if u love someone that ur parents dont like will you still be with the person?^^

I would keep seeing that person because one my parents are dating that person nor will they be marrying the person I choice. If it bothers them that much then they don't need to see me at all.

I would not listen to no one. Thats just the way I am. I never listened to my parents when I wanted to be with someone. Even if they did not like them. After all, it's not them that has to live with them, it is me. So, I would stay with the person. You need to make your own choices.

I married someone that my parents are against with. They don't like him but still I married him. I never regretted loving him-thu he cheated on me and our relationship did not last that long. But then again, my kids are the best consolation that I have for loving him. Sometimes we must listen to our parents- they knows best for us (maybe not for always, but it pays to listen to them)

My parents did not approve of who I married. I have been married for 7 years now to him and he is my soul mate. We are perfect together. We complete each other. My parents wanted me to marry this other guy who had more money and could support me more financially. That is not who I was in love with though. I followed my heart and I am so glad I did! I have never regretted my decision. Without him by my side I would never be truly happy. My parents were wrong and I am so glad I did not listen to them. They were only thinking about the money, not who makes me happy. I would rather have love & happiness than have lots of money and be miserable.

This is really a hypothetical situation for those who face this type of confusion. Well to my knowledge, i would have let go my love for my parents sake as i feel whatever their decision would be in the best of my well being and it would be highly unfair if i would go against them for my love.

This is really a dilemma for young people. If their parents are too hard on them, they will just be afflicted to keep their relations. But if they gave up their true love ,they won't be happy in their life. It also reveals the conflictions between parents and their children.I've seen a man who insisted to marry a girl despites his parents' opposition at the beginning. He even roared at his parents:I won't marry anyone else in my life!! However, his father was so mad at them and was badly ill ,being feverish on and off for nearly a month. So finally the man had to succumb and splited with the girl. Sometimes it is just hard to persist ,because we have to be filial and take care of our parents.But I think that there is still a chance: Before we give up we should try to please the parents and try to let them accept us.On the other hand, parents should also be considerate about their children: Let them choose what they love.

Of course . Think about this - what is the point of allowing anybody else (including parents) to make decisions about your relationships? If you are still a minor perhaps... but if you are 18 or older definitely not. As an adult past the age of consent, it is nobody's business but your own who you choose to have in your life, from friendships to relationships. I have two adult kids, I do not interfere at ALL in their friendships or relationships nor would I consider interfering. Keep in mind nobody else lives in YOUR head and YOUR body. Your parents don't know everything, your friends don't know everything, your coworkers and other family don't know everything, and certainly none of them have any expert knowledge of how to choose the right person for you. I have never cared (nor will I ever) what other people think of the relationships and friendships I choose to have. It is my choice, my choice only, and other people are completely delusional if they in any way think their opinion makes a difference. I do not tell other people who to be friends with, who to date, who to marry, or who to avoid, I prefer to allow people to make their own decisions about their own lives, and I expect the same exact courtesy from friend, family, or stranger alike. People who give unasked for and unwanted advice get ignored, and people who try and interfere get cut out lol. I really wonder about people who allow the opinons of others to cause them to leave someone they care about, or to question a friendship that is important to them. Don't you think YOUR opinion and how YOU feel is more important than what other people tell you? You never know what the motivations are for other people to try and change your mind or interfere with your life. I have a good friend whose fiancee eventually left him because her family 'didn't like him'. I emailed her and pleaded with her to stop listening to her family over a guy who loved her but it fell on deaf ears. I still don't understand how or why she would put THEIR OPINIONS ahead of someone she had planned to marry but this is just one example of something I do not understand, and I lost all respect for her when she left him. I think it is a sign of weakness to allow other people to change you.

Hi, This is an age old concept and we are sure there are so many people are suffering with such occasions and we need a way out, a proper way out without hurting either parties. Normally, in situations like this, and both the parties are so strict on their part, one group would have to suffer and the other party will manage to do it with a painful situation. Now, we have a moral obligation to our parents as being their son or daughers. Also, they supported and loved till date and when it comes to our own way forward, we just ignores them on the basis of our happy future. Also, we never think why our parents are against it. So, there may be a lots of issues to be analysed and studied and find out where the problem is and try to resolve it. Normally, if we like someone and preparing to get married with her/him, and if our parents are not aware of it earlier, they may oppose it. Here we can look for some solutions. What we need to do: Before we get into an affair, we ourself need to study and forsee the consequences and find a most suitable person as our partner. Importantly, family, education, wealth, nationality, religion (cast & creed)etc. In the modern times these all are having not much importance when it comes to a love affair. But for a better futuere and peaceful life, it is better for us to have a though of such criterias. If we get into a proper affiar, our parents may not have much grounds for an opposing reason and they have to support or they will support for it. I mean, just before our relation is going deep, better to have an open discussion with the partner about all, and if both parties are ok to it, they can proceed. Whatever it may be, when it matters to a 'LOVE' affir, people normally won't care about anything and that is the main reason why parents won't support to it. In any case, if we are decided to get married withe our lover, we need to make them understand and request their support in whatever reasons. Even if our repeated requests and discussions, parents won't allow, the lovers may take their own decision for a better life whatever they are looking for.

hi sweet, I've been my family don't like my ex boyfriend but since I am in love I don't listen to them our relationship lasted but unfortunately we are not meant to be so separated sometimes our family can be right but of course if you really love someone you will fight for them. happy mylotting

it's really hard to be with the person your parents don't like but maybe someday they'll just eventually accept him/her. for the name of LOVE, if you really love each other then, you must fight for it. it's hard to look for another true love. parents will do everything to make their child happy even it's against their will, they'll still accept whoever you like but be ready for thoroughly observation of your bf/gf.

if you love someone that ur parents dont like you still be with the person? maybe or maybe not, bec. sometimes when you with the someone you love is good but sometimes love is not enough but if you really love that person and you will take the risk its love. but what if your stomach is empty you will lost your love for that guy. bec. if he will be irrespondable to you. and your love will be hate. and if that hate will be big its better to go separated.

if your parents don't like that person means try to figure out what they dint like about that person and make that person to correct the mistakes. But if the person dint have anymore mistakes and is quite perfect means make realize your parents about your lovable one by doing some reliable things. In case of me, my parents decided me to born or not, my parents decided me to study or not, so my parents decide me whom i should marry or not...take care sweetie..

i would surely go on my choice.....how can we be satisfied with those with whom we are totally not ok.....i would rather convince my parents.....but not the choice that i dont like at all

hmm... Maybe if it happened with me, I will discuss more with my parents. And hope if there's a good solution for both of us.

I think that we should respect the opinions and judgments of our parents, but in the end we havr to follow our own hearts. it won't be our parents building a relationship with this person, it will be you. You have to stay true to yourself. Your parents may not like someone but that doesn't mean they are not the person for you and there is every chance to remain together.

Hi sweet love forever: I value the opinions of my parents and I know that if they don't like my couple there might be a reason why but at the same time they should respect my decisions. I know they will disagree with my choice because they want the best for me and they find this person is not the right one but at the same time I have control on my own life. I would listen to them. I will consider their own reasons but at the end of the day I'm the only one who can decide and they also have to respect my final choice. ALVARO

For me, I will give it a try. In time, my parents will understand. If I let this chance go it will forever haunt me and there would be a part of me that will blame my parents because they keep me from being happy. I love my parents dearly and I know they will understand that I what i am going to do is not to rebel but to follow my heart.

yes, if i really love the person and want to be together. i won't care about what my parents think. becuase sometimes your parents can't know your thinking and they think they will help you to make better choice. but the choice you really like is the best choice. you have your own life so i you want to life happier, sometime you don't need to listen to your parents. becuase you can make your own decision for your life. your parents always care about you and want to give you a better life. but you should choose by yourself.