searching a partner through chat

i think is not an easy thing searching or meeting a people to fall in love using a chat but i knew some people tried and happened like that so never say never...all is possible even from this point of view!!

I totally agree that nowadays its easier to find a partner with the help of technology.Just like me, I find my boyfriend on the internet and we enjoy communicating with the help of technology.

It sure is. Technology gave us things a lot easier to do and achieve. But with this online chatting , it could sometimes be dangerous as there are people with bad motives makes use of the internet to get away with their plans. I just hope you get really careful in dealing with people over the internet.

Personally, I find it very dangerous searching a partner through chat. We may enjoy having conversation with someone we don';t know but how do we really know if they are being honest in everything they tell us. If people we personally know can fabricate good stories about themselves and their life, what more a chatmate? I won't question those who successfully had a good and lasting relationship already, I guess they were so lucky to find a good partner through chat. But I think only 10% can be lucky while 90% would just be victims and might have a failed relationship.

You might be correct but with that there is also a risk couple in that situation..There are some reports of crimes happen in connection with that. People engaged in that set up need to pay more care and safety especially meeting in person with what you called virtual boyfriend.

I had experienced this thing. We met in an online community and we decided to be lovers though chat. He said that he wants to meet me but I refuse to. And then, he still constant in pursuing to meet me, he drove from his place into our house and said that he wants to meet me even for just a minute. I agreed then surprisingly, he arrived. We chat for the first time and he asked me out. We date. Yes it's true, love is there even when you just met in social world. But unfortunately, you'll never know one person just through internet. We broke up because he reveal that he already has a girlfriend.

I am very sure you could be enjoying searching your new found acquaintances,but please no searching for your future mate because there are many instances that you might encounter a bad guy in the internet,just like you enjoy text messaging but no searching of your husband in this ways.This is just a friendly reminder from a concern someone who like all of us all the safety precautions.Even if he says that he is from a well off family,remember that lying is the most simple explanation why surfing the net is very dangerous to find someone you wanted to find.You can not say a person is the right one for you if you are still seeing each other through chatting and emails only.Lovers who see each other everyday can still experienced the real person in their love ones when they tried to live as live in partner to prove the ability and capabilities of their relationship.How much more if you just see in the internet even if you see everyday you can not detect the evil intentions of your chosen partner.So choose wisely my friend and do not become a victim.

welcome to mylot. I am not having any statistics. But being an elderly person --I would caution persons deciding based on chat discussions. there have been many instances where a man chats as a woman and vice versa also. See the individual in person and then decide. Do not meet a person deciding already.

Haha...this is very danger searching partner from net or chat. Your partner will for some time only because after some days they find again new chat partner. Without seeing fall in love is danger for life. Because I watch the live show about it. One girl fall in love with a boy and they chat to each other but when they meet a danger incident happen boy was already married and the father of one child. He was 40 years of age and the girl was only 20 years of age. He upload his dashing photo but not original photo.

There are dangers to that as well. Not everything is a fairy tale. It would be good if both parties are really looking for someone to fall in love with. On the other hand, falling in love in such setting is kind of a needle in a haystack for me. Oftentimes, people who engage in those chat or dating sites just look for someone to chat and that's it.

Yeah I think it is amazing if you can find your true love through social networking or something like that, I have ever got one but it didn't last I guess long distance relationship was so hard for me.