way to deal with this challenge is reaafirm your love and commitment every single day you are apart,communicate with each other frequently.Talking is an important key to trust, without it you will be unlikely to keep a long distance love affair over time.Having a relationship that is built on trust and compromise is one of the main keys to keeping a long distance love affair alive.
3 responses
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
9 May 12
It sounds to me that you know much about this kind of relationship, so I can assume that you must probably be in one or have been into one or maybe just read a lot about this kind of relationship. I haven't been in this kind of relationship personally, but I believe your statements are very agreeable.
9 May 12
hi there! yes you got it right but sad to say the relationship didnt work out...maybe it wasnt meant to be.its alright, life goes on.
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
12 May 12
That's sad to hear. I always believe, though, that when some things don't work out for you then something better is meant for you. You are right, life must go on so we should choose to live and look at things positively.
@bhonti (1247)
• Philippines
9 May 12
Are you currently in a this kind of relationship? Long distance relationships are really hard to maintain. You need to have a lot of trust to your partner and patience with the situation. But if you survive this, reuniting with your loved ones will be the sweetest.
9 May 12
used to....well, hi thanks for your time...and yes its really hard to keep the relationship going.
• Philippines
9 May 12
are you in a LDR? it is really hard to maintain that kind of relationship specially when both of you are so much committed to each other. and it is very expensive you know. ahm, i know a good movie about LDR's its called "Going the distance" have you seen it? well for me they have the oppurtunity in life to get going for that relationship. and by the way LDR for me when it comes to duration or length of relationship my feelings would be not the same as before. but according to the movie, in order to keep love alive in LDR you have to do phone xes? its kinda wierd but i think ill agree to that.. making love over the phone. i still have lots of things to say but i need your comment on that.
9 May 12
Hi there! ty for your responsed..i havent seen that movie yet, i wish i could.Regarding your question, well i dont really know coz its kinda weird having s...on the phone.But some i think are doin that.