Elementary Classmates

@aribdee (133)
United States
June 9, 2012 5:50am CST
First of all, I only remembered few names of my elementary classmates. Now, I am in college already. I saw an old classmates of mine but unfortunately she don't talk to me and when she saw me she looked in other direction. Now, What I did was I added her on facebook and chatted with her. She told me that she still remember me but she was shy that's why she looked in other direction. Does it really feel awkward when you meet old friend?
15 responses
@dobsyto (298)
• Bulgaria
9 Jun 12
Well it depends on how much you know each other. However I think that this is true. Just your teacher haven't seen you for long time and now feel like you are other person because you are different now. I actually had the same scene once but I just went to talk with my teacher and she recognised me and we started talking.
@aribdee (133)
• United States
9 Jun 12
Good thing for you. I also had my teacher in elementary. She forgot about me. HAHAHA LOL. Maybe she just don't remember
@dobsyto (298)
• Bulgaria
9 Jun 12
Yes and I'm in this thinking :D
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
It that person is just mere acquaintance, then it would be awkward for me especially if the name skipped my mind already. but other than that, I guess no. I still get in touch with those people whom I consider my friends during elementary days, that's why. But it's a nice feeling seeing people again from your past.
@aribdee (133)
• United States
9 Jun 12
Yes, I was happy I saw her but on the other side I was side because she didn't even talk to me. hehe
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
I think it is awkward at times especially if it has been quite a long time because you do not know what to say or what to talk about.. you would even not even sure if the classmate you saw would remember you if you were the first one to approach and try to talk to the person. =)
@aribdee (133)
• United States
9 Jun 12
Long time indeed. Grade 6 was the last time I saw her. The second time was now in college.
@averygirl72 (37726)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
Maybe its awkward when you're not really that close when you were in elementary. When you're best of buddies, I think both will exert an effort to communicate.
@aribdee (133)
• United States
9 Jun 12
Yes maybe that's right. But still we were close friends when we were younger. haha I just don't understand.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Jun 12
hi, First of all don't mind and don't get disturbed because of the said act of your old classmate. Because she has already told you that she is shy. And because of her said attitude she did not openly talked to you in the beginning. But she is interested in having a conversation with you. Because she has replied on Facebook. So don't feel ackward and continue your friendship with old friends. Best of luck.
@IAmNena (178)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
Really? Maybe she was shy because she had a crush on you since you were on elementary ahah nah....Maybe some people does feel awkward,people change overtime, or maybe she wasn't expecting that you guys should meet that moment that she looked away.I remember some of my elementary classmates, I even met one on the jeepney,he didn't recognized me :)
@aribdee (133)
• United States
9 Jun 12
haha LOL. yeah. but I don't think she has a crush on me. We we're just close friends back then :D
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
11 Jun 12
It is quite awkward when one meets an old fiend with whom one used to be rather close - and can't remember their name.
@hoodedboi (185)
• Philippines
13 Jun 12
Yeah, awkward and funny... but humbling also. That's the time i realized that people remembers us not just because of the big things that we did but also for the small things that made a difference in their lives. So as they always say, Live a legendary life (in a good way though lol) ---Thanks---
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
11 Jun 12
Most of my elementary freinds were also my high school friends, so it is not so awkward.. But those friends whom i only became friends with in elementary, for a short time.. it is quite awkward and i do not like t talk to them first since i am not even sure if it is really them.. a lot has changed.. It happened to me once, we stared at each other for a few times until she approached me and i confirmed that it was en elementary friend.
• Philippines
12 Jun 12
i also do the same thing looking in other direction or pretending not to see anyone. haha. I am scared that maybe he/she doesn't recognize me after how many years. Good thing you made your first move. :)
• Philippines
13 Jun 12
For me yes. It is because of the long time that we haven't meet. I am scared that that classmate will reject me if i say hi or he/she might not notice me. I sometimes play blind,haha! Or when i meet her eyes and she meet mine, I will also look in the other direction, and she would do the same thing! Reading your discussion makes me remember those moments. They are very funny. I always have that kind of experience at the university. And when we meet again, we would just burst to laughter for not noticing each other. :)
• United States
11 Jun 12
It's probably awkward to the both of you because it's like you're supposed to know eachother, but you don't. You know? You had the chance to grow together as children, but didn't take it.
@Austina (92)
• Philippines
11 Jun 12
No, it is not awkward to meet old friend. But for some it is. Perhaps, they are not confident with their life or they really are a shy-type person.
@Chijara (57)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
Maybe the reason why she feel awkward is because she did't know what to do or she has a crush on you before ^^. That's what I felt when I saw my schoolmate in elementary because before I have a crush on him. ^^
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
9 Jun 12
Well that usually happened all the timr especially when dont see each other for quite long period of time. There will have awkwardness and hesistant to recognize each other.We might be afraid if he or she is the person you know or do they still remember you.