True Love Waits: Saving your self for Marriage

I;m on your stand with true love waits....I've been into few relationships but I'm happy to say that I still able to keep my virginity. I still in the belief that the first should be the last!

I feel the totality of trust when I am her first because I know she has the capacity to keep away from temptation. Modern girls are so different now from the old conservative girls and only few of them resist the lustful act of giving oneself to anybody without the sacrament of matrimony. You know it still feels good that you both partners offers yourself to one another and to God as He has to be always at the center of any relationships.

I was actually thinking about this several days ago. A friend of mine was into failing relationship and when she asked for consolation from me and talked about several things, she mostly shared the fact that her husband was cheating with another woman. One thing that she pointed out was the fact that the husband said to her that he loves this other woman more because he is her first-time. My friend was devastated because she cannot comment on it since he wasn't her first partner. I know it seems shallow. But men are generally shallow - well not only men but everyone else. While listening to her, I always thought it was 'unfair' because the guy's reasons are not really valid. But there's a strong point about being the 'first'. It seems that men treasure their women more if they knew that the girl had no prior experience. I confirmed this too with my other male-friends and as much as they didn't want to be sexist, they do prefer a woman who hasn't slept around with other people yet. So, I think it is important that a person tries to wait. It's not about being conservative. But simply protecting oneself against prejudice. Regardless how 'equal' people think the sexes are these days, most people are still prejudice against a woman who has been with a lot of partners. I don't really know the full explanation of how to analyze a man's brain or mind. But I guess it's about men's ego. As we all remember, men are known for their thirst of adventure - wanting to be the first in everything! Perhaps that explains why we should keep ourselves intact. After all, most men out there are only after one thing - being the first to pop your cherry. They might say everything to make you feel secure, but nothing proves security more than marriage and commitment. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!

I agree with you gracie, couples should wait instead of doing it at a really early age. I have heard of girls that are only doing it since everyone in their school has done it. And she would be a social outcast if she was still a virgin. Virginity is really something priceless and it is the purest thing you can give to your husband or wife. One should rush oneself. Just be patient. The day will come for you. And if you wait, your marriage will be more special since it marks the day of the couple physically joining themselves together.

Rare facts of ones relationship that can only base on trust if u have saved urself doesnt mean he/she will....But sure is the way of building trust i agree with u,