I have noticed that the people at home quarrel less often now

@hotsummer (10387)
Philippines
July 17, 2012 7:31pm CST
So I am glad that I was able to change the situation at home. Every time they would start to raise voice again I would remind them that we don't have to shoot so as we would listen to them. I can hear them fine even if they just whisper as we are just at home and we can hear each other easily without shouting at each other. Everytime they would get angry I would immediately point it out on them that there's no reason to be angry on some small things that we must overlook Now people at home have learned to be more cool, I could easily focus more in my life with the more important things in life.
3 responses
@Pose123 (21667)
• Canada
18 Jul 12
Hi hotsummer, It is very true that speaking in a low calm voice helps to control our anger. You are very wise in suggesting that people not raise their voices. Blessings.
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
Hello hotsummer, simply because at home we have our own spaces and privacies in our home. unfortunately that can't be helped most specially if the person is too obsessive what they want and what they supposed to have at home. well, that is what am doing now, am trying to be cool and not let be angry because it won't result good. Have a Nice day
@ARIES1973 (9534)
• Legaspi, Philippines
18 Jul 12
That is a a positive change and it's good to know that your family learn to be more cool.