"No One Is Perfect"

@prashu228 (25808)
India
August 12, 2012 1:41pm CST
hello everyone, I often hear people saying "find good people and leave bad ones" but i feel it should be " find the good in people and ignore the bad in them " as no one is perfect. friends please share your views.
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23 responses
@ravisivan (14055)
• India
12 Aug 12
prashu: You are hundred per cent correct. World is full of perfect and imperfect people. These people only are included in 7.2 billion human beings. Ignore the negative in others and carry on doing your duty to the best of your ability. good day.,
@sjvg1976 (18368)
• Delhi, India
12 Aug 12
And that is the way life goes on there is nothing right if we see a bad thing in a person and criticize him/her for it,its always better to ignore and see whatever good quality he/she has.
@ravisivan (14055)
• India
12 Aug 12
sjvg. yes. this is in respect of individual lives. but when it comes to society we have to have rules and regulations and they should be followed largely.
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
13 Aug 12
what are the rules when it comes to society? i am very curious to learn..
• Philippines
13 Aug 12
Nobody is perfect. That's true and that's why we should not try to look for one. There are always something negative about a person but if you think that he is really a good friend, then you can just ignore that negative thing about him. As long as that negative thing is bearable then I think it is fine to hang out with that person. Besides we are the one who decides for ourselves. So even if there are some things not beautiful about a person, you can still find him adorable. It depends on your outlook in life.
@toyota4k (1212)
• Philippines
13 Aug 12
All have agreed that no one is perfect. There never was recorded in history a man who never erred. The bible itself attest to that but only the Lord Jesus has never sinned and lied.
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
13 Aug 12
hi, yes , we all have some or the other negative aspects, which may look like positive in our view, but the same may not appear as negative from others point of view, so it depends.thanks for the response.
@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
Ok I think will agree with you in some situation.. How about if somebody always make to you a bad things - did I always give a chance because nobody perfect. I don't think so because sometimes people doesn't learn from their mistake, they always think and being a passport the nobody's perfect. you got my point
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
13 Aug 12
hi, absolutely , agree with you, i have seen such people, who never learn from their mistakes/ bad things. Instead they argue , that they are right. thanks for the response
@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
14 Aug 12
So nobody's perfect is applicable only in some situation... but some are using it as passport like one saying "just a human being". using this as a key to scape some mistakes is considered not good trait of character of person
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
15 Aug 12
i agree with you no one is perfect but the only one perfect is our god. we can not ignore bad people they will always come in our life, we are not perfect we forgive just like god. we just try to be good at all the times,
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
16 Aug 12
hi, yes no one is perfect , and we should try to forgive others when find any fault,thanks for the response.
@Pavan_m01 (115)
• India
13 Aug 12
I has to agree with you. No one in this world is perfect. Inorder to find the good and bad things in a person, we has to get in touch with them, understand them and there current condition. Then only we can judge a person and come to know about his good and bad things.
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
13 Aug 12
thanks for the response
@Axai2012 (371)
13 Aug 12
I don't exactly agree with ignoring the bad in them always. Why ignore it, when you can help them change for the better? Though there are some things that some people can not change, you might as well. But I still believe that people should change especially when the attitude is the problem.
13 Aug 12
I have to agree with you. Certainly we can help people understand to change the bad in them. Some people will not change but others will or might change if they are made understood that the bad in them is harming themselves and they should change it for the best.
• India
13 Aug 12
Hi friend, i agree with your quote, we must find out the good from the people and ignore the bad things, we can try our maximum to change the bad to the good ones, but it is really hard to find the good people, we must be very lucky to have a good friend, better to change our bad friend in to a good one with our affection
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
13 Aug 12
hi, yes luck also matters, thanks for the response
@Jshean20 (14373)
• Canada
13 Aug 12
Yes I agree that this is a nicer way of putting it. If anyone in life seems perfect then they must be a good actor/actress because perfection doesn't exist.
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
13 Aug 12
hi, yes i have seen some people of that kind , i used to think , how good they are , but the actual ,personality used to be completely different, i understood this when i started making friends with the people, because i am much impressed with their acting, but the truth was different.thanks for the response.
