A 10mins phone conversation with ex bf...
By itsmechelle
@itsmechelle (114)
July 26, 2012 10:30pm CST
I had a hard time falling into sleep last night due to dizziness. While I was trying to fall asleep, my phone rang. I thought it was my co-worker calling, but then it was my ex-bf's name that appeared on my mobile's screen. I did not think twice.. I answered his call. lol. We already had previous phone conversations for the past few months since we broke up 6 months ago. So we talked for 10 minutes and that was past 12 midnight. He was asking me why am I not having phone conversation with my boyfriend at that time, too. It seems that he's curious about my new love life. He was always trying to ask me about me having new boyfriend. And I always answer him that I am still single which is the truth, but he doesn't believe me.
I just realized that despite what he did and what happened to our relationship, it feels good being friends with my ex boyfriend. It feels good that we can still talk as friends. We even said goodnight to each other. ;-)
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6 responses
@SachseMom (448)
• United States
27 Jul 12
It must be good to still have a good relationship with your ex. I've never been able to do that plus my current boyfriend never was to keen on the idea! As long as you are ok about being fiends with him, enjoy it!!
He may be asking about your current boyfriend because he wants to make sure your happy or he wants you back.
Hope things work out for the both of you.
@itsmechelle (114)
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27 Jul 12
He probably just want to make sure I'm happy, not because he want me back. He has already a new girlfriend. ;-)
@xxpress (4)
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28 Jul 12
You should know that if he no longer loved you, and had moved on he wouldn't have called you. not at that hour. not at all maybe. in my oppinion you cannot be friends with your ex boyfriend/girlfriend. not if you had a serious relationship based on love. as a conclusion he didn't call you just to make sure you are happy, he called because he probably missed you and because he probably still loves you. or he wants to know if you've moved on.
@itsmechelle (114)
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28 Jul 12
Well he just probably wants to know if I have already moved on. I really don't want to think that he still have feelings for me, because I know that he's in love with his girlfriend.
Personally, EXs could be friends somehow. But maybe just a case to case basis. It's really not that impossible I guess.
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
10 Aug 12
it is good to hear that you and your ex is having a good relationship despite the break up. i just wonder why he's calling you at that wee hour when he should have called someone else like her current girlfriend. But I think as long as that conversation won’t hurt the feelings of her new girlfriend, then their would nothing be wrong with that. I do have some communication with my ex’s too, but I always make sure that it won’t create any conflict to his and my present relationship. I see no wrong in making friends with an ex, as they become once part of your life, but one should make sure no one would get hurt ib the presence by doing so. Thanks for sharing your story.
@rsa101 (37955)
• Philippines
27 Jul 12
Well for as long as there are no dangling emotions from the past then I guess you can do that with your ex bf. I think that is a very rare thing to happen when a relationship ends and your one of the exceptions I guess in here.
Since your BF is in a relationship already, I think this would be practically awkward if the GF knows about this call. I think he should be calling on her current BF than he calling you at this time. It would be nice perhaps that you start to break this habit of him calling you in this unholy hours as well and would rather him calling his real GF rather.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
27 Jul 12
Only 10 minutes conversation I observe some girls pass full night with conversation of their boy friend. I think he was your ex boy friend so you spend less time. I know you feeling good after talking with your boy friend. Thats good still your ex boy friend is good friend.
@diezmara22 (818)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 12
I think that's a good thing and may not be detrimental also to be lived, because the former is not always to be an enemy. Better than our enemies, mending fine relationship with the former, not because of a problem when going out to carry around a long time.
Maybe if the former can be better to be friends again, especially in its attention. that I've ever had :)
