Unconditional love

@Angelpink (4023)
Philippines
August 8, 2012 11:39pm CST
Do you believe in an unconditional love ? Have you experience it ? I for one experienced such , i loved someone without asking for a reciprocation . Yes , it's tiring and hurting having this kind of thing but i am left with no choice , i can't unloved him. No matter how i we fight each day and how i got mad from him , after following hours when my anger sinks in , all those hurts , angst and pain will be forgotten and end up looking for him , forgiving him and eager still to connect and talk with him. I can't really fool myself , that is really what i feel. Tell me am i fool or just being true to myself.
9 responses
@Raine38 (8987)
• United States
9 Aug 12
My very first ever experience on unconditional love is from my parents. They even love me even before they see me. They love me no matter what or how I turn out to be. It is also the only love at first sight that I believe: the moment my mom sees me, she fell in love with me, the truest purest form of love.
@violann (437)
• United States
9 Aug 12
I agree with you Mom's do love unconditionally no matter what we do. They may get angry with us because of some of the things we do, but they never stop loving us.
@Angelpink (4023)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
Thanks Raine , i love your name. Yes , so true parents do have unconditional love to the children. Loving the children without expecting any in return, giving almost their lives , time , financial support , anything which they can give they will and this is what you call as unconditional love.
@Angelpink (4023)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
I agree with you Ms. Violann ...thanks for joining in here.
@lampar (7597)
• United States
9 Aug 12
"Unconditonal' love is not love at all, it will never possible in reality. Couple will always has certain type of condition for each other to keep the love relationship going strong, without the conditions, it normally won't last long. As human nature is selfish, unforgiven and self serving, an unconditional love only exist in one's fantasy world.
@Angelpink (4023)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
Hi Lampar , irespect your view and opinion but still i will say , that there is , it do exist , take from my own experienced. Yes , might be human nature is selfish but there is an exemption to that..and this is the unconditional love. Thanks Lampar.
@Angelpink (4023)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
Hi Lampar , irespect your view and opinion but still i will say , that there is , it do exist , take from my own experienced. Yes , might be human nature is selfish but there is an exemption to that..and this is the unconditional love. Thanks Lampar.
@toniganzon (40000)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
It won't be called a relationship if one loves another and it's not reciprocated. Unconditional love means not being selfish. It means loving someone for who or what one is. But it doesn't mean we should not be treated well in return. We need to be logical sometimes, to know whether what we are in is healthy for us emotionally. Hope you'll find the answer to your own question.
@Angelpink (4023)
• Philippines
25 Aug 12
That is why it is called unconditional love because no conditions are given , reciprocated or not , fine . It is more of him or them rather than me .
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
Please forgive me for what I am about to say. I am no hypocrite or what but I believe the only one who can love unconditionally is God. Men will always be men. We have our needs, and even how much we fight for it, we will seek and ask for our needs to be satisfied, especially with love. I think you love so much that someone, but if that love is unrequited, unreciprocated, eventually that love will grow weary and tired. You may endure it for months, years, or until the day you die but are you happy? Is it healthy that things are just like that? We are not the source of love, God is. We are limited. We have our limits. We can't give and give and just give. We need something in return. We may not demand it from the person. But we need it in order to go on, to continue loving. I think, this is just my opinion, if you continue in this situation, you may end up hating this person, or you may just give up and go with it, then lose the joy of life. I may be wrong but I hope you take time thinking about this matter.
@Angelpink (4023)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
So beautiful words , yes God is the perfect example of that unconditional love. True we have our needs and it needed to be fulfilled but if you're having that unconditional love , you forget those needs , you forget yourself and you become selfless. Often have read like what you said but just being so true to myself , up to the present i am not tired , don't you worry i will tell you if i will..lol ~! I am not portraying as a saint but this really what i felt. I become selfless. Your words are just so true , am respecting it , it's full of wisdom.
@shello (964)
• United Arab Emirates
9 Aug 12
Hi, Angelpink. I hope all is well with you at this moment. Well, that's love, it's stubborn and forgiving. But I'm really hoping that the one that you love will somehow realize and acknowledge your feelings for him. However, if the fighting continues and you will continue to get hurt, you better give yourself a reason to move on and forget him. At first it will surely be very difficult but as they say, time heals all wounds and then you will just realize that you have finally let him go. I know that you deserve someone better and you deserve to be happy after all. By the way, I knew someone who had loved me so unconditionally, and I'm sure he loves you too. He is watching you all along and He has a great plan for you, just focus yourself to Him and everything will be so easy. Allow him to reveal himself to you and try to listen to His call. He loves you unconditionally and He is waiting for your call. His name is Jesus. My prayers are with you. God bless!
@Angelpink (4023)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
Shello , that is what am telling , unconditional love can happen and mine is he just can't love back , because he don't believed in such thing . Love for him is sacred and to the highest level that it just can't be given that easy. But he may don't have that thing in fairness also he deeply cares for me and fulfill his responsibilities to me. Each of us define and draws love in a different , unique and amazing ways.
@monkmano (586)
• Canada
9 Aug 12
I wholeheartedly believe that unconditional love does not exist. Every relationship has some terms, some rules. my mother tells me she loves me and my sister unconditionally but i think too that even that love could be broken. it is in the opposite direction children to parents. and i think that with a romantic relationship it shouldnt be one sided it is foolish it isnt being truw to yourself! being true to yourself would be knowing you deserve someone who actually loves you back.
@Angelpink (4023)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
Yes , it is beautiful to be love back but life is sometimes so amazing , that sometimes loving you is no longer your concern , so long as he is there then fine. This is such an unselfish love.
@cherriefic (4173)
• Baguio, Philippines
11 Jan 16
Unconditional love is the one I feel for my kids. No matter how they seem to be hard headed and all, at the end of the day I will always love them.
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
yes i do believed in unconditional love. first is my love for my son im willing to give my life for him coz he is my life.. 2nd is my bf, its hurts knowng that i could not have him for some reasons but still then my love for him is endless and whenever he needs me i always make sure i am ready to be at his side.
@violann (437)
• United States
9 Aug 12
I do believe in unconditional love our parents have it for us and we have it for our children (those of us who have children) Unconditional love is loving someone regardless of what they do or how angry we get at them. It doesn't mean that we let people walk all over us or take advantage of us. It doesn't mean that we can't say no to them or that we should comply to their every whim. Sometimes it requires that we say no, or walk away and let them figure things out for themselves. Yes you can love someone unconditionally and stay or walk away.