@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
13 Aug 12
hi prashu, you are right no one is perfect here, if we are perfect there is no need to take the birth on this earth, with some imperfection we take birth on the earth, so do not worry, when you have to select a thing from a bunch, you will select your like thing,just like that invite good and ignore bad that is enough,have a nice day
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
13 Aug 12
thanks for the response
@marguicha (97243)
• Chile
13 Aug 12
I agree that noone is perfect. But I try to learn about what is good and what is bad about the people near me. Sometimes I can put up with the bad part and ignore it, sometimes it makes me stay away. We cannot all be friends, although we can respect each other.
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
13 Aug 12
agreed, because, the one which appear as positive for us may appear as negative for others, so cant blame, but yes, we all cant be friends . thanks for the response
@Paper_Doll (2375)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
I agree, nobody is perfect. Every now and then, we stumble and commit mistakes. What you said is true, it is important that we don't give much attention or highlight other people's faults and weaknesses. This is very important especially in marriage where differences and incompatibilities causing marriage breakdown. Remember that we are all imperfect and capable of committing mistakes so we should set reasonable expectations towards other people.
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
13 Aug 12
hi, i agree, expectations are always there in any relation, and they also play a crucial role, and yes we all commit mistakes, at one or the stage ,and that's life thanks for the response.
@sjvg1976 (18368)
• Delhi, India
12 Aug 12
Hello Prashu, I agree no one is perfect in the world we have to find some good qualities in a bad person and ignore his/her bad qualities.I know people need to identify first what is wrong and what is right in him/her to improve him/herself.
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
13 Aug 12
hi, yes we should first try/know who is the right person , and yes all kinds of people are found on this earth, we cant ignore it, thanks for the response
@Mark72125 (135)
• United Arab Emirates
12 Aug 12
Yes,I completely agree with you.You can't expect someone to be perfect.You have to find the good things in them.Because,I believe that it's almost impossible to find someone whose perfect.Everyone has their faults etc, so everyone should look for someone who is good in general.
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
13 Aug 12
hi, yes we dont find any one who has this hundred percent good in them, i never come across any one till now, even the friends whom , i thought the best , betrayed me, thanks for the response
@hsofyan (3448)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
12 Aug 12
Agree. No one is perfect. I love to make friends and have lots of friends. We advise each other vices respectively. In fact I rarely praise the kindness of friends, in front of them. I don't know, what the appropriate sentence for this.
@prashu228 (25808)
• India
13 Aug 12
yes respect is very important, if we dont respect each other, then definitely that relation isnt worth or doent last longer, its just like acting in front of each other.thanks for the response
@Elisa1234 (7676)
• Philippines
28 Jun 17
Yes. I agree no one is perfect. My nose is not perfect! I hate it! But I am still pretty hahaha
@Pose123 (21667)
• Canada
19 Aug 12
Hi prashu, The idea that there are good and bad people is ridiculous. Your way of putting it is exactly right. People are not good and bad, just different, and you will never find a person who has no faults, neither is it possible to find anyone who doesn't have good points. Blessings.
13 Aug 12
The world is not in any shortage of good, kind, nice and honest people. In fact, the world is full of good people. Good people are kind, honest, nice and understanding. In my opinion we should find the good in people and ignore the bad, but at the same time I would not be with some one who are full of vices. As no one is perfect, we just try to be as good as possible.
@sukumar794 (5047)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
13 Aug 12
It is a common truth that none of us are perfect to the core.All of us carry with us weaknesses which another one would find fault with. In a bid to achieve perfectness in activities most people engage in all sorts of vile and inhuman deeds.
@Axai2012 (371)
13 Aug 12
I don't exactly agree with ignoring the bad in them always. Why ignore it, when you can help them change for the better? Though there are some things that some people can not change, you might as well.
@ryanong (9694)
• Vietnam
13 Aug 12
Yes, no one is perfect and i have to find out my man who can match with me only, not a perfect man. We all have 2 sides bad and good sides and sometime one person is very good with us but bad with another person...