What to do to attract a girl without even saying a word?

May 14, 2012 8:46pm CST
Hi mylotters can u guys pls teach me techniques to attract girls without even speaking? You know just doing sign language or other stuffs.
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13 responses
• United States
15 May 12
There isn't any techniques to teach a guy how to attract a girl except be yourself. Don't forgot to groom yourself & have good hygiene that's a good impression without having to use words.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
15 May 12
that's only if you want to attract the right type of girl. there are girls who are attracted to dirty bumbs. take my sis for example, she is not only dirty, but she went and had a baby with man that is equally dirty. don't get me wrong, i am not trying to recommend that method. lol.
17 May 12
hehehe..your sis must be attracted to rugged guys.
• Philippines
15 May 12
I know I'm not guy but I love when man just stare at me and not fantasizing or doing anything.Just look and smile has a deeper meaning and the movement of body. I like that than kissing or holding hands. Just look at her face directly and try to send your message about how you feel with that girl. For me, it can melt woman's heart.
17 May 12
so just by looking or smiling is attractive?dont u feel awkward?
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
16 May 12
Well i think this is a little bit hard for me,people are not isolated,so i prefer those who communicate more and get to know about each other.With too much knowing,only attracted by their outlook may not seems like really get into other's heart.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
15 May 12
Perhaps you can give her a gift. Girls love gifts and that will give her a hint that you are interested in her. I hope that you figure out what you can do and that will help. Let us know how it goes.
• United States
15 May 12
Hello there Beanyman~! To be honest it depends on the girl, her ideal type, and your ideal type. Some girls rely on nothing but what they see (same goes for guys on occasion) but there are girls who appreciate a warm "Hello" or even a simple "How are you?". Being a girl that appreciates being able to have a decent conversation with a guy, eye contact is a must. I'm a sucker for eyes, so I like being able to see that someone is listening to what I'm saying and not at my chest.
• India
15 May 12
attracting a girl is a one of the great thing and we cannot be able to maintain the attention if a girl is so beautiful so first off all we need a good character . we should be perfect to handle a girl and we should show our nature , our good behave to the girl indirectly and always he do entertainment and so funny and some times we show that we are the hero and we can able to do anything without any fear . and we create a environment at which all should talk about us and all are lovable to us . and if the girl see this all these things she should surely fell in love with us and there is no doubt of about this . so these all things does not comes from a single moment so we to practice and we should involve in that manner then only we can achieve our goal to flate down a girl . keep it man it is useful for your further love life
@simonelee (2715)
• China
15 May 12
My suggestion is be mysterious, snobbish and quiet. Don't talk to much or brag about your self, just listen if you can. Most Korean project them self as mysterious and not so crazy about girls attention though its opposite. They just do it to catches more attention though.
• Philippines
15 May 12
I know a girl wants a man who is so kind, sweet and true.. For me, to attract girl without saying even a single word, do praiseworthy actions like helping others or anything that could make you have an image of being a getleman.. As they say, actions speak louder than words.. so there's a great chance to attract girls by your actions alone.. Moreover, I also like the response hereabove that you also need to be who you are and observe proper hygiene.. groom yourself appropriately, go what's the trend ;))
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
15 May 12
Hello beanyman, Its not possible for someone to impress without speaking.Why don't you impress girls speaking to them.If you can't then why don't you try to improve your communication skills.
• United States
15 May 12
Unfortunately without speaking you don't have a lot of options. You are leaving yourself at the mercy of your looks, and you either have the looks or you don't, if you don't have the looks then you'll have to talk. Of course you could always rescue a woman from a dangerous situation, or write a song and become famous.
@Sindrum91 (254)
• United States
15 May 12
Try listening to them. Intently. Show them you care about what they have to say. You don't have to say anything. Just listen. Give them eye contact, the comfortable kind of course. Don't stare through them. And simply smile.
@KingEric (80)
• Philippines
15 May 12
Yeah. I agree with other people here. The looks matter, man. That's the first thing a girl would observe from you. Look clean and well-groomed. If you're not that hunk or handsome enough, at least look clean. Don't forget to feel comfortable of yourself. I'm no expert but what I just do is act natural... my natural self. Good luck.
• Philippines
15 May 12
For me, I get attracted to a guy even without them speaking by the way they smile and by the way their eyes speak. There are those guys who uses their expressive eyes in communication without really speaking a word or two. Beautiful gaze and smile is always attractive in my opinion.