personally, how do you keep your relationship going?

i remember a couple who seemed to be so together for the rest of their lives since they're in the same workplace and occupying side by side tables at work. they have lots of time arguing too. i think being away from each other is sometimes needed. Everyone goes through a period in their relationship where things seem to sour. Maybe your partner doesn't seem interested in spending time with you anymore, or perhaps he's so focused on other obligations he doesn't have time for you. Before you pack your bags and get the heck out of dodge, you should know that this type of behavior can actually be normal in a long-term relationship.

that's the perfect ratio!The important thing to have a good marriage is to maintain that Magic Ratio of good things for each negative thing that happens between you. this is already the best to share.

hahhaa.those mentioned were exactly our faults.i mean me and my husband.One of the most important aspects of a successful relationship is effective communication between both parties. Lack of communication in a relationship can result in hasty decisions that can even lead to separation. we're really almost on that.thanks goodness, we finally didn't make it through. We need to understand the reasons behind communication breakdown and how they can be avoided to ensure a fulfilling relationship.

i don't think i can live with that. we're in so much trouble even when we're just an inch apart how much more if we're that distant.i just hope both of you can manage a long long way and time.just make sure you two talk on a regular basis and never let distance come in the way of your love. It's true that these kinds of relationships are hard to manage but once you have made a decision you have to stick with it no matter what happens or how physically distant you are.

Where there is anything that's designed, there is a designer. Whether it's a truck, building or train — or even marriage — there is always a mastermind behind the masterpiece. God, the mastermind of marriage, also has a plan for how marriage works best.

hi gelo.thanks for dropping by here. well, you have a point in not leveling with the anger of your significant other.nearly everyone has experienced many downs in our relationships at some points in our lives.many of us have failed to maintain it but still others managed to get through and im just glad im one of them. just keep going .heal, improve, grow and try seeing other person and be happy again.

34 years is a mighty long time! longer than my life time. that is wonderful. congratulations. you set an example for us all. i hope me and mine go even longer.