"Experience of Life"

@prashu228 (37525)
India
August 12, 2012 9:36am CST
hello friends, Recently i went to my grandfathers village, we stayed there for ten days. I went there after a long gap of five years. I feel very sad to say this, but i didn't visit my grandparents all these years ,because of lack of time, but others family members used to meet them. Now , when i met my grandparents after such along gap, i felt very excited, and i used to find each and every word/sentence spoken by them as very precious. After returning to my city, i remembered each and every word of them and its deeper meaning, no books or teachers can ever ,explain us about life the way our grandparents do. "EXPERIENCE IS THE HARDEST KIND OF TEACHER IT GIVES YOU THE TEST FIRST AND THE LESSON AFTERWARDS" mylotters what are your views on this , please share, am i wrong in thinking so?
4 responses
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
12 Aug 12
hi prashu, yes you are right the saying of the elders are good and they have said all those words with their past experience, i think you are still young to know about life, i have seen two ups and two downs in life,means worry with money ,happy with money, now i am ok,but i trust on fate and luck,according to that only our life will turns,have a nice day.
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
13 Aug 12
hi, yes, i very useful to be with elders , to know about life, especially, in our country, where the grandparents and grandchildren share a very special kind of relation , which is coming through our generations. thanks for the response
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
13 Aug 12
hi prashu, thanks for the response, i am also just like other people worrying about my fate and luck,but after reading a translation of Telugu version book of "T Lobsong Rampa" i have changed my mind and left everything on fate and luck, if it is written in our luck or fate, surely we have to bare it,so spending life accordingly,have a nice day
@prashu228 (37525)
• India
13 Aug 12
*it is very useful
@else22 (4317)
• India
13 Aug 12
No,you are not wrong,prashu.Instead,you are absolutely right.You are really fortunate to have your grandparents still with you and you can visit them any time.They have seen many ups and downs of life and learned from them.They can teach us what we can learn from nowhere.I have not seen my grandparents.They expired long ago.And now I have lost my parents as well.The teachings of my parents still keep guiding me whenever I am in trouble.
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
13 Aug 12
hi, yes, they are very precious, thanks for the response
@else22 (4317)
• India
14 Aug 12
Invaluable.Thanks.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
19 Aug 12
Hi prashu, I think that you are right and that experience is the best teacher. I know that I have learned much more from the experience of living than I ever did in school and I have heard others say the same. I feel that I learned a great great deal from my own father when I was growing up. I did not know my grandparents as they had passed away before I was born. Blessings.
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
11 Nov 12
yes experience teaches us many things , and we understand it better than any other teachings. May be that is life,i have learnt many things when was deceived by friends and others , learnt the importance of parents and other things.
@blummus (451)
• United States
12 Aug 12
Sometimes I think the only course to becoming mindful is to suffer the results of not being so. I'm glad you were able to visit your grandparents while they are still alive!
@prashu228 (37525)
• India
12 Aug 12
yes, time is the best medicine, i am glad that i am able to learn some useful things from them.