What should i do?
By dreamsharmin
@dreamsharmin (2281)
China
July 2, 2012 12:28am CST
I love someone. She also love me. But last 10-15 days she was engage with somebody else means trying to make a new relationship. For some reason she realize that boy doesn't love her. So she come back to me and said everything yesterday. And again wants to stay with me.As she believes that i love her lot. That's true. But she broke my trust. I don't feel to trust her again. She did this things before also. But yes i love her lot. But whatever she did i can't forget her.I want to go away from her though i love her lot.
She said sorry to me. But sorry can't bring my trust for her again. And those 10-15 days she ignored me a lot too.
In this moment what should i do?
Thanks in advance!
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8 responses
@halfbloodace (587)
• Philippines
2 Jul 12
That is a really heartbreaking incident. The answer is up to you to decide. But if i was in your condition, i would refrain my complete trust of her, until she is again tested and true. :D. If i love someone and that happened to me, i still would love that person and would be more true and understanding. Maybe she is just testing you. So look in the bright side, at least she did not leave you. :D Don't give up on her and enjoy her treasure rather than her fields. Cheers for your good relationship. :D
@dreamsharmin (2281)
• China
2 Jul 12
Testing me?She knows i love her a lot. No she is not testing me.Whatever i said it happened.
@halfbloodace (587)
• Philippines
4 Jul 12
I see. Well, i hope you couples will love each other more. Just trust each other. :D Cheers!
@kamaeca (161)
• Philippines
4 Jul 12
If you really lover that much, it's for you to decide to risk into trusting her again and get yourself ready to be hurt if ever. It's up to you to take the chance and give her the chance. After all, you will be the one who'll be in that relationship. Do what makes you happy. :) Good luck.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
2 Jul 12
Well, honestly, if my man treated me like that I'd leave him even if I loved him. Love is a two way street and if he cheated then I would be pretty sure that he did not love me as I loved him. I can't cheat on a man that I love. When i'm in love...I have eyes for one man. Once that trust is broken, things are never the same. Some people can work through it and manage to stay together but its really hard.
@yoyo1198 (3641)
• United States
2 Jul 12
If you want to live with the uncertainy of her philandering then by all means stay and continue to put up with it. Because she'll do it again and again. Eventually she will wear you down until you decide to move on anyway. But that will take a while if you stay with her.
@dreamsharmin (2281)
• China
2 Jul 12
Yes i feel she can do it again. She came back to me not because she loves me because she thinks that boy was not perfect for her. Moreover those days she hurts me lot. I tried my best to expose my love and she just ignore it.Moreover she asked me so many question about him indirectly.Now she wants to come back so say sorry to me and crying a lot.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Jul 12
Well, upon reading your post it looks like she is just using you.
She took the chance with other man hoping she found a better guy and dump you.
Now that the guy dumped her, she's coming to you.
It's up to you to decide.
Love is not all about relationship.
If she can't be faithful from the start, and keep doing it, she can't be trusted again.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
9 Jul 12
If she has done that more then once and broke your trust then there is only one thing to do. Tell her to not bother with you anymore. Don't let the feeling of love get in the way of the real problem. If it is meant to be then it will work out at some point don the road. Move on and find someone else. Maybe that will teach her that she cannot go around trying to go out with other guys when she is with someone already.
@udit1985 (19)
• India
2 Jul 12
if she had did this things before also. then you must go away from her, if not then you should forget that 10-15 days of your life and must go with her.
@maxzo11 (24)
• Bulgaria
2 Jul 12
bad story... if she did this before, she does not love you! I think she comes back to you because the other boy didn't want her. abd you are "stop"for her and she comes and does and you are still there and waiting for her! be recovered run from her, she is not for you, somewhere there is a girl who will love you !
