To Say Hello or Not?

Why don't you use your womanly charm in asking for their help on some works to be done, rather than giving them all to you. I was thinking that if you are the lone girl in a company of males, they will treat you like their sister, hence will be helpful to you. I was shocked that your real condition there is very much contrary to what i am thinking.

Firstly, I think you should report about your colleagues behavior to the highest authority in your office. Tell him how your colleagues put their workload on you. Also, be firm in refusing to do their work. Secondly, you should not bother to say hello to such colleagues. Just concentrate on your work and give your best in your work.

In my opinion, you might as well be above them. Kill 'em with kindness, I've always said! If they really are treating your poorly, you should be SURE to subtly guilt trip them by saying "Hello [John], how are you this morning?" Whenever someone is rude to me, I try to do this - shock them with my niceness. I think it probably bugs them more than you being rude back to them, actually. It sounds like an unfair working situation. In all seriousness you should probably start looking for something else, or at least look to get whoever is in charge in trouble for their gender discrimination.

Say hello. Greet them every morning. Smile at them. And asked their help when you need it. Like you, I am also the only female here in the office. Although there is one dominant colleague here I just ignore it and do my usual work. I try not to take every thing too personal and sometimes I just try to calm myself down so I wouldn;t have to argue with anyone. I explained and defend myself if necessary.

Be casual, there is nothing harm if you greet them every morning. It shows how professional you are. Then, do you thing in your job. Don't let yourself be affected.