How Can We Convince Womankind that It's Their Duty to Find Every Guy a Mate?

@mythociate (21437)
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
August 17, 2012 12:22pm CST
I mean, they started it with the addendum to the creation story ('God looked on all He had made, and saw that it was good ... but He saw that it was NOT GOOD for the man to be alone ... so--with man in a deep sleep--He took one of his ribs and formed woman'). How can any woman "believe" that story and yet not have access to some universal matchmaker-chart (making sure no one is alone)? We single men need a woman to lead all the other women in designing and maintaining such a chart ... or is there some other way that womankind can properly attend to the loneliness of mankind?
3 responses
@Lindalinda (4111)
• Canada
18 Aug 12
Dear Mythociate, I can't follow you exactly. Why do women need to properly attend to the loneliness of men. Are you saying this is a duty that a woman has? The other point is he story of creation. It is only a story you know. If it was factual men would be missing a rib in their skeleton but as you know they are not missing a rib. I think as long as humankind has been thinking they have wondered how we got here and what our purpose is so over time many stories of cretion evolved in many different cultures. They are interesting and fascinating to read and to think about, but they are just stories.
• Canada
19 Aug 12
I can't believe you said this. You are certainly entitled to your views but I do not believe that the majority of people in any country or even any religion believe this.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
19 Aug 12
Said what? That woman was made for man? That a species without a purpose needs to mutate until it finds a purpose? Something else?
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
mythociate is right linda, first reason why God created a woman is for a man to have a companion which in general she is really for him if we are talking about religion, God, Bible, spiritual or what so ever. It is in new generation where women created their own beliefs and rules in life in addition to what God's first role to them.
• Philippines
18 Aug 12
Convincing a woman or a person is one of the hardest thing to do specially if a person you are trying to convince has strong integrity. For me, I think it is both men and women have a duty to find a mate because that is our main purpose here, "to multiply" so we don't need to convince men or women since it is already our nature that we need someone and we going to look for that someone, so it not someone's duty but our(human beings) duty instead.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
18 Aug 12
Well, I am disabled. An 'abled' person would be the only woman for me, but she would probably reject me in favor of another 'abled' person. (Oh, for the days before women were allowed to deal with money! then I would be the solution to her disability and she would be the solution to mine ... her, working & unable to use money; me, using money and unable to work ... would be perfection!)
• Philippines
20 Aug 12
Ah i see, sorry to know that. I didn't know you are disabled. But there are women who are capable of loving a guy no matter what the situation a guys is facing you see, there are disabled men out there who are worse than your situation but still they were able to find a mate and even get married. . But I don't know if they live happily ever after =)
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
20 Aug 12
I think most of those guys met their wives BEFORE their injuries. If there are any you know who met their wives AFTER their injuries, where did they meet `em?
@violann (436)
• United States
17 Aug 12
Well I don't know about an addendum to the creation story, this is the first I heard of it. What would you suggest be on that chart. I believe Christian singles or E-Harmony may have something like that. Check those sites out you may find what you're looking for there. Also remember womankind get lonely also so maybe mankind should work on a chart of their own to properly attend to the loneliness of woman kind. I have found that you cannot prevent someone from being or feeling lonely, I know I was with someone (15 yrs) who was always feeling lonely no matter what I did or say. So no it is not up to womankind nor mankind to attend to another's loneliness, it's up to each individual to attend to their own loneliness, because if you can't enjoy your own company you really can't enjoy anyone else's company. Just saying.
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
17 Aug 12
But how can anyone enjoy your company if they're too busy (enjoying their own company) to visit you? I saw the beginnings of my idea for a matchmaking-chart on Catholic Match, where they give you a little test to rate you on the scale of Four Temperaments: Sanguine, Choleric, Melancholic & Phlegmatic. I'm not sure how well the types go together (for instance, my Sanguine/Choleric type with a neighbor's Choleric/Melancholic), but a chart showing how each of the types go together would be a good start---listing all the people of each type in one section